ok theres this guy whos in ONE of my classes, and he's one year older than me..i dont like him AT ALL, and i like a guy thats in the same class (but hes in my grade)...he's called me almost 30 times since the 15th, and idk how many myspace messages he sent..i cant count
so here's the latest
him: matt+rachel lol
me: umm matt? i like sumone else and im not allowed to go out with anyone anyway
him: who do u like?
me: sumone..u know him
him: well ill get it out of you in ddp tomorrow...u know u love moi
me: uhh i think its the other way around
him: maybe it is........................
im not interested in him AT ALL
please help me!! idk what to do!! i felt SO BAD saying umm matt? i like sumone else and im not allowed to go out , which is the truth..but...i feel HORRIBLE if i hurt sumones feelings...please help me!
2007-02-27 13:15:49 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im allowed to have a BOYFRIEND...i just cant GO anywhere with them...
but theres a problem...uhh nobody likes me?! so that'd make it KIND OF hard to get him off for saying i have a bf...
and the best friend of the guy i like said she thinks that he knows i like him..so idk..
any tips on how to see if he likes me? im WAY to scared to ask, becuase if he DOESNT know i like him, he thinks i just like him as a friend...and i dont wanna make that weird
any tips on how to get A bf? ive had ONE since i moved here almost 2 years ago while my sisters had..idk..tons
2007-02-27 13:24:57 · update #1
my mom thinks its funny
i showed her the stuff and she said "rachels got a boyfriend whether she wants one or not!" and started laughing... :-/
2007-02-27 13:25:59 · update #2
If you're just having these casual back-and-forth conversations, then just casually not answer for awhile, or at all.
You've ALREADY told the guy what the situation is.
Don't have anything to do with him to the best of your ability.
Eventually he'll get it and maybe he'll get interested in someone who the feeling's mutual with.
2007-02-27 13:23:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay it's not your fault. If he keeps this up you just need to have a chat with your mother or father because if nothing else worked you just need to bring in your parents. I've literally been stalked before and I had to bring in my Parents because I acturally couldn't go to school. So my best advice is to go talk to mom and dad.
Ok advice on how to get a boyfriend hmm . . . . Just be yourself become friends with some guys don't be all like "Omg it's "Brad" omfg he talked me omfg he's so hot" Just be yourself let time take it's course your'll find a man.
2007-02-27 13:23:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to do is to get some mace or a stun gun. I've known a few guys like this. Before you know it the guy will start following you home. Next time you see him take out the stun gun and put it in your purse. Make sure he sees it. That might scare him off.
2007-02-27 13:19:20 · answer #3 · answered by Mississippi River 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the truth hurts! but it's better than making him expect things... that would hurt A LOT more. same here, i'm not allowed to go out yet, so sorry boys! :)
2007-02-27 13:18:57 · answer #4 · answered by kyrys 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if u r generally worried about your safety you can set your profile to safe or private mode. also delete him from your friends. and if he keeps habitually calling/ harassing you. you can have a restraining order filed against him. Good luck. i hope i've helped.
2007-02-27 13:21:01 · answer #5 · answered by Android 16 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just keep saying what you said. be honest but not hurtful. you cant like or pretend to like or lead him on if youre not interested. so all in all just keep telling him youre not interested and you couldnt date anyways and youre sorry but you like someone else.
2007-02-27 13:19:47 · answer #6 · answered by headoverheels 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give him the cold shoulder for a bit there was this guy who was so creepy and was crazy about me i gave him the cold shoulder for a bit and he understood.
the other way is to get a boyfriend but you can't have one
2007-02-27 13:19:15 · answer #7 · answered by Jessie 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Make a game of it and command what he wears. :).
thats what i would do
"tommorow you shall wear a purple shirt and skinny jeans, and a pink belt... because i might think thats hot..." says you :) lol
2007-02-27 13:20:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lol, **** you Melody. I 2d the close try against coaching. perhaps purchase some nunchaku sticks. If those fail, you will basically could desire to shoot him. 2 interior the chest, one interior the top.
2016-09-30 00:08:37 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u need to get someone to tell him to stop bothering u. completly ignore him and move on with your life. give him no attention at all. good luck
2007-02-27 13:18:47 · answer #10 · answered by Joho 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋