He is using me for my company. What is wrong with me expecting him to pay my bills in return? P.S. I do have a job and other boyfriends-the married guy likes me way more than I like him. If he doesn't continuing paying graciously-you guys are telling me NOT to tell the wife? Are you nuts? I am just having a little fun-at HIS expense. HE deserves it anyway for cheating on his wife.
2007-03-01 03:27:08 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
now I aint saying she a gold digger
but she aint messing with no broke n***a
2007-03-01 03:34:29 · answer #1 · answered by RedEye 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with yourself. You're hoping that by telling the wife you'll ruin his marriage, thus freeing him up for yourself. Sorry to report it doesn't work that way. Yes the wife will be upset (probably more at you than him, that's just how it goes). She'll call you all kind of sluts, they'll seek counseling and strengthen their marriage. You'll still be on the outside. It doesn't matter, tell if it will make you feel better, but you'll get nothing out of it.
2007-03-01 11:32:56 · answer #2 · answered by godiva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I really don't think it matters which path you choose. If you tell his wife, she's gonna be mad and your bill payer will cut you off. He really is a dope if all he is paying you for is your company, becuz you sound like a total loser. Bottom line is: No one probably cares what you do or don't do and they probably don't care if you rat this guy out to his wife and she leaves his sorry butt or not. I believe it would be poetic justice if SHE did leave him and you continued to see him. You sound like a perfect match cuz youre both morons. Good luck!!
2007-03-01 11:34:46 · answer #3 · answered by smartazz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he only has you around for company... why would the wife care at all? I know I wouldnt. SO what... You two are friends. AND??? Stop relying on men with big wallets to take care of you and TAKE CARE OF YOURSELF. I think you might find it liberating to actually KNOW that everything you have, is all because YOU EARNED IT! Not because some guy who didnt know any better got involved with a crook like you.
2007-03-01 11:31:26 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is YOU deserve it too. You are the one he's cheating on his wife with. Sounds to me like you have a little bit of a self esteem problem. You should try going to a therapist.
2007-03-01 11:31:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do know that what goes around, comes around. You know what you are doing is morally wrong and yet you continue. You need to worry more about your soul than the other woman. By the way, it might be time to get a blood test. Sounds like you have had more men than Paris Hilton. Sad to be you. Thanks.
2007-03-01 11:32:48 · answer #6 · answered by cookie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mistress-Mistress-Mistress, don't be SOOO mean!! Married men really do LOVE their wives. Most get married for security, children, "the white picket fence" etc, etc, (been there, done that) while deep inside lies an addict, hungry for a sex slave or to become one. Unfortunately, sex slaves don't make good housewifes. Everyone has a secret side, a dark side, which the world wishes to destroy. Its women like yourself that allow men like me an outlet to sanity, while living a structured life. You will get MORE if you undestand and co-operate with him than you will with threats. (My mistress threatened to go to my wife shortly before ending our relationship, and prior to me hitting the lottery), SHE----now begs for it---but I no longer trust her. Patience really IS a virtue!!
2007-03-01 11:42:39 · answer #7 · answered by Senses 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who cares what happens to the married guy being stupid?!
YOU are not any better than he is anyway, are you saying HE deserves it, but YOUR morals are above reproach?! PLEASE!!
What goes around, comes around and this WILL hurt you in some way..maybe not today or tomorrow.and maybe not in THIS relatiionship....but it WILL come back around.
You deserve each other....go ahead and have your fun.
2007-03-01 11:34:15 · answer #8 · answered by TriciaC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, you're not having sex with this guy. That would mean he isn't cheating.
It would also mean that you are something we call a "gold digger." Wow, other "boyfriends" too, eh? Sounds like you are closing in on "paid escort" territory.
I hope you're happy. This sounds so pathetic.
2007-03-01 12:28:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've got the right guy. If it were me, I wouldn't give you one damn dime; and you could tell my wife anything you wanted to. Keep this up and you're going to run into the wrong guy and you'll end up on a slab.
2007-03-01 11:50:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok, so theres no sex involved? My apologies for my previous comments about prostitution.
However, this is blackmail. You are a nasty piece of work that does not deserve happiness. I wonder what this man sees in you.
2007-03-01 11:35:38 · answer #11 · answered by Bitzer Maloney 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋