We were together for, oh, about a year. Then he decides to end things because we are at different points in our lives.. Couple days later he invites me over, and is all "oh I think i made a mistake" and says he is thinking about changing his mind.. but since then, he is saying no. What is the easiest way to get him back? I've never met a guy as nice and sweet as him and I really really miss him.
2007-02-13 15:24:19 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The best thing you can do right now is maintain your dignity and back out. It will give you both a chance to clear your thoughts. If he wants to be with you, he'll let you know, at which point you can decide whether or not you still really want to be with him. Don't give in and pick up the phone every time he calls or go over to his house whenever he decides he wants you there. He did decide to break up with you after all. That should pretty much nullify those special little privileges that go along with being in a steady relationship with you. Get on with your life as if it really is over between you. That will show him that you respect yourself and that you can indeed live without him if you must, which you can. I hope this helps. Good luck.
2007-02-13 15:40:15 · answer #1 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what you really need to do is not push the issue, if you push to hard you are going to drive him right into the arms of some other woman. continue to date if possible, and move along at a reasonable pace, if he hasn't decided to hook up permanently within 6 months dump the jerk and get on to finding another guy even better than him.
Try to keep sex to a minimum as sex only clouds the thinking process and will at times cause a wrong decision to be made.
2007-02-13 15:31:03 · answer #2 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone want to be with you. Just go on with your life and act like you don't care....then maybe he will come to his senses. The more you give him attention the less he will want you. I was engaged and broke it off for 3 months. My ex moved away and everything. We still ended up getting back together and are getting married in 2 months. If it is meant to be it will be. Don't waste time worrying about it.
2007-02-13 15:33:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't make someone love you!
and you sure don't want someone playing head games.
if it is meant to be then it will happen
but don't let him use you and play with your
emotions
been there before and it hurts, but you can get over it in time!
but harder to get over if you keep sitting yourself up
for the faLL !!....good luck and hope it works out
well for you.
2007-02-13 15:44:04 · answer #4 · answered by angelheart 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like it's time for the two of you to get together for a heart to heart talk, honesty all the way. Take care.
2007-02-13 15:27:42 · answer #5 · answered by SAK 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dont give up what ever you do! i believe in the one true love, just hang in there i know what you are going through right now because im going through the same thing riht now. and im still trying to win him over so to answer your question there is no one way to get him back just dont give up.
2007-02-13 15:30:02 · answer #6 · answered by MRS.BLONDIE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
And they say women change their minds a lot ................
Dump the guy and find someone else. It's just not fair, to you, for him to keep playing you like this. Let him play games with someone else!
2007-02-13 15:30:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Invites you over for what ? Companionship, flirting, kissing , sex ? You were there for just that nice night, "he's just not that into you."
2007-02-13 15:28:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you really want to be together and what are his intentions. Heartache is a *****.Good luck chicky!!!!
2007-02-13 15:28:26 · answer #9 · answered by karena k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably dumped you so he could be with someone
else, that over with he wanted you back.
He dumped you, for some reason he did.
Let him go.
2007-02-13 15:37:25 · answer #10 · answered by elliebear 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋