want to break up with him? I never really liked him. I, well, "admired" him once but that was only because he's genius smart. But then I found out he liked me and I guess I was caught up with the "idea" of him. He asked me out I said yes, but he is soooo blase, omg SO BORING. and Well I wanna break up with him, but let him down easy. mind you, I'm his first girlfriend eek. and well I feel really bad for being uch a first girlfriend, but i REALLY find that I don't like him at all at least not romantically. HELP!!!
2007-03-09 13:06:14 · 10 answers · asked by goesonyahooanswerswhenbored 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah, u need to break up with him for sure. ok, to let him down lightly, u need to just tell him that u like him as a person, but u are just not interested in developing a relationship with him. another idea is to tell him that u want to date all different people and make friends with a whole range of people, and that ur not interested in a relationship with him. OR u could just exaplin to him that u dont think you and him are working and explain how u think its best u just remain friends. dont break up with him via email or msn or text because thats just low and not fair to the guy. wateva way u break up with him, u need to do it to give u both a chance to be with other people and to be happy again.
good luck
xoxox
2007-03-09 13:15:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him what every person tells someone when they break up, "I just want to be friends". It's a classic saying, but it works. Give it a try, there is no easy way to break up with someone.
2007-03-09 21:10:33 · answer #2 · answered by Harry D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats excatly what happend to me!!!Its horriable isn't it...well its very hard to tell a guy that you want to break-up with him especially if your his 1st gurl!But try & talk to him like in person,& tell him that your not sure of him & that you don't really know him well enough & that you need time & space about him=]Wish you luck;)
2007-03-09 21:11:09 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find a reason to like him make him work for girl wats wrong with you. In other words use him.
Or
One can look at it like this. You His life meaning your the life f the relationship/ Oppsites attrach remember that
2007-03-09 23:23:13 · answer #4 · answered by star7money 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say maybe things are not working out for you. Sometimes the thruth is better than talking your way around stuff.
2007-03-09 21:10:22 · answer #5 · answered by FishyFace 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its sweet of u to be so concerned about his feelings. i applaud u ! besides being gentle and honest , i have no advise for u. but i am sure that however u do it, u will be as kind as possible. best wishes
2007-03-09 21:42:57 · answer #6 · answered by DEBI M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just say that u really enjoyed the time you went out but you think you just want to be friends with the exuse ( i just cant be dating right now) i know its a lame exuse but it works...
2007-03-09 21:11:46 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
omg!!!! huever u are that was like me......he asked me out and i sed yes and i only was his gf for 3days.im in yr7 tho....just break up him and say that it wont work out.....i liked this boy once and wen he sed he likes me evrythng changed.....so dont do wati did cos i didnt break up well i just sed i dont want a f******* bf
2007-03-09 21:10:04 · answer #8 · answered by εїзR@iiNεїз 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know now before u hurt him later.....just tell him and relieve yourself from being with him.
2007-03-09 21:10:35 · answer #9 · answered by mrs. MJ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're just gonna have to tell him....
2007-03-09 21:09:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋