My bf who is 22 and I'm 21 he doesn't have sex with me as often, when we do, i please him but he doesn't bother he just sticks it in. He never touches me there anymore. I have asked him why and he never does seem to answer, just tells me there is is nothing wrong with it.
I feel like we are growing apart. I know he loves me but I dont know what to do. He never listens to me. Forgets i am around sometimes when he has mates over, even just with three ppl, i am left out a bit.
He is always pointing out hot chicks, and I mostly ignore it.
He never cuddles me because he thinks its not like a man to cuddle his girl.
Should I get out of the relationship... I feel like he is the reason I'm getting more depressed.
He does spend alot of time looking at his desktop wall paper which is a hot chick in a bikini wet.. on his wall he has a calander to a page of someone it reminds him of,. and some other posters.
AM I being stupid, by staying in this relationship? Any advice please.
2007-03-08 11:53:02 · 2 answers · asked by ca4btts 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How do i no if my partner is getting sick of me
2007-03-08 20:04:05 · update #1
Yes, he is the reason that you are getting depressed.. and you will get more depressed if you stay with him, unless he changes his ways.
Maybe he's bored with this relationship. How long have you been his gf?
Not cuddling his gf is not unmanly, not making her happy is.
He doesn't think how you'll feel when he left you out, not listen to you, looking at chicks, etc. It means he doesn't care if that hurts you. Good relationship should have good comunnication, good feelings, good will to make it work.
Even though he loves you, he doesn't try to make you feel loved. Love should make you feel happy, comfortable & sure. If you're getting more depressed, and wondering should you stay? That's the sign to get out of it (I think), or at least make a big effort to change it. Looks like he doesn't like to talk things out, so it would be difficult to make it right.
I suggest you, make a last effort to tell him how you feel. EVERYTHING. Then, if he doesn't change, leave him. If he comes back begging you to stay & he will change his ways, give him a second chance. If he doesn't change or doesn't look you up again, it's better to be with someone else who treasure you.
This is your live. Don't waste it on someone who depresses you.
2007-03-08 13:47:58 · answer #1 · answered by Akai 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to p-ss off you don't deserve to be treated like that
You putting up with him dosen't give you any self-respect
2007-03-08 20:20:54 · answer #2 · answered by snowluk 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋