Family & Relationships - 28 February 2007

We've been together for 3 months and we like each other a lot. She loves kissing passionately for a long time and we both get stimulated with that... but she rejects any touch on her private places and strongly believes on having sex after marriage. I am 28 and she is 26. We are from different countries and we don't want to marry together. Honestly, I like to sleep with her and without that I feel our relation is not deep.

Is she serious on remaining virgin until marriage or I should try more? Any suggestions?

2007-02-28 14:03:25 · 22 answers · asked by Steven 4 in Singles & Dating

Or am I being too insensitive? Whenever I talk about anyone in my husband's family he always immediately stands up for them and says I'm wrong or that he doesn't like me talking like that. But when he talks about my family I usually agree with him, because it's usually true. But what I'm saying about his family is true too. Does he have too much family pride or do I not have enough? It's hard for me to understand his family because we were raised differently. Like when his dad or brothers are careless and they ruin our stuff, I get upset and say his family was never taught to be respectful of other's things. Or when his mom goes off about how much she appreciates and loes me, I say she's being fake. He gets mad and acts like I did something horrible. Shouldn't he let go of his family and make his family with me and our children (we've been married almost 5 years)? I just don't get his family pride. I do realize that sometimes I am being a brat, and I'll admit I'm wrong.

2007-02-28 14:03:17 · 6 answers · asked by mommyem 4 in Family

so I have this friend we used to be really close and did everything together and knew everything about eachother. then she got a boyfriend and suddenly everything changed. she only ever talks to him and never pays attention to me. like I will call her and she always makes up an excuse not to tallk to me.

I dont know whether to fight for our friendship or just give her her space and let our friendship fall apart...

2007-02-28 14:02:08 · 17 answers · asked by Jazillian 2 in Friends

well i've nown this guy sense i was lyk 3 years old and im 16 now but i never liked him but till i spent the weekend w/him in mexico i realized that i liked him its been 2 weeks sense then and i havent seen him but i cant seem 2 keep my mind off of him! if i just started liking him now how do i no its 4 real

2007-02-28 14:01:59 · 4 answers · asked by cute*gurly 2 in Singles & Dating

there's these 2 guys from work. one's a player who i slept with once that was meant to mean nothing but i managed to feel like it did afterwards and then he messed me around.
then there's the nice one who basically took the piss when i slept with the other one but it turns out he was trying to warn me off cuz he knew i'd get hurt (his words)
so i like the nice one (doiiiing :p) but i'm not planning on going for it til i get over the other one. meantime, i wanna get to know him better (the nice one).
i did this shift last week with both these guys and i was being a total b*tch to the player but i was a bit mean to the nice one too. txt him, said sorry, he said 'don't worry about it, flower'. thing is i've f*cked things up recently, like kicking the nice guy cuz i was angry & cheating on my ex (who i dumped on new years eve) with the player.
i need to let this guy know that i'm not just out to mess people about. i'm not. i like him. how do i show him i'm actually a caring person?

2007-02-28 14:01:48 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, so I've been liking this one guy for a while(really funny, knows just what to say)well a few weeks ago, there was this winter dance at school and I was having fun dancing with my friends(he would come around occasionaly to say hi and dance for a while) we slow danced a few times, and he asked me out, I told him I would think about it. the next day he asked me again and I told him yes, but then he told me that he would like to get to know me better before we sart dating, what does this mean? I mean he aasked me out.......................................................................................................................................................................................totaly confused?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!?!

2007-02-28 14:01:44 · 5 answers · asked by Caitlin 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so I like this guy and Ive been flirting with him for about a week and he been flirting bavck, and so yesterday I needed a ride home from school and he lives in my neighborhood so i thought maybe I should ask him....but right before I asked himt my nose started bleeding!!..so I went and got a tissue and my guy friends were like do it do it now so I did it and he said no because he had a basketball game..Do you think he thinks I'm wierd?? Do you think he really said no b/c of my nose?

2007-02-28 14:01:00 · 7 answers · asked by Juls 2 in Singles & Dating

We've been together for 2 yrs and have lived together for over 1.5 yrs. He is 29, had other serious relationships, I am 20, it is my first. He says he loves me and I belive him, but I want him to tell me that he will love me always and that this love is not just "of the moment". Its not like I want to get married now or even in a year or two, I just want to know that he wants to marry me some day, and have kids together. We talk about the future like we'll be together, but when ever I question him as to if he wants to always be with me, he gets very angry at me for bringing up the issue, and will not discuss it openly. He keeps saying he is "not sure" or that he "doesnt know", he cant even tell me why he is unsure. How long does it take to become sure of oneself, and at this stage does it seem that he ever will? Two years seems a lot to me if it does not seem to be going anywhere.

2007-02-28 14:00:54 · 7 answers · asked by ophierose 2 in Singles & Dating

He used to call 30 times a day and now he hardly calls at all. He gave me a cell phone and i told him to take it back but he won't let me return it. I love him but I don't understand why now he can't stay in touch like he use to. Does he not love me anymore or has he met someone, or is this just a man thing. What do you think?

2007-02-28 14:00:49 · 5 answers · asked by BC 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

man? i'd like a relationship with new man

2007-02-28 13:59:54 · 9 answers · asked by closeinphilly 3 in Singles & Dating

What do you look for in girls? Personality, looks, humor, etc.?

2007-02-28 13:59:48 · 5 answers · asked by anonomys 2 in Friends

i need help!!! the guy i really like is tottally cute and awesome!! :) i mean every time i talk to him or about him i get all smiley and happy!:) he is a really cool guy but im not sure if he likes me. He is always trying to find ways to "accidently" bump into me and always looking for reasons to talk to me but im still not so sure. All my friends think he likes me and they tell me that he is going to ask me out but then nothing happens
and another thing is that i really hate asking guys out because its just stupid. i mean if they like me enough they will ask me out, right? and if they dont then they may just be scared to but the way i see it is if someone is to scared to ask you out then obviosly they dont like you that much. But in any case i just want to know what everybidy else thinks before i do anything drastic. thank you for your help

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2007-02-28 13:59:33 · 1 answers · asked by me 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-02-28 13:59:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

when u look down the street and see cute couples holding hands or kissing. when u hear your friends talk about how love feels ? do u believe that ever1 will get their soul mait? im so lost and so sad about this . will it happen 1 day to me

2007-02-28 13:58:54 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Which would you prefer Good man-Bad sex or Sex buddy-Super sex.
No answers involving cheating please.

2007-02-28 13:58:50 · 35 answers · asked by real_bro 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i know a dream is only mixed with what you want and you imagination and sometimes what you desire. but i keep having these dreams about a guy everyone says likes me well not everyone just a few of my friends who see how he acts, he like always looks at me. and other **** i don't wanna name, why in te world do i have to have these dreams i wish and i hope to come true? how can i make it stop?

2007-02-28 13:57:08 · 11 answers · asked by tink(tinkerbell) 1 in Friends

2007-02-28 13:56:48 · 7 answers · asked by regina h 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I treated my bf bad, today and it was really stupid of me because he was clueless, nothing was his fault. i guess i was just taking it out on him cause i hate how stupid i can be sometimes. i'd blame myself if something ever went wrong, cause he never treats me bad and today i was a b****. I didnt mean it at first but something very small triggered it. i made up for it at the end of the day, i was treating him very sweet, and i clung to him when i had to go and i told him i'd been having a bad day and hadn't been feeling well.
i want to call him so he could know we're totally ok, and that it had nothing to do w/ him.
what else can i do to make it up to him?

2007-02-28 13:56:45 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 13:56:22 · 24 answers · asked by throw_away_your_television_2 6 in Marriage & Divorce

i can't take life at mom and dad's/... i want to move out but i don't have the money to afford an apartment... or to have a roommate..... can anyone tell me where i can apply for this online?

2007-02-28 13:56:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-28 13:55:41 · 12 answers · asked by Hey! 1 in Singles & Dating

I am almost 22. I dont have much in common w/ most guys my age. I am not interested in getting drunk every weekend and/or sleeping around. I live in a college town and thats the norm so its been very hard for me to find someone I have anything in common with.

I am constantly descirbed as an "old soul" or as "very mature." I am no prude, and I am not boring, just to make that clear.

I am starting to think that maybe I should try to date men that are a little older than me. I just wonder if they will have a problem w/ me being a virgin. Its been a problem w/ guys my age so..Im wondering. I dont want to date an older man that will see my as "childish" which is one of my concerns b/c I dont date alot either.

Maybe I should just more mature/neater? Although I think I already do.

2007-02-28 13:55:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-28 13:55:20 · 5 answers · asked by Adam B 1 in Family

im so angry at her

ps. im a girl too...she used to be my best friend.

2007-02-28 13:54:56 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Is that weird? How can I help her break out of her shell? I mean she's really pretty now. , but in junior high, she wasn't. She didn't get pretty until high school, and in junior high, she was talked about a lot and boys pretended to like her just to be mean. But I think that's made her really shy. But she doesn't really know how to talk to guys and make eye contact and smile and all that stuff. I try and tell her how, but it's the actual doing part that's hard for her. And yesterday, she was crying saying how she was all lonely and all that stuff and I didn't know what to say. How can I help her meet a man, and help her to break out of her shell. Was anybody else that way?

2007-02-28 13:54:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i know she likes me but she sometimes acts like she hardly knows me. when ever i am with her we have such a great time together and i know she has a good time too. I dont know why i keep gettin this feelin like she really doesnt like me like she say she does. What does this mean? And What should i do?

2007-02-28 13:54:30 · 10 answers · asked by zb83b 2 in Singles & Dating

ok i have a g/f like all guys and we havent kissed yet i want her to make the 1st move but she just wont i wanna do it tomarrow so answer quick


ok i guess im gonna kiss her and **** so i never kissed a girl when i was makeing the 1st move so what should i do cuz im realy shy about it

2007-02-28 13:54:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boydriend is never where he said he is. He is never home the time he says hell be home, so do I trust him?

2007-02-28 13:53:58 · 5 answers · asked by flyangel1118 1 in Singles & Dating

i live in nashville, i met her in puerto rico while i was playing basketball 1 year ago, and she left her job and moved back to tennessee for me while i was at work she found a txt message to another girl that said "i miss u" and another that said "why wont u kiss me" but it was just a joke to the girl and i wasnt serious and she didnt believe me, and thought i was cheating and bought a ticket and went to her sisters house in Orlando. We have been together for a year, this is the FIRST fight we have ever had..She said she was never coming back and could never trust me again. She left some things in my house, but said that she wanted me to "mail" them to her. this is the second time she found a message like this, I have never cheated on her...im am just a flirt. I am lost without her, how do i get her back? I now know i was wrong and am finished with flirting. I am thinking about giving her about 10 days and driving there and saying im sorry. Is that a good idea? what should i do?

2007-02-28 13:53:20 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm thinking what is the world coming too.am I in the dark ages still.I know im not in my prime and I am in a chair and these didnt prove a deterant is this the way of the world now,and do you agree or disagree Im too flummaxed my self to know what to think

2007-02-28 13:53:15 · 16 answers · asked by nendlin 6 in Singles & Dating