Dear Anyone,
Me and the girl i like have been friends since over a year ago. She knows me very well, and she knows about every girl problem i had in my life, she helped me with them and was able to solve all of them. I somehow fell for her this year, and it's been about 4 and a half months already. i told her that I liked her a month after i started liking her, she was very understanding, and told me i could still come to her with my problems in life and she would gladly support me, and she would always be there for me no matter what. A month after me and her were supposed to have a date, i was supposed to cook her dinner at my house, but her mom drove up to my house and just turned around, the girl IMed me and told me that she threw up and couldn't come, because she was very sick, i didn't believe her at all. I cried for days...She said we would make up for it the next time she was free, but she never actually lived up to that. I asked her almost once every week if she could hang out, but I got a i'm busy, or a i don't know yet, and the excuses went on. Her mom is EXTREMELY over protective, she won't let her go to the mall, or let me and her daughter be in public without an adult behind us. Me and her a 15, me and my friends do tons of stuff alone and we don't ever get into trouble or do anything bad, or get hurt, kiddnaped etc... Even though i talk to her a few times a week the most now, I feel like i'm mad at her, and even though it's been 3 months after the date fiasco, she is being passive, which is unlike her. her friends don't want to help me and they can't give me advice. it's killing me, the pain is so bad, because she was the nicest person i ever met in my life, she was so caring, very intellegent, unbelievably actractive, and was friends with anyone, and would talk to anyone no matter what other though about them, she never does drugs or crimal things etc... i am pretty good looking and most girls think i am "hot, sexy, cute etc." I told her 2 weeks after the date fiasco in december, that i didn't like her, because i don;t want her to think i am obbsesed, when i tell her how i feel now a days, i'll just say that i want to fix our friendship and become close again.
My main questions are::
1] how to get to IM me or ask me to hang out (because we don't see eachother in school at all, all day)
2] how to get to think i really don't like her, and i just want to be close friends
3] how to get her to be nice like she always was
4] how to be more confident with her
i am willing to be more specific and answer your questions if you wish.
Need help FAST,
Hopelessly in love
2007-02-27 13:16:27 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think it's her mom too. But i think that maybe if you were really best-friends, you would see her at least SOME times in school. Have you tried talking to her? if not you should, but maybe with no one around, try to get her by herself. If she doesn't try talking to you too, then maybe (i hate 2 say it) it's not just her mom.
hope you can do something ! :)
2007-02-27 13:34:47 · answer #1 · answered by Aryn M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, i hopwe this works:
Its her mom. Not her. Her mom is over protective, causing her to do this. Keep that in mind.
2007-02-27 21:20:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋