Family & Relationships - 27 February 2007

Dear Anyone,

Me and the girl i like have been friends since over a year ago. She knows me very well, and she knows about every girl problem i had in my life, she helped me with them and was able to solve all of them. I somehow fell for her this year, and it's been about 4 and a half months already. i told her that I liked her a month after i started liking her, she was very understanding, and told me i could still come to her with my problems in life and she would gladly support me, and she would always be there for me no matter what. A month after me and her were supposed to have a date, i was supposed to cook her dinner at my house, but her mom drove up to my house and just turned around, the girl IMed me and told me that she threw up and couldn't come, because she was very sick, i didn't believe her at all. I cried for days...She said we would make up for it the next time she was free, but she never actually lived up to that. I asked her almost once every week if she could hang out, but I got a i'm busy, or a i don't know yet, and the excuses went on. Her mom is EXTREMELY over protective, she won't let her go to the mall, or let me and her daughter be in public without an adult behind us. Me and her a 15, me and my friends do tons of stuff alone and we don't ever get into trouble or do anything bad, or get hurt, kiddnaped etc... Even though i talk to her a few times a week the most now, I feel like i'm mad at her, and even though it's been 3 months after the date fiasco, she is being passive, which is unlike her. her friends don't want to help me and they can't give me advice. it's killing me, the pain is so bad, because she was the nicest person i ever met in my life, she was so caring, very intellegent, unbelievably actractive, and was friends with anyone, and would talk to anyone no matter what other though about them, she never does drugs or crimal things etc... i am pretty good looking and most girls think i am "hot, sexy, cute etc." I told her 2 weeks after the date fiasco in december, that i didn't like her, because i don;t want her to think i am obbsesed, when i tell her how i feel now a days, i'll just say that i want to fix our friendship and become close again.

My main questions are::
1] how to get to IM me or ask me to hang out (because we don't see eachother in school at all, all day)
2] how to get to think i really don't like her, and i just want to be close friends
3] how to get her to be nice like she always was
4] how to be more confident with her

i am willing to be more specific and answer your questions if you wish.

Need help FAST,
Hopelessly in love

2007-02-27 13:16:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Ok well, I finally asked this chick in my class for her phone number and we have plans this weekend to do something. I have a couple questions:

1. She wants to go to dinner ... How does this work? I haven't been on a date in forever.

2. What do I do after dinner?

3. How can I tell if she is interested in me? Smiles? Laughs? Etc ...

4. What are some tips for dating?

Note: I am 21 if that changes any answers. Thanks all!

2007-02-27 13:16:24 · 7 answers · asked by BlueEyez84 1 in Singles & Dating

i met this guy and he has been sending mixed messages. We talked on the phone a few times then he says something about he doesn't trust me then he goes MIA on me for about a week. He then texts me asking if i wanted to go hand out and for him to give me my vday gift. im confused. i got my gift and its a 14 carat white gold and pink gold ankle bracelet..mind you i only met him at the beginning of Feb. How do i interpet his actions..tell me what you think?

2007-02-27 13:15:55 · 1 answers · asked by BriBri 3 in Singles & Dating

ok theres this guy whos in ONE of my classes, and he's one year older than me..i dont like him AT ALL, and i like a guy thats in the same class (but hes in my grade)...he's called me almost 30 times since the 15th, and idk how many myspace messages he sent..i cant count

so here's the latest

him: matt+rachel lol
me: umm matt? i like sumone else and im not allowed to go out with anyone anyway
him: who do u like?
me: sumone..u know him
him: well ill get it out of you in ddp tomorrow...u know u love moi
me: uhh i think its the other way around
him: maybe it is........................


im not interested in him AT ALL

please help me!! idk what to do!! i felt SO BAD saying umm matt? i like sumone else and im not allowed to go out , which is the truth..but...i feel HORRIBLE if i hurt sumones feelings...please help me!

2007-02-27 13:15:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years. He is my soulmate and has often told me I am his. I want to marry him someday but there is a slight problem. He is Jewish and I am not and do not want to convert. Neither of us is very religious/spiritual but his parents are. I know his mother would want me to convert, but he doesn't seem to care (other than for cultural purposes). We have not really spoken of marriage in almost a year since that last casual concersation when I told him I didn't want to convert. How do I bring up the subject again without ticking him off, and how do I determine if he would still wants to marry me either way? I don't want to somehow push him away.

2007-02-27 13:15:37 · 7 answers · asked by blue_eclipse05 1 in Marriage & Divorce

After we broke up my ex said we would still be friends. He would still talk to me and hang out with me and our friends. But then he started to avoid me. It's gotten to the point where I'll walk up to our friends and he'll just turn his back on me. He won't even look at me. He dosn't talk to me at all. He won't go to any of the after school clubs we were both in before either, and won't tell his best friend why he decided to quit. We had a pretty mutual break up, he just didn't want to be with me anymore and I didn't plan on staying in a relationship where I wasn't wanted. I never did anything to hurt him. He has told me he dosn't love me anymore and that he never wants to be with me again over e-mails so I know he dosn't have feelings for me. So why can't he just be my friend? I'm not trying to get him back, but it makes things kind of weird when hes avoiding me and I don't want to lose a friend. Maybe I can fix it if I know why hes being like this. Any ideas?

2007-02-27 13:15:09 · 6 answers · asked by Simple Love 2 in Singles & Dating

Im tryin to find out if me and my wife get a divorce and she gets custody of my son. Is my son still my dependent through the military?

2007-02-27 13:14:49 · 4 answers · asked by Rick J 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i love country music and i don't swear
is that ''uncool'' if so why
please help me

2007-02-27 13:14:26 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do i tell my girlfriend how much i love her without soundin cheesy

2007-02-27 13:14:22 · 14 answers · asked by pitbull 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 15 and Im in need of new people.. it's not as if im tired of the other ones.. but I need to know new people.. how they are.. new opinions.. new tastes.. new relationships new EVERYTHING..
Is a solution for that problem taking a trip with lots of girls to europe?
Or maybe just going to a new activity?
I dont like to meet people by internet cuz it never really works out..
Give me opinions or moree options..
PLEASE!

2007-02-27 13:13:46 · 8 answers · asked by The.Girl.From.The.Rockshow 2 in Friends

So I was talking to this guy on myspace and we had a first phone call last week. It went well. He said he would call me over the weekend... then nothing. not a phone call... not an e-mail. In fact, he hasn't even logged on to myspace since friday night. Am I being blown off (supremely... by even avoiding myspace?) or should I just be nice and think "well... maybe something happened to him? should I send a message asking if he's been hit by a bus -- or should I just ignore, ignore, ignore?

2007-02-27 13:13:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Good night lovely yahoo people, hope you all have a good Wednesday:)

2007-02-27 13:13:26 · 4 answers · asked by chris s 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a female in my mid-twenties and I have never had any male friends. I have a handful of very good female friends, it seems easy enough having stuff in common with them but I am rather quiet / shy around the opposite sex and don't know how to go about approaching a guy for friendship. Girls/Guys - how do you do it?

2007-02-27 13:12:53 · 4 answers · asked by sunset28 3 in Friends

ever since a big incident on new years, my brother has been having temper issues. he and my parents get into a loud, and i mean loud argument, every night. i cant take it anymore. i cant stand hearing people shouting every night at my house. and when im in his room playin games, then he comes in and is like, f them all im gonna kill them. he already has to big holes in his wall from punching it. i seriously am goin to go crazy if this continues til he goes to college. what do i do

2007-02-27 13:12:35 · 7 answers · asked by ownby 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-27 13:12:21 · 12 answers · asked by Mayonaise 6 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-27 13:12:18 · 16 answers · asked by kittyfly 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it bad or wierd that i have never kissed a guy or even gotten 2 second base be4?????
Or that i really like this guy and he knows i do but he doesnt even pay any attention to me?
please help me i dont really want 2 grow up not married with 20 cats and me sitting on the couch a fat old lady with no life
im starting to not have any hope and i need hope and tips!!!!!

2007-02-27 13:12:11 · 4 answers · asked by cuttie pie 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, well lately I have felt pressure to lose weight and i think i need to because I want to be more attractive. Every guy I ask says they like a little baby fat and that i dont need to lose weight. I'm fight foot three and really athletic but im still a little chubby (love handles-not like huge, just little ones, and kinda chubby cheeks but everythin else is toned, well my butt is kinda, how you say-juicy?)so the question is do guys really only like super toned bods w/ absolutely no fat?

2007-02-27 13:11:59 · 7 answers · asked by scrchick 2 in Singles & Dating

i've been married 2 1/2 yrs and it's been hell.i've threw so much with my husband and had no one to talk turn to.last year i met this guy online when i was about to kill myself over a bad depression disorder i used to have.my husband was so mean to me and nice to everyone else and he's 11 yrs older than me.anyhoo this guy talked to me not in the way of trying to come in between my marriage but to save me from doing something that would hurt me the rest of my life.he's 24 and i'm 20 we connect in ways that me and husband don't.it's times i wanted to leave out of this marriage but all i got was physical fights just for wanting to get away from that.but this guy who i've only met online and in phone conversations was so real with me. i don't wanna fell like i'm making the wrong choice by leaving my husband,but i can't take being abused emotionally and physically.i also like this other guy but i'm affraid of my out come of doing something wrong.i really need help!

2007-02-27 13:11:58 · 1 answers · asked by Meow4Moe 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i gusse im a geek i im funny smart kind gentile i posse all the qulitys accrpt one handsome im not excatly tall dark and handsome im im 5'8 230 and chubby not fat but im a good catch

2007-02-27 13:11:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Where is the best place to meet new girls, and what's the best way to approach it with out seeming like a loser / weirdo, or even despirate?

2007-02-27 13:10:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

theres this guy that i just met on vampirefreaks.com and he jsust send me pics of him and his penis, and now he wants pics of me. im scared im on 14, hes 21. wat do u do?

2007-02-27 13:10:28 · 19 answers · asked by Bongo! 1 in Singles & Dating

If a MAN can go to jail for not paying child support.

Why shouldn't a WOMEN go to jail if she lies on a birth certificate or/and does NOT notify all potential fathers. One missed a montly payment, the other is PURPOSLY committing a 18-year fraud
affecting several lives.

2007-02-27 13:10:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend is really upset because she liked this guy and she heard tht he likes her too.... then she heard the truth tht he only likes her cuz of her looks, she's really upset... what can she do??

2007-02-27 13:10:13 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There is this girl who is really nice to me, and I really want to become best friends with her. She is in my religion class, and we have tons of fun there, but in school I have no classes with her, and normally the only conversation we have in school is "are you going to religion" "yeah you?" She is one of the popular girls and I'm not, but she is really nice. Can you help me? And also I have this really annoying girl who like loves me and is always coping me and I really don't want to be her friend. How can I tell her I don't want to be her friend nicely? She is really sensitive and will cry....PLEASE HELP!!

2007-02-27 13:09:29 · 4 answers · asked by Hillary B 2 in Friends

Another answer or question I read on here brought up this point. Is society leaning toward the hottie women getting together? I seriouly don't see anything wrong with this at all. Hence, the allure of the 3some!

Yet two dudes, is totally disgusting.

2007-02-27 13:09:20 · 5 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-27 13:09:16 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have my last 2 gf cheated on me and I gave them everything and now this girl that i like dose not wont to with me and she likes me

2007-02-27 13:09:04 · 11 answers · asked by $$$$$$$$ice man$$$$$$$$ 3 in Singles & Dating

I am quiet if i dont know you very well, but once I know you I'll be able to talk to you well. I like to share my feelings and also listen to you. I feel the most important thing in a guys life is his girl, and he should make her feel like she is that important. I am christian, and obey the ten commandments. I would cry on your shoulder if I needed to and I would let you cry on mine if you needed too.
Haha, but I'm not emo. Or I dont think I am...


I'm a guy
I am 18 years old.
5'10" tall
Fit
Swimmer body type
I have blue eyes.
I have blonde hair.
I glasses (they dont look bad).
I wear semi-tight clothes, but they are still comfortable.
I like to wear lighter clothes.
I have a nice smile.
I am kind of quiet, but I can get talkative once I know you.
I do crazy things when I'm in love.
I play harmonica and guitar.
I write worship songs.
I write love songs.
I write poetry.


Guys are put on this earth to make Girls feel like they are princesses being swept off their feet and in love.....

2007-02-27 13:08:28 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Are there any other moms out there with controling husbands and as a result have no life other than a bucket of hopes and dreams that keep spilling over onto the dam floor!

2007-02-27 13:08:21 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce