So I was talking to this guy on myspace and we had a first phone call last week. It went well. He said he would call me over the weekend... then nothing. not a phone call... not an e-mail. In fact, he hasn't even logged on to myspace since friday night. Am I being blown off (supremely... by even avoiding myspace?) or should I just be nice and think "well... maybe something happened to him? should I send a message asking if he's been hit by a bus -- or should I just ignore, ignore, ignore?
2007-02-27 13:13:28 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ignore. If he does this now then he won't get better. Ignore and get someone better.
2007-02-27 13:17:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm. kindof odd. you never know.. uhm... but i would say that he might be playing hard to get.. or trying to figure out his feelings now.. because guys have trouble with that sometimes and just need time to get all sorted out. or he has most likely been really busy.. maybe something tragic or something happened. but if he's just been "busy" then he also shouldn't be Too busy for you. if He said he would call then let him call or apologize and come to you first.. he's the one who has the explaining.. not you. but if you Really just NEED to then you can leave a message just say you said you would call me this last weekend and you didn't so i just wanted to make sure everything was ok..? i hope everythings alright and that we can talk again soon to get caught up!! (or something to that effect) but i wouldn't say have you been hit by a bus.. just don't seem desparate if you Have to send him a message. i would just wait. but you also don't want to wait too long or miss your chance or something. so go for it if you think you need to and don't want to chance losing something that was there. just don't be Too pushy is all and you'll be fine with whatever you do! good luck and best wishes to ya! :)
2007-02-27 21:22:11 · answer #2 · answered by coolio 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be normal. If he shows up again, let him explain what happened. But if he said he'd call and didn't, I'd call it a blow off unless he has a very good reason.
2007-02-27 21:18:00 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes. He is blowing you off. Ignore him and he might call you.
2007-02-27 21:19:13 · answer #4 · answered by K-E-G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋