sometimes i imagine its someone else during sex... bad or doesn't matter?
2007-03-01 03:19:50 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think it's wrong at all...you are simply fantasizing. Usually when one cheats on another they aren't able to tell their partner about it. Let me ask you this: Have you told your partner that you fantasize about someone else while you are having sex? If you can't bring yourself to tell him this, then maybe you are. Not physically but in your mind.
2007-03-01 03:31:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who do you imagine? Why do you imagine this other person? I would have to say it's a form of cheating because you are desiring someone else during one of the most crucial parts of a relationship! You need to exmaine your feelings! It is not fair to your partner!
2007-03-01 11:26:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's bad. If you have lust in your heart for another then you are cheating. Sorry, but it's the truth, or you wouldn't be asking the question or feeling bad about it.
You are cheating in your mind, you are cheating in your heart. You are emagining someone else instead of the one you are with, and while you are having sex! Your cheating.
2007-03-01 11:25:01 · answer #3 · answered by corina381 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
It is OK because he is probably doing the same thing sometimes. Just don't ever tell him or get insecure that he is doing it to. Is it someone you know or just a sexy celebrity? I have never fantasized about someone i know but have thought about usher from time to time. It is OK as long as you don't act on your fantasies and never tell him. It will only make him insecure.
2007-03-01 11:26:54 · answer #4 · answered by micah z 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there's nothing wrong in that! Actually, its the key to a great sex life! Some people whose sex lives are not all that electric are told to do this anyway to turn ok sex into fantastic sex. Just don't tell your partner!
2007-03-01 11:25:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
its cheating only if u scream out the imaginarys name..if thats what it takes to spice the sex up then maybe you should talk to yur lover and try new positions or things or role play and both yall can be some1 else.or if its b/c u dont like the way yur lover looks anymore then talk him into a makeover or u maybe fallin out of love with him and need a new lover
2007-03-01 11:27:57 · answer #6 · answered by love2005wisdom 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You're not cheating but you might want to consider why you'd do that . . . you really should only be thinking about your significant other when doing that!!
2007-03-01 11:28:06 · answer #7 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um if its a fantasy then its ok, if its a real person u have access to in life...u are emotionally cheating
2007-03-01 11:26:01 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes, i think that is horrible unless its the same sex... i would kill my wife if i ever found out she was thinking of another guy...thats horrible., if you are having to think of anyone else thats sad... i only think about how good it feels... i dont have to think about anyone or anything... you shouldnt be in that relationship if they arnt satisfying you in EVERY way.
2007-03-01 11:25:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not cheating at all.....in fact I think everyone does that at one point or another......if that is what kicks for you and get you off.....so be it ......it's better than PHYSICALLY being with someone else......have fun!
2007-03-01 11:25:10 · answer #10 · answered by free_spirit5230 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋