Family & Relationships - 8 March 2007

ok so there is this guy who has liked me for a little over a month now.. i told him off at the beginning (because i had just gotten my heart broken) but then i just went on a first official date with him (i had "hung-out" with him before) and i had the best time on this date (monday).. but the thing is is he told me he was going out with this other girl (which he has liked Forever.. but told Me that he didn't like her anymore at all) last night and so they went on a "date" i guess. so it just makes me mad because he talked bad about her to me and told me he didn't like her anymore.. but he obviously still does.. right? so anyways, i think that he doesn't want to have a Girlfriend.. just wants to play around.. and i've never been the type of girl to want this.. but i kindof Don't Mind this "playing around" ...is this horribly bad of me, since he probably only wants me for my body.. he doesn't really Care i don't think it seems. maybe i am just settling since committment hasn't worked?

2007-03-08 11:56:49 · 9 answers · asked by coolio 4 in Singles & Dating

the accent color is silver

2007-03-08 11:56:24 · 18 answers · asked by tawnyatee 1 in Weddings

we just started talking again after a few years of not being able to because he had moved away for college. we broke up bc of a really silly situation. but ive never gotten over him, hes the most amazing guy ever.

2007-03-08 11:56:21 · 2 answers · asked by Mary 1 in Singles & Dating

Well this guy yelled out infront of the whole school infront of all the teachers and students. That he loved me. I know he dose not really love me. I mean i am only 13 and he is 14. These are the details of my last question and now i really want to know what to do next. I mean come on i have no experiance.

2007-03-08 11:56:12 · 7 answers · asked by soccerbabe 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 11:56:07 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I can't tell whether or not I should have the eyeliner and extras or just foundation and mascara. Which do guys prefer?

2007-03-08 11:55:19 · 11 answers · asked by The Random Blonde 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 11:55:09 · 2 answers · asked by boo 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Since we can't throw rice, confetti or bird seeds, we need an original idea for an October wedding?

2007-03-08 11:54:48 · 20 answers · asked by Nancy B 1 in Weddings

I show her all the time. She tells me that she wants me to tell her exactly how I feel about her. Then when Im just looking puzzle....she gets kind of upset.

2007-03-08 11:54:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfriend, however he is 20 years older (I am 35 he is 55). He has had children, and doesn't want to start over. (Although he has said if an accident happens he would be a dad all over again.)

Most days I am very happy with our relationship. Most days I don't want children.

But on occasion I wish I had a child. And I would rather bring a child into a family where both parents want a child. But even then most days I would still rather have a child with my guy.

Then I think maybe I should find a new guy. Maybe I can find someone my age who wants to have kids before it becomes even harder for me to have kids. But I never was lucky at dating. Then my bf calls me while I am babysitting my nieces and nephews and I realize I love him and don't really want kids.

Is this a grass is greener on the other side of the fence situation? Is it just my biological clock ticking?
Would you stay or go?

2007-03-08 11:54:29 · 6 answers · asked by Jamie 2 in Singles & Dating

And I mean that as in do you spend time with them. Why or why not? I never eat at the dinner table and just today as I got my food from the table and left downstairs I thought to myself, is this really how my family is? Does anyone else feel the same?

2007-03-08 11:54:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

O.k there's this boy who both me and my friend like but today he wrote her a note saying he loves her. One of his friends gave it to her so i do'nt if there telling the truth.

2007-03-08 11:53:47 · 15 answers · asked by sam316547 2 in Singles & Dating

okkk i have a new bf and he is 16((im 13)) and i like him alot...,.but just now wen i tryed to talked to him he signed out then said he has hw i'm sure he doesnt well he says he luvs me everyday but idk wats going on i need help!!!!!(((i live in fl and he lives in cali)))

2007-03-08 11:53:47 · 5 answers · asked by FAVORITE :] 1 in Singles & Dating

My bf who is 22 and I'm 21 he doesn't have sex with me as often, when we do, i please him but he doesn't bother he just sticks it in. He never touches me there anymore. I have asked him why and he never does seem to answer, just tells me there is is nothing wrong with it.

I feel like we are growing apart. I know he loves me but I dont know what to do. He never listens to me. Forgets i am around sometimes when he has mates over, even just with three ppl, i am left out a bit.

He is always pointing out hot chicks, and I mostly ignore it.

He never cuddles me because he thinks its not like a man to cuddle his girl.

Should I get out of the relationship... I feel like he is the reason I'm getting more depressed.

He does spend alot of time looking at his desktop wall paper which is a hot chick in a bikini wet.. on his wall he has a calander to a page of someone it reminds him of,. and some other posters.

AM I being stupid, by staying in this relationship? Any advice please.

2007-03-08 11:53:02 · 2 answers · asked by ca4btts 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 11:53:01 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He justifies things by saying, "It's because I'm an a$$." he thinks it's cute and sometimes it is.

2007-03-08 11:52:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

alot of drama went down this year ( which is my senior year ) i dropped out today!!! i am so sad.. i had good grades, but i have to move out of my mom's house. I hate it ... i guess i will find out who my true friends are ? well i am getting my GED and i still am going to the community college around here. I just feel like i failed. My mom is a er nurse, and my dad owns gas stations. My brother went to jail, and our family has been through alot. I feel like trash, and i am nothing. do ya'll still think i can make it?

my mom told me to go work at wal-mart ! nothing against wal-mart.. i just thought i could work as a waiter or something..


can someone tell me about a GED and what you can and can't do with just having a GED?

2007-03-08 11:52:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I broke up with a boyfriend to date this guy. I was so nervous about him though. We both worked together but in different areas of the store. I found out he liked me from one of his HS friends. He is 25 while I'm only 19. My mom who is SUPER overprotective ( this is a serious understatment) okayed me to date him. I wanted to make sure she was ok with it from the get-go because while I go to college I'm still living at home.

So we started to date. Never before with a guy have I ever wanted to say "I Love You". He felt the same way because we wanted to make sure that we weren't just saying it but really meaning it. After a week of dating him, I said those three little words and he said them back. He was a little miffed that I beat him to saying it but I knew what I was feeling and had never felt like this before. I never really dated in HS so this guy was my first real romantic relationship. I was a virgin when I met him and he knew that.

2007-03-08 11:52:29 · 2 answers · asked by p_shell1987 2 in Singles & Dating

are u a rock? kidding i just wanted to say hi!

2007-03-08 11:52:10 · 20 answers · asked by hannah1 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

my bf doesn't think that i still like him....almost everytime i talk 2 him i tell him that i love him and he says it back (or the other way around) but he doesn't believe me anymore.....he lives in a different state and i really like him (and i know he likes me) but he says i dont act like i like him anymore and i dont act any different then i used 2......how can i get him 2 believe me when i say i love him again??

2007-03-08 11:52:05 · 6 answers · asked by the idiot down the road 4 in Singles & Dating

my father is a sociopath, and alcoholic, and a druggie. He played my mother and I against each other when I was younger and made my sister feel like he didn't love her. He walked out a year ago but his alcoholism has gotten horrible. The man has been stalking my family (literally) by stealing our mail, reading it, then returning it. He has been breaking into our house and leaving beer cans. I can't get over the fact he doesn't live with us anymore. I am afraid he will get so drunk he gets alcohol poisoning, has a heart attack, or one of his organs stops working. What can I do to not be so afraid? When I tried confronting him about it, he laughed and said it wouldn't happen. I still don't get along with my mother because of the damage he did. I am starting to wonder why I should even worry. He doesn't seem to care about it. I pray every night. What can I do to not be so worried!?

2007-03-08 11:51:44 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Ever know someone who just buggs you? Makes you want to scream until one day for one reason or another something about them lowers the hatred long enough for a date, then two, then one day you realize, you don't hate them and you don't want to live without them. Sound familiar? Never Happen? Could it happen? Has it happened in some way? Tell Matticus, he WANTS to KNOW.

2007-03-08 11:51:27 · 6 answers · asked by Matticus Kole 4 in Singles & Dating

SHe broke up with me cause everone was presuring her. I know she still likes me but she likes other guys too im a softy in our school and she goes for the sexy type but they have a rep to keep so the break up wit her to look good and the jus like her looks but i like her heart a personality she knwos taht shes still likes me will she take me back??

2007-03-08 11:51:25 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do u breath throught your noes when u kiss some one or do you hold your breath?

2007-03-08 11:51:23 · 8 answers · asked by alleycts9 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 12, I'm pretty, I'm smart, I'm funny, I'm nice, and I know how to treat a guy... So why don't I have a boyfriend? I mean my friends told me all this nice stuff about me... I don't really like to brag... But, I mean I'm just heartbroken because I don't know why... Is it because I'm shy? If it is, then tell me how I can overcome my shyness... Thanks... Guys are awesome.

2007-03-08 11:50:49 · 10 answers · asked by ... 3 in Singles & Dating

I have put down the pimp game and Im ready to settle down. I am done with sluts and random sex. Just wanted some input from some classy woman on how to treat/interact you know general tips on how to win some of you prizes over. Any tips / help would be great thanks!

2007-03-08 11:50:18 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-03-08 11:50:01 · 48 answers · asked by bill h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How come when men get really hurt by a woman its seems they can barely recover when a women gets hurt repeatedly before she give up????

2007-03-08 11:49:55 · 12 answers · asked by exceptionallyexceptional 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ever thought man I want to change my life. It sucks. Everything about it sucks I just want something to pop into my life and make it drastically different? I have. So will you marry me?

2007-03-08 11:49:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The catholic priests will not perform a wedding outdoors. Does anyone know where I can find a clery/minister/pastor that would be willing to do this?

2007-03-08 11:49:30 · 4 answers · asked by IK 1 in Weddings