How come when men get really hurt by a woman its seems they can barely recover when a women gets hurt repeatedly before she give up????
2007-03-08 11:49:55 · 12 answers · asked by exceptionallyexceptional 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
We are diffrent, very diffrent when it comes to matters of the heart. Women love differently than men.
2007-03-08 11:54:08 · answer #1 · answered by Ms Kamm 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As much as we try, we treat boys differently to girls. Girls are expected to be emotional and express their feelings. Boys, on the other hand are supposed to be the protectors...the tough ones....so while they feel just as deeply as a girl/woman does, if they show their feelings, in their eyes mainly, they appear to be weak. Human understanding has come along so far, but it seems a lot of men are still living with the age old idea, that boys dont cry. You would be surprised at how many men still feel that way. When our babies are born we buy our little girls pretty pink things and teddy bears and beads and pretty's. Boys get trucks and spider men outfits...so really, they are conditioned to feel this way from birth.
Men also seem to suffer more heart attacks than women do, and I believe that is because they keep their emotions bottled up inside. I think boys conditioning is the reason men dont cope so well when they are hurt deeply.
2007-03-08 20:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by rightio 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men are problem solvers, and they seem to want to avoid any problems that came up with in past relationships with their current lady. Women are more sensitive, emotional, and sentimental, that's my reasoning for it. I'm not a quitter, and neither are men, but I think that men don't want to have any of that crap happen to them again. Women can let it go. It's good and bad on both sides.
2007-03-08 19:56:23 · answer #3 · answered by SillyKimmie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because women are nurturers and believers. We believe if we nurture enough the relationship will improve so we repeatedly stay in way too long.
2007-03-08 19:53:59 · answer #4 · answered by j05gemini 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i've seen plenty of men that were just too dumb to realize that maybe they should give up
and ive seen plenty of women that run and hide from life after a bad crush, not even a relationship but a crush
2007-03-08 20:25:31 · answer #5 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men think they are God, and they at so shocked to learn that they can be hurt too. They think they are untouchable, and it can never happen to them. So then when it does they are so shocked and it hurts! Besides... Woman are stronger! Look what we go through in life. (periods, child birth, etc) and Men go through nothing! They have it easy in life!
2007-03-08 20:08:11 · answer #6 · answered by BE HAPPY! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Genetics. Men get better at it the more they are hurt though.
2007-03-08 19:58:15 · answer #7 · answered by John J 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
THANK YOU!!!!!
Men are really more "emotional" than us, although they are trying to hide so badly.
Men don’t fall “in love” as often as we are….. Women, but when they do, BOY it’s… well—you know what I’m trying to say… =)
SMILE!!!!!!
2007-03-08 19:55:43 · answer #8 · answered by L!LO 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Women also give birth.....
I'm not a women's lib, but in some instances...women are stronger.
2007-03-08 19:53:27 · answer #9 · answered by lc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she like to work things out, were if a man what,s to work thing out she give him a restraining order, so if he,s smart he will jest give up easy.and die of a broken heart.
2007-03-08 19:57:37 · answer #10 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋