This guy I've been dating for over 6 months has been acting really strange and says he's confused about where he wants this to go. I see him about once a week, but i just got my own place and feel really lonely...so i end up thinking about it even more than I normally would...should i just end it, rather than put myself through the mental anguish?
2007-03-01 03:18:30 · 14 answers · asked by Sunflower 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No,give him some time.
2007-03-01 03:22:26 · answer #1 · answered by ♥♥♥Miracle♥♥♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes guys take longer than females to decide if they want to commit to a relationship. They want to be very sure of their decision. Perhaps once a week for 6 months is not enough time to make that kind of decision. He sounds like an honest guy. Don't bail just yet. Give it some more time...I know it's so difficult when you care more than he seems to, at this point. Don't put any more pressure on him by discussing the topic again. Just have fun with him and enjoy each others company.
Good luck
2007-03-01 03:41:16 · answer #2 · answered by Patricia 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar problem with a guy I lived with! The last 6 months of our relationship he just seemed to always have to work late, or jusrt have somthing to do when I was off, and seemed really "distant". Then the last months we hardly spoke, saw eachother once or twice a week, awake anyways, and it turns out he had someone in mind ha was wanting to date and just trying to get me to end it for him. my advice, talk to him, tell him thngs are bothering you, if there is no hcange in how he acts, end it for your own sake. No man is worth waiting around on.
2007-03-01 03:27:47 · answer #3 · answered by what the... 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you end the relationship he will figure out really quickly what he wants to do. He will either beg, or leave. If he leaves, you are probably better off than being put through all the heartache that is yet to come if he is truly confused.
2007-03-01 03:24:13 · answer #4 · answered by dancing11freak 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This guy you've been seeing has stepped forward and told you he's confused. Talk to him about it. Don't put too much thought into what he's thinking either. Give him some space to realize what he wants. Take this time for YOU and do the same. If it's meant to be, it shall be. Good luck!
2007-03-01 03:24:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
End it. Its been 6 months and he is confused. He should not be confused at the 6 month mark
2007-03-01 03:23:01 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It in basic terms potential that he's not waiting for a relationship.. a relationship takes an stunning style of dedication, time, and attempt, and human beings can leap into it until now others. in basic terms provide him time until he's waiting. he's in basic terms making confident that he's confident whilst he needs to start a relationship, because of the fact commencing a relationship on the incorrect time might reason an stunning style of problems.
2016-10-17 00:36:30 · answer #7 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to him and if situation doesn't change, i suggest u both leave each other for a time being.. think about and feel it if u could live happier without him. afterall u should enjoying the dating relationship.. or else its kinda of wasting each other's time.
2007-03-01 03:26:40 · answer #8 · answered by ChocGlico 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him: Take all the time you want sweets, but Im not going to sit at home and wait for you.
Good luck
2007-03-01 03:22:47 · answer #9 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about it
ask wot he wants if he really wants u
maybe have a lil time apart by that i mean stick around for him when he needs u maybe not on a bf - gf sort of level
talk to him regularly n then see if ur drawn closer together or further apart
2007-03-01 03:30:58 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's getting cold feet. Don't abandon him, but at the same time don't sit home knitting. Tell him that you won't wait forever.
2007-03-01 03:31:30 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋