I met this guy at school two months ago and we are going on a date next Sat. night, and this will be my first date. So how far is it ok to go? As in holding hands or stuff like that.
2007-03-09 13:01:55 · 17 answers · asked by kelly 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ok im in high school hell (b/c I had to move in the middle of my Jr. YEAR ) and nothing is going so good, then one day this sweet boy comes up to me and mumbles something like"do you have any friends yet" and well, we started dating : ) so, im just wandering what is an acceptible limit? As in kissing and stuff?
2007-03-09 16:23:39 · update #1
only as far as YOU want to go!!! not how far he wants to go. it's all about you honey. no rules here. just be safe...don't do anything your not ready for!
2007-03-09 13:05:30 · answer #1 · answered by RedDevyl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There is a general idea that it's not acceptable to go all the way on a first date. Especially for women. She is considered 'easy'.
But holding hands, hugging, and 1 or 2 kisses is acceptable, and won't leave the guy thinking you are too 'easy'.
2007-03-09 13:07:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a guys point of view if you give it up meanig the stuff we will use you until you say thats enough. if you care for him just hold is hand and get to know him before ou jump you can hold is hand, hug but no Kiss or French Kissing becuase Guys have a tendence to want more or grab somthing else whil the kissing like your butt Hint Hint.
2007-03-09 13:07:58 · answer #3 · answered by star7money 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should go as far as you feel comfortable with. Dont do anything that you feel embarrassed about. If he holds your hand then hold his back if you want. Try not to take things too far because it is only your first date. Just stick with the basics get to know eachothers boundries and carry on from there!
2007-03-09 13:06:56 · answer #4 · answered by Katie S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A handshake or even a hug, is acceptable at the end. Leave something for him to think about. Dont be so quick to give it up. Holding hands walking out is ok too. It all depends on how yall feel together. Good luck.
2007-03-09 13:06:49 · answer #5 · answered by tennman012000 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Depends on who you are. Alot of people don't kiss on the first date. But I think it's okay to go that far. So just the basics. Don't make yourself look too easy.
2007-03-09 13:05:01 · answer #6 · answered by sammytoes 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm not to far. just maybe a peck at the end of the date, that type of limit, and maybe a hug. you kno ur comfort zone. but i mean you shouldnt go past a peck, and i guess holding hands isnt that fast. But never go fast on the first date.
2007-03-09 13:06:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Make him work. Kiss on the check and a big sincere heartfelt thank you (if it is deserved) is acceptable for a first date and will let him know you like him (if you do). If not, thank you and good bye is sufficient.
2007-03-09 13:14:16 · answer #8 · answered by Mos 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hugging. Maybe a kiss at the end of the date. You don't want to to anything you're going to regret.
2007-03-09 13:03:52 · answer #9 · answered by Misty Eyes 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends on your ages. how well u know one another. is there any chemistry between the two of you? and how well the date is going. i think it would be acceptable to hug or get a first kiss.
2007-03-09 13:06:12 · answer #10 · answered by intelligentanswergrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hold hands, hugs and a good night kiss should do it for a first date!
2007-03-09 13:06:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋