2007-02-28 13:56:22 · 24 answers · asked by throw_away_your_television_2 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
definetely not, because if they loved you and respected you they would not have done that to you they betrayed the most important and sacred thing in a relationship and that is trust!
they will do it again if they have done it once.
2007-02-28 20:52:35 · answer #1 · answered by Nanci 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, but no I can't. I believe if someone tells me that they are commited to me and me only, I don't give second chances if they don't keep that promise. The cheater can say anything they want about being seduced, drunk, confused, etc. The point is, I trusted them, loved them, respected them with my faithfulness and they lied and cheated on me! Without trust and honesty they don't deserve the chance to do it to me again. And for the religious readers out there that want to quote the bible about forgiveness, go back and read the ten commandments. I believe they were supposed to be the ten worst sins a person was not(repeat not) to commit!
2007-02-28 14:17:50 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forgive them mostlikely. Forget however is out of the question. I've been cheated on and I have forgiven. This time around, as I find more and more things out, I really dont think I can be as forgiving like the first time!
2007-02-28 14:00:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can You?...............................................
Your question is too vague and your whole story unclear. What reasons and what motive did she have to do such an act to the one who loves her? Did you drive her to this predicament or is she playing you? Only you know the whole story and should analyze your relationship from the beginning.
If she teases you sexually all the time and doesn't follow through and gives all kinds of excuses why she has headaches or not in the mood and then goes out and gives herself to some one else then that is an unforgivable act especially when all you do is love her.
Now, if she was forced or drugged and had no control over this sexual encounter than that's a different story and it is forgivable.
Search your heart and truly ask yourself, is she worth receiving my love?
Excellent Question Non The Less!!!!!!!!
Sincerely,
SuperDave
2007-02-28 14:48:37 · answer #4 · answered by SuperDave 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on the person. Me, personally, I can not say for sure, but I don't think I would. Deep down even if we got back together, our relationship will never be the same and I will still hold some small resentment towards him. I could never look at him again the same way. My train of thought would be "Well, he slept with this other women. Their must be something wrong with me. I'm not good for him for him to treat me this way, and he's not good to me for cheating on me" and thus I would most likely break up with that person.
2007-02-28 14:10:58 · answer #5 · answered by Namaste 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can alway forgive someone but you will never forget it. If you try to forgive them and have them in your life, for most poeple it is hard not to bring up those sitiations that hurt. So most people end up hurting more when they try to become friends. My suggestion would always be to forgive dont live with hate in your heart cuase it will eat at you. Dont ever forget cuase as long as your remeber it is harder to have it happen to you again.
2007-02-28 14:06:19 · answer #6 · answered by caligirlatheart10 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, forgiveness is not a cheap gift from the dollar store, forgiveness is a great sacrifice o be made
to me forgiveness means that i understand why you did what you did and i accept it, this would contradict my belief that there is no valid reason for cheating, no matter what it is there is no valid excuse and so there is no forgiveness because there is no understanding
2007-02-28 14:22:47 · answer #7 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hello married cpl here
we'd like to say that if the person really loved you then why would they want to cheat on you to begin with and to answer ur question no we dont think we could forgive them bc thats an immediate dismisal in our marriage
2007-02-28 14:01:26 · answer #8 · answered by Angie 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. But remember just because you forgive dose not mean you have to deal with that person.
2007-02-28 14:00:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can forgive them, but it doesn't mean you'll trust them again. Love and trust are so important, and when trust flies out the window, it's all but over. That's just imo, of course.
2007-02-28 14:03:57 · answer #10 · answered by Suzie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how I'd react, personally I take monogamy as a sort of respect issue.
If my husband disrespected me like that, I don't know if I'd be able to continue in our relationship. I might be able to forgive, but I doubt he'd be able to earn my respect.
2007-02-28 14:14:10 · answer #11 · answered by shelby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋