I have been dating this guy for about 3 months now and the relationship has been totally amazing until last night! I am a Sag and he is a Leo and we totally click, but I got a little jelous last night and so did he. We went to dinner with friends and he was showing me some pictures on his phone when we came across a picture of a girl....? I asked who that was and he said his best friend who I till now have never heard of before.. So, I did not say much about it, we had a good time at dinner. When we got home I said, I am leaving and meeting a guy frind for a drink, then he got jelous. I met up with my friend and did not even finish my drink when he calls and wants to meet up with me again! So I met up with him and we spent the night togther, which we do quite often..oh and by the way, we are yet to have sex!?! But it was not the same, I was mad but I don't think he was. Don't know what to do? Help. Should I drop him?
2007-03-01 03:22:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No you cant drop him just for that! Why is it ok then for you to have a guy friend and him not to have a girl friend? Its got to be both or neither if you ask me. Tell him that its made you feel jealous seeing that girl on his phone - as your boyfriend its his duty to reassure you that you've not got to worry about her! Ask him why hes not mentioned her before? They obviously are'nt that close if you've never seen or heard of her yet! You wont know everything about him after three months, hes had a whole life before you came along so you cant expect him just to drop everyone hes known or to tell you about everything and everyone hes ever known. Thats all part of a growing relationship!
2007-03-01 03:32:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't drop him! don't be so quick to let a good thing go.women do that all the time and end up lonely and single. Don't be so jealous! He has every right to be jealous you don't. Who is this friend you met up with? It seems as though you did that out of spite. Sit down and talk to him. If he doesn't introduce you to that girl in the pic then you do need to drop him, but give him the chance to introduce you all!
2007-03-01 03:39:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it go your makiing a big deal about a picture. Do you trust this guy? Its only been 3 months its the learning stage you will probably find more things about him that will make you mad. You have to learn talk to him about the things that make you feel uncomfortable and hope that he cares enough about you to respect your feelings and not go there again. Don't play games because they will backfire on you. If you drop him you will be overreacting.... think about it do you really want to date this guy decide and have a good time.
2007-03-01 03:32:34 · answer #3 · answered by ilisalec 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like the two of you need to do some talking. Find out what each of you expect from the relationship, If you are just trying to make each other jealous, that will get you NOOOO WHERE !!! Figure out what you have together & start over from there or go your seperate ways. GOOD LUCK
2007-03-01 03:36:15 · answer #4 · answered by ijustdon'tknow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Drop the jealousy. Meet the friend. It might seriously improve your level of communication.
2007-03-01 03:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by mikey 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes you shouls drop him i think your to young to be having a realk boy friend you dont play these games we all have friends male of female but what you do is wrong and one day your going to meet guy you reaslly like and he will play you around its karma biting you back in the ***
2007-03-01 03:31:38 · answer #6 · answered by treatau 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out while you still can, prolonging a relationship based on jealousy is not worth your time and will only lead to future conflicts! drop him and run!
2007-03-01 03:29:24 · answer #7 · answered by 317537 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sound like you think he is cheating. You should let him have his friend. You must have trust before any relationship will work. You both need to work on your trust issue.
2007-03-01 03:30:00 · answer #8 · answered by masterzuaba 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
YES DROP HIM
2007-03-01 03:28:08 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋