Family & Relationships - 1 March 2007

He is using me for my company. What is wrong with me expecting him to pay my bills in return? P.S. I do have a job and other boyfriends-the married guy likes me way more than I like him. If he doesn't continuing paying graciously-you guys are telling me NOT to tell the wife? Are you nuts? I am just having a little fun-at HIS expense. HE deserves it anyway for cheating on his wife.

2007-03-01 03:27:08 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mom has 7 brothers and sisters, and all but 2 of them live out of town. Those that are in town are not the best people to have at family gatherings. They can be rude and have alcohol problems, plus family problems, and they only ever contact my mom when they need money. Two of them did not attend their own mother's funeral, nor my mom's wedding.
However, my mom is jealous that I am closer to my dad's family, and is making me invite all of her family so it will be "even", and says that they probably won't come. I know that there is a chance they might, and if so, I really don't want them there. My parents are buying all the food so they say it's not my decision on who is invited since I'm not paying for them to be there.
Is is fair for me to take the chance to have people I do not want at my wedding when they have not taken the chance to be involved in our lives? Is it ok to tell my mom fine, invite them, but if they come I will not be very social with them?

2007-03-01 03:26:53 · 23 answers · asked by chocolateandnuts 2 in Weddings

i am throwing a party it is me and my best friends early brithday party well my ex and her ex might come her and her ex might get back to gether me and my ex will not like see i want him to come but i also want him to be there with me and i know that will not happen but i think he might start his mouth andi don't want him to ruin my party

2007-03-01 03:26:39 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Originally from Marine City MI I think, lived in St Thomas for awhile, she has a sister named Angie. If you are her or know her please contact me. This is Rip.

2007-03-01 03:25:47 · 1 answers · asked by zzorna 1 in Friends

going on a fourth date friday do you think he will think im a bit of a hussy if i ask him to come up my flat after.

2007-03-01 03:25:41 · 8 answers · asked by SHY1 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a girlfriend that I am engaged to right now. I love her to death and I never have any thoughts of leaving her. A problem that I have is she intends to treat me very badly and doesn't give me any respect. She has cheated on me numerous of times, and a few weeks ago cheated on me by having sex with another guy behind my back. She also sent degrading pictures of herself to at least three other men over her phone. She keeps telling me that she'll change, but I really dont want to believe that anymore. Should I keep going with this relationship or just leave her and get my life back the way that I had it before. I dont know if its worth it or not.

2007-03-01 03:24:49 · 28 answers · asked by Murphy 2 in Singles & Dating

I mean i feel weak beacuse i dont like him but he dont like me back and i dont understand because i want to like him like that but the thing is he never liked me in the beginning but i liked him and now i feel weak so please tell me what to do?

2007-03-01 03:24:46 · 9 answers · asked by wingard_jessica 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm going snowboarding in 2 hours with this guy that i've wanted to go with for a while. He said that he likes me to one of my friends and i feel the same. My other friend from the mountain has my board though and he is going to bring it to the mountain for me and is going to expect to go boarding with me but he's a guy so I don't know if that will get him mad or something.

2007-03-01 03:22:47 · 7 answers · asked by jessica h 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this guy for about 3 months now and the relationship has been totally amazing until last night! I am a Sag and he is a Leo and we totally click, but I got a little jelous last night and so did he. We went to dinner with friends and he was showing me some pictures on his phone when we came across a picture of a girl....? I asked who that was and he said his best friend who I till now have never heard of before.. So, I did not say much about it, we had a good time at dinner. When we got home I said, I am leaving and meeting a guy frind for a drink, then he got jelous. I met up with my friend and did not even finish my drink when he calls and wants to meet up with me again! So I met up with him and we spent the night togther, which we do quite often..oh and by the way, we are yet to have sex!?! But it was not the same, I was mad but I don't think he was. Don't know what to do? Help. Should I drop him?

2007-03-01 03:22:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I did mine! And feel stronger for it too. What say you?

2007-03-01 03:22:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My father has 4 daughters and there's a 14 year age span between the youngest and oldest. He has always been an executive, either in small or large corporations so those pictures always show him in a white shirt and definitely a suit.

2007-03-01 03:21:36 · 5 answers · asked by Pam 2 in Family

hi my gf got back with me last week, and i was so happy. and now her nans ill and her step dad and mother are on the verge of splitting. what do i do to help my gf ? i start getting upset and arguing cos my gf cant find to see me and she says she finds it hard to find to time to meet meat the me cos of the problems at home! what can i do to support my gf i like her to bits and i dont wanna ever lose her again. also i feel as if tho she maybe taking me for a ride because she has time to go out with her work mates on friday night and no time for me ? what should i do ? should i qustion her ? please help each time i ring her i end up arguing with her saying why she not meet me or owt. please help on what i could do

2007-03-01 03:21:20 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

sometimes i imagine its someone else during sex... bad or doesn't matter?

2007-03-01 03:19:50 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Recently an old friend and I started dating! Before we did he told me that he had just gotten out of a serious relationship. Well, he an dI got serious but he ended up going back to the girl. Every week it became different. He wanted her one week and me the next. I fell in love so stupidly I went along with his feelings and gave him a chance everytime. Well now I am done. I want it to end once and for all. Some would say just stay away from him, but my roommate is my male cousin and they are best friends. I don't want to be wheeled in again by him. I haven't returned his calls or text, but I know that we will see each other sometime next week. I want to be his friend still, but I am not ready yet. We tried to just be friends and then he asked if friends could kiss and there we went, getting back together again! HELP. I don't want him anymore.

2007-03-01 03:19:46 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she has a few pimples on the face (they are not seen very good under the make-up), does it really matter for you?

+ she is pretty.

2007-03-01 03:19:45 · 1 answers · asked by ♥♥♥Miracle♥♥♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever had one of them days where you wake up late for work you call to let them know that you are coming in but then they tell you no its ok just take the day off but you feel like crap cause you need the money. Then when you call your family somebody else is having a bad day and blames it all on you. I feel like i have bad karma today.

2007-03-01 03:18:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This guy I've been dating for over 6 months has been acting really strange and says he's confused about where he wants this to go. I see him about once a week, but i just got my own place and feel really lonely...so i end up thinking about it even more than I normally would...should i just end it, rather than put myself through the mental anguish?

2007-03-01 03:18:30 · 14 answers · asked by Sunflower 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 2 and a half years. We've lived together in an apartment for just over a year now and then before at our parents house for a year. We KNOW we are meant to be together but what are others opinions on us getting married at 20 - 21 years old?

2007-03-01 03:18:16 · 34 answers · asked by ♥Ashley 5 in Marriage & Divorce

If so, how the heck do you find them 'before' your dead?

2007-03-01 03:18:07 · 17 answers · asked by Jamie 4 in Singles & Dating

Surely these are beyond the femine comprehension, why allow yourselfs to be embarressed, whats next, giving them the vote!

2007-03-01 03:18:04 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm a guy, and I don't have a clue why I'm so bored. She's still pretty, and I still think about it, but when it comes time to do anything, I just /totally/ lose interest.

2007-03-01 03:17:11 · 10 answers · asked by dizzordr 1 in Singles & Dating

Y/A????

p.s. Guys.....I'm a pretty good game player myself (when I have the time)!!!

;)

2007-03-01 03:17:01 · 6 answers · asked by Melrose 4 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating a girl now, for over 4 years. I feel like we have just evolved into friends. I love her, but im not sure im IN love with her. Any advice from people who have been there?

2007-03-01 03:16:57 · 20 answers · asked by kyle_grube 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 03:16:47 · 24 answers · asked by maryjane37_420 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My tattoo is really bumpy and kinda fell like it wet!!!! is that normal for a tattoo on my cafe? I am so worried that its getting infected. can anyone tell me what to look for as in signs of infection and how i can heal the infection? I like dont want my leg to fall off or anything(metaphorically speaking). i only have a few more min so plz answer quickly!!!

2007-03-01 03:16:22 · 2 answers · asked by JessieRae07 2 in Singles & Dating

i was sexually abused by my stepdad between the age of 3/4 and 9 my parents split up just after my mum realised something was going on but she never reported it i am now 37 with 4 kids of my own and i made contact with this man a few months ago i wanted to ask him why but couldnt find the courage though i dont know why as he is living in new zealand for last 15 year anywa yesterday i had a row with my sister as she is going to live with him in september with my 2 nieces and even though she knows what he did she is still going ahead with the move anyway she told me that i was a liar and should of would something about it years ago if it was true,so today i e-mailed him and told him i remember everything, what i have gone through over the years because of him and how much i hate him but now i feel as though i have done wrong by sending this e-mail (he is remarried and has step grandchildren and i dont' think he would of told his wife) i felt so much relief while writing the email

2007-03-01 03:15:52 · 14 answers · asked by margaret 2 in Family

2007-03-01 03:15:31 · 17 answers · asked by Toves 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-03-01 03:14:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay first of all, I have a history of lying to my parents. So now that that's out of the way, I've been exclusively dating this wonderful guy for about 6 months. I'm 18 and he just turned 28. I'm positive that my parents would love him if they just gave him a chance, but I know that they will get so upset when they find out how old he is, but you know, it's not unheard of! Right?

2007-03-01 03:14:47 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need to get a divorce from my abusive husband. I have a daughter by him, even though she has my last name she is his. I would still need the perternity test to get child support. I will allow visitation rights under supervision. Because he also abuses drugs & alcohol. anyone know a good divorce attorney in Elyria,OH, or surrounding cities? I am only 20 yrs old, and don't know how to do any of this. We have only been married for 9 months, and been seperated since sept.2006. He has been discharged out of the US Army because of his anger, and drug abuse. He lives in Bronx, NY, and we own no property together. I just want to move on with my life, but can only do that if I am completley divorced. Help please. Any help is appreciated. Thanks in advance.

2007-03-01 03:14:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce