Family & Relationships - 13 February 2007

=( Im so sad... We had a big fight tonight... He called me when he got off work and I told him I dressed up for him... When I got in the car he didnt say anything about it... The he started messing with my face.. I told him to stop because I was wearing make up. And he said " Who cares, Its not like anyone is going to see it anyways... " I said I did it for YOU... and he laughed and never said another word. I wore his fave outfit and everything. =(


Someone tell me what to think. I have spent the whole night crying... and wondering if I should even be with him anymore...

2007-02-13 15:38:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Cause i have 2 sisters younger then me, but they are in elementary and im in high, we don't really connect. I always wish i had a brother my age and at school i would sometimes wish my closest friends were my brothers. is that weird?

2007-02-13 15:37:06 · 19 answers · asked by tootie 1 in Friends

Been married 7 months and feeling resentful. I came with a clean slate and in a good financial position. His financial position not as strong and has a child. I made it possible to buy the home we have. The child's mother wants more money from us. She's not working and feels because we have more should pay. I am angry because I feel I worked hard for where I got in my life just because she sees us as better off shouldn't mean that we should have to pay more of the bills. I am angry and resentful over this. I feel powerless about my financial situation because it's now tied to my husbands. I wish I never married him for this reason. I am tired of paying for a kid I have no connection with. Wish I had a clue about this before I was married. I felt alright getting married with the situation the way it was but now I'm worried. I don't like feeling like someone has power over my money. I don't want to start a family with him because I dont' want to be trapped.

2007-02-13 15:35:19 · 32 answers · asked by Violet 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I just want to know what to do.

2007-02-13 15:34:46 · 17 answers · asked by Travis 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband of 10 years is bi-polar. He is a recoverying alohoilc and crack addict. He says he was self medicating while doing drugs. He is now smoking weed again and doesnt think its a problem. I am very unhappy and do not want to be in this relationship. We have 5 children together who are just as miserable putting up with him.. but if I leave I know he will not take care of himself so would leaving be selfish? Help

2007-02-13 15:34:43 · 23 answers · asked by jesika1132 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My ex just put as his msn quote "errr...ok Kel..."
Is Kel most likely a girl's name or a boy's name?

2007-02-13 15:34:43 · 7 answers · asked by Hottie 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm turnig 17 and I wanna do something wild or something to show that i'm 17 not 16 anymore... Any suggestions? I'm Female :)

2007-02-13 15:33:15 · 6 answers · asked by jihan j 2 in Friends

My Hubby and I have been together for 23 years. Separated for 1 year.. He is mean and abrusive. No little ones involved. He calls me each morning and wishing me a great day. He invited me out for Valentines Day.. Should i go or just work my day away? And call it a day.

2007-02-13 15:33:11 · 9 answers · asked by Dee 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been dating my bf forever were at 21 months and love eachother VERY much, we in different colleges ok, well i just started college and i liked it untill this kid that sits next to me in one of my classes started to talk to me, i was nice and everything when he said hi and told me his name and asked for mine, well two weeks went by the kid talked to me everyday, we did a lab the other day in class and he comes up to me and tells me how pretty i am, how he really likes me, and i told him im in a very happy relationship with someone right now, well he said alright and left me along till the next day, he was winking at me, talking to me, telling me how good i looked, and over and over again i told him how i have a boyfriend and i would like it if he left me along, well he hasnt and i dont know what to do, can you help??????????

2007-02-13 15:32:54 · 9 answers · asked by beinginlove 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and i are both in college right now and dont have a lot of money..just wondering what ideas anyone would have about what to buy a guy with 10 dollars for valentines day..

2007-02-13 15:32:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

With a classic norester' heading my way, possibly 18-24 inches, I know I am NOT going to work. Just wanted to know how many of you would do the same.

2007-02-13 15:32:07 · 5 answers · asked by All This and Brains Too! 2 in Singles & Dating

Is it wrong to send a girl flowers after just 2 dates? Don't know if she is interested in me? I mean I havn't even got her number yet but havn't ask for it either, don't want to think I rushing into anything. So is this a bad move?

2007-02-13 15:30:55 · 12 answers · asked by unknown 3 1 in Singles & Dating

Well heres my situation. I really like this girl and I would do anything for her but the problem is she wants me to open up and i have trouble doing that. It isnt the fact I don't want to but i just have problems communicating it. Whenever i do try it usually comes out as a joke and she probably thinks im kidding. Any suggestions? And also. how would you start to say this?

2007-02-13 15:30:14 · 13 answers · asked by David 1 in Singles & Dating

so...he is like my brother! he knows everything about me andwe are so close! well he was recently busted for selling drugs and he has severly changed! he doesnt smoke any more, he has a full time job, while going to college, he lives with his mom!
well...since we are so close i want to spend prom with him and my mom is flipping out! i mean...she knows him enough to know that if he could protect me from everything on earth he would. but she doenstl ike that he has been to jail!
the thing is that he has never put me into any danger or a situation were i feel uncomfortable! i dont want to spend prom with anyone else.
should my mom be flipping out?

2007-02-13 15:29:17 · 20 answers · asked by Niko 2 in Singles & Dating

she went to Bridgewater Raritan Middle School in New Jersey in 1997
im trying to find her cuz we didnt c each other ever since 1997 n now is 2007 thats bout 10 years

2007-02-13 15:29:01 · 6 answers · asked by jmsbnd6009 2 in Friends

m at the end" because of age & background they are expected to be trouble

2007-02-13 15:28:36 · 3 answers · asked by nanny 5 in Family

this guy daniyel, i totally love him but if he doesn't ask me out tomorrow im going to get over him. the bad thing is that i have 3 classes with him, and i talk to him a lot. so really i don't think i could get really over him. ok so the point is should i move on?? if yess, how...remember i have three classes with him.?? please give me some advice! im desperate..:)

2007-02-13 15:28:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife of 15 Years Has left me and our sons 11 and 13 ,four mo. ago. I love her and our boys ... she says she needed to try being on her own. The past year has been a colorfull one. Nov05 while out of town she had an affair. We talked . Then another affair. We talked . Then another affair. Outraged, I told her to get out, I would raise the children w/out her. The next day she wanted to work it out. We agreed to improve our marrage....6 mos later she wanted to move out. Emotionally she has always been a very unstable woman. I can see past many things ,but I stop at leaving your children. It has been 4 mos she has begun another relationship and ended it. I have no trust left for her or seemingly any other woman.My boys are not a burden to me. Every moment with them is pure and fulfilling. I preoccupy them with activities and outings on weekends. What should I do at this point. How do I begin the process of divorce as painless as possible for my family.

2007-02-13 15:27:41 · 20 answers · asked by Darren B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I are getting ready to have our second child in April. I moved down to Arizona in September with my father and my boyfriend is back in Chicago. We are getting redy to get a apartment together but the thing is that he has a child by another woman. I want us to get a apartment in Arizona because the weather is better and they have a lot of jobs down here. Only, he doesn't want to move down here because he doesn't want to leave his other child behind, so he wants us to get a apartment back in Chicago. I know that by us being down here it would be a better life for our kids. Am I being selfish or is he?

2007-02-13 15:27:40 · 10 answers · asked by chloerochelle102887 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

and marry?

2007-02-13 15:27:03 · 14 answers · asked by Born Valentine's Day 5 in Weddings

can the smaller man tell that the bigger man has been in there?

2007-02-13 15:26:47 · 11 answers · asked by just wondering 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

said " why you looking at me like that she went on to say she hate me meanwhile i havent spoken to her b4 shes just a new student so she waz casuing me out that i look discursting and nasty i waz surprise so i want to know what might have made her to react or cause me out like that without me annoying her

2007-02-13 15:26:45 · 6 answers · asked by marvellousdiva 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-13 15:26:25 · 4 answers · asked by cory_millam 2 in Singles & Dating

Having sex with my partner is like pulling teeth. He begs for it all the time and when I give it to him, it only last 5minutes. When it is over he is on cloud nine. Me on the othe hand is MAD AS HELL!! I wish he would not even ask.

2007-02-13 15:25:36 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We were together for, oh, about a year. Then he decides to end things because we are at different points in our lives.. Couple days later he invites me over, and is all "oh I think i made a mistake" and says he is thinking about changing his mind.. but since then, he is saying no. What is the easiest way to get him back? I've never met a guy as nice and sweet as him and I really really miss him.

2007-02-13 15:24:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm giving it to this girl I like and we haven't talked in a long time. It reads "Figured out the reason why I miss you so much... It's 'cause you're not here."

2007-02-13 15:24:18 · 6 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

Please I only need a guy's opinion.
It was with great difficulty that he revealed he has feelings for me, but he also said he is not ready for a relationship with anyone. He said something about feeling pressured and him not being able to do justice to my needs. He said "you don't hv time". We have known each other a whole year-long distance. He flew down to see me a few times too. But he is extremely cautious revealing his emotions. He has been caring and highly respectful and accepting, and showed a lot of attraction (along with respect)towards me when we were together. He had kissed me very slowly and gently, as if a guy in love would hv kissed. And now, he has moved to a different country, and before leaving he said "do what you think is right". I am in deep anguish. The road has gotten more uphill. I love him guys. I feel he loves but is afraid. Please advise. The goal is to be with him....What's the best thing I can do?

2007-02-13 15:24:15 · 9 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy but cant ever think of what to say. help!?

2007-02-13 15:24:00 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

licking and kissing your shoes, would you let him do it to knowing it makes him really happy?

2007-02-13 15:23:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it wasnt a real one btw....it was on facebook.com....there were other gifts such as
a heart w/ love on it
a puppy
a box of chocolates
toilet paper
sock
pair of pink lips
pink ribbon
soap
poke me written on a heart
whip cream w/ cherry on top
stuffed bear
troll
cupcake
polka dot thongs
a heart
a rainbow button
pointed finger w/ 'super' written on it
lava lamp
gift box
bff locket

....off all these he decided to give the pink rose.....what does that mean....i want ur OPINIONS guys...

2007-02-13 15:22:49 · 12 answers · asked by Raisa 1 in Singles & Dating