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=( Im so sad... We had a big fight tonight... He called me when he got off work and I told him I dressed up for him... When I got in the car he didnt say anything about it... The he started messing with my face.. I told him to stop because I was wearing make up. And he said " Who cares, Its not like anyone is going to see it anyways... " I said I did it for YOU... and he laughed and never said another word. I wore his fave outfit and everything. =(


Someone tell me what to think. I have spent the whole night crying... and wondering if I should even be with him anymore...

2007-02-13 15:38:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

6 answers

Oh boy, he was being really disrespectful of you. If my guy played little mind games like that with me, he'd be history, but I say that after having been in a past long term relationship that was pretty bad and having learned many lessons from the experience. Respect yourself. You deserve to be treated like a treasure. If you don't feel like you are really his treasure, if he doesn't take good care of you and keep you "sparkling," you should think about the actual quality of your relationship together and yes, consider breaking it off with him. Put yourself first. Remember, your contentedness with your life and your decisions is all up to you, no one else. So choose good for yourself. I hope this helps some. Best wishes.

2007-02-13 15:53:26 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0 0

It sounds like ur boyfriend is being a little childish. Dragging the fight out and poke at dead issues. I don't know what the fight was about or how serious he considered it to be but from a guys perspective I would think that he probably just didn't want to go out with you and just used the date to try to make u feel upset like he was. U should try to talk to him about it and see if he has let it go.
As far as the valentines day thing, I know people get caught up on it so I guess it's important to u. It's crazy that he would throw not getting u anything in ur face. I don't know what ur regular approach is, but if u have never give him anything for valentines day, then maybe he just didn't see a point, especially after the fight. It's childish that he told u like that though.

2007-02-13 15:50:40 · answer #2 · answered by Vince R 5 · 0 0

Hmmm well im just gonna give this a shot..
If you did all that for him, and he has the nerve to laugh when you said you did it for him.. Not even showing an ounce of enjoyment/whatever u wanna call it.. then obviously he isn't worth your tears...

2007-02-13 15:47:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

3 words

Dump That Loser

there's no better way to describe it, he's obviously not mr. right

2007-02-13 15:42:19 · answer #4 · answered by k 1 · 0 0

uh...DROP HIM! You deserve someone who isn't going to mess with you like that!

2007-02-13 15:42:10 · answer #5 · answered by wyldefyre1982 2 · 0 0

I think YOU know already........ God bless

2007-02-13 15:42:01 · answer #6 · answered by Annie 7 · 0 0

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