he tells me i cant wear skirts because they're too revealing. but i think that i should wear whatever i feel comfterable in.
2007-03-09 13:12:57 · 18 answers · asked by melody 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, it's not. That's a sign that he's way too controlling.
Tell him to shove it, and wear whatever you want, hun. It's YOUR body, not his.
2007-03-09 13:16:51 · answer #1 · answered by Ms Blonde Ambition 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's getting a bit too controlling you think? What else is he going to tell you to do if you start behaving like he wants you to? If your not demeaning yourself, like looking like a tramp street walker, and you are comfortable with what you like to wear then he should put up and shut up. If he acts ashamed of you then that's his problem; not yours. He doesn't have the right to dictate what you should or can do with your life. Once you start being subservient to any person then you are in a position of being rolled all over on. And who needs that? So maintain your freedom independence. You two can still be a couple without the strings attached or to be bound by any psychological shackles.
2007-03-09 13:41:01 · answer #2 · answered by quantumview 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 00:08:33 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. It's not. If he likes you in those things when you wear them for him, so will other guys. Maybe he sees it like this.... She's with me, so I don't want other guys to see what I saw in her, and her sexiness, etc... Believe it or not, he needs to know you're not trying to attract other men the way you did him, you want him to ALWAYS look at you like you tempt him to do bad things. If it causes that reaction from other men as well, why should he care? You're wearing it to turn him on, not for them to look at you! Just because he likes it is the reason you should wear it. If it makes him want to make love to you all the time, why would you want to turn his hormones off? Tell him if old lady clothes turn him on, fine! If you wear those, and suddenly, he starts looking at other women in short skirts, or his sexual interest in you plummets, you'll be back to dressing even more seductive. I bet if you tell him that he has to compliment you when you wear elephant ankle panty hose, polyester pants, and a loose (make you look fat) turtle neck sweater to convince you it's the right thing to do, I bet he'll think again! Does he really want you to look UNSEXY?
Tell him he has to dress in a plaid (w/ high waters pants) business suit, with an unmatching plaid shirt, a hot pink bow tie & old 3 stripe Kmart tennis shoes if he wants you to dress like that! See what his response is!
2007-03-09 13:30:43 · answer #4 · answered by lisalikes70scheese 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He sounds like a bit of a control freak. Are you his girlfriend or his slave..In a relationship you should respect each others opinions. I dont see where a skirt is revealing. He has issues.
2007-03-09 13:18:27 · answer #5 · answered by Jerry G 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your situation.
If you want a boyfriend who will control you, then yes, but only AFTER you have discussed what is and what is not acceptable for him to have control over.
Also, if you want it to be equal, then if you agree to let him tell you what you can't wear, then you get to tell him what HE can't wear.
You have to have a discussion and set the boundaries before you get into that.
2007-03-09 13:23:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody should tell you what to wear and how to be. It's always good to take fashion advice from people, but they can't TELL you what to wear.
On the other hand, I hope they aren't too short. Nobody wants to look like a slut.
2007-03-09 13:18:10 · answer #7 · answered by KristaElizabeth 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
in a way it is but really no you can wear what ever you whant just tell him just tell him what you think you should wear what ever you feel comfterable in.
2007-03-09 13:18:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course not! if he met you & you dressed like this then, he shouldn't have a problem with it now. you are who you are.
you have to express yourself however you like to. it's never ok for any man to tell you that you CAN't wear certain things. you're not his property or his child.
you think right. if he can get away with telling you what to wear, what else is he going to try & control?
good luck
2007-03-09 13:20:40 · answer #9 · answered by RedDevyl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself if you actually look like a skank in those clothes. If they are very revealing, you should probably take into consideration that he feels protective and doesn't want other men checking you out. Whatever your conclusion, you had better talk it through with him. He may decide he doesn't want to date you any more.
2007-03-09 13:17:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋