After we broke up my ex said we would still be friends. He would still talk to me and hang out with me and our friends. But then he started to avoid me. It's gotten to the point where I'll walk up to our friends and he'll just turn his back on me. He won't even look at me. He dosn't talk to me at all. He won't go to any of the after school clubs we were both in before either, and won't tell his best friend why he decided to quit. We had a pretty mutual break up, he just didn't want to be with me anymore and I didn't plan on staying in a relationship where I wasn't wanted. I never did anything to hurt him. He has told me he dosn't love me anymore and that he never wants to be with me again over e-mails so I know he dosn't have feelings for me. So why can't he just be my friend? I'm not trying to get him back, but it makes things kind of weird when hes avoiding me and I don't want to lose a friend. Maybe I can fix it if I know why hes being like this. Any ideas?
2007-02-27 13:15:09 · 6 answers · asked by Simple Love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
kick him in the shin
and move on.
2007-02-27 13:18:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is acting like this because he is uncomfortable with himself and he feels guilt. He is thinking now that he treated you unfairly, and he doesn't much like the way that is making him feel. Maybe you two were never meant to be as a couple, but you were for a while and it is never easy to break up. Everything is sticky and awkward. But give it time. Give him time. The friendship you once shared will come back. It always does. Just give him some space and time. And good luck to you!
2007-02-27 21:20:55 · answer #2 · answered by John Timothy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People go through breakups in different ways. But in general... Its hard to still be friends afterwards. It's rare that people remain friends after a relationship. It's just his way of telling you he's trying to move on and you should do the same. You will benefit more if you just move on, no matter how hard it is.
2007-02-27 21:23:11 · answer #3 · answered by Sara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He feels uncomfortable around you ... sad to say, this is his problem, not yours. If he chooses to act this way, you can't really do anything to change him.
If he doesn't want to be your friend, don't force the issue. Enjoy the friends you still have.
2007-02-27 21:20:01 · answer #4 · answered by jackalanhyde 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Either he can't stand you or he's an *** who has no use for people he's broken up with. Why else?
2007-02-27 21:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by Thrasymachus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who knows why...?
2007-02-27 21:18:25 · answer #6 · answered by The TrutH 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋