Please I only need a guy's opinion.
It was with great difficulty that he revealed he has feelings for me, but he also said he is not ready for a relationship with anyone. He said something about feeling pressured and him not being able to do justice to my needs. He said "you don't hv time". We have known each other a whole year-long distance. He flew down to see me a few times too. But he is extremely cautious revealing his emotions. He has been caring and highly respectful and accepting, and showed a lot of attraction (along with respect)towards me when we were together. He had kissed me very slowly and gently, as if a guy in love would hv kissed. And now, he has moved to a different country, and before leaving he said "do what you think is right". I am in deep anguish. The road has gotten more uphill. I love him guys. I feel he loves but is afraid. Please advise. The goal is to be with him....What's the best thing I can do?
2007-02-13 15:24:15 · 9 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A man needs to feel confidence that he will be able to provide everything that his woman (and their future family) will need. The only thing you can do to get him closer to you is to reassure him about his good qualities, and that its OK to make mistakes and have flaws as long as his heart is in the right place.
Men have reasons for their self-doubt, even if they don't admit them to you. If you can find out specifically what is bothering him, then you can try to help him find answer. If you can convince him that you two would go well together, then love can conquer all obstacles.
2007-02-13 16:22:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seemed to be getting little attention when he was with
you and now he lives in another country and told you to
do what you think is right; Now you have the chance to
see if he is really interested in you since you and him are
seperated by distance, and if you continue to see the
same as you did when he was with you then maybe you
need to think about moving on in your life as no-one
should wait forever to see if the other is interested, and
with the distance thing it should help you make the de-
cision.
2007-02-13 15:47:01 · answer #2 · answered by RudiA 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is an old saying, if you love someone, let them go, and if they come back it was meant to be.
honestly i dont believe that, because i cant imagine letting go of something i love. my mom told me that before i started going out with my girlfriend. weve been together like 7 months, and we have a long distance relationship now. its rough sometimes, and i love every minute of it. but to give advice from a long distance relationship's point of view. if you really love him, then pursue him. although we dont live in different countries... i think reality has to come into play. are u ever going to see him? you cant really have much of a relationship without the physical aspect. so think about that before you commit yourself to anything.
good luck!
2007-02-13 15:32:44 · answer #3 · answered by skiguy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If its ment to be things will work out. For two and a half years i wasn't allowed to see my girlfriend, her mom didn't know me so we were to never see each other. I went through hell to see her. Sneaking off with her we lied and got caught so many times once included the police. Then all the sudden her mom asked her to invite me over to talk. Now we see each other everyday. It was well worth the heart ache. If you really like him you can work something out. Maybe this is a test. Good luck girl.
2007-02-13 15:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is an old saying, if you love someone, let them go, and if they come back it was meant to be.
I love that saying, although im not happy about it aswell. The thing is that he feels sad and miserable to leave the country and sorry that he cannot be with you. Maybe he is scared, but do u noe if he will come back?
The thing i love bout the saying is becos, my GF will leave the states and go to London to finish her skool. She will come back, and we love each other very much...so thats why i love that saying but letting them go is the hardest part no matter wat.
2007-02-13 15:37:42 · answer #5 · answered by Marty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have not said a lot about him. Why is he moving to another country? How far away, Is he running from anything?
Be Careful
2007-02-13 15:30:03 · answer #6 · answered by Nort 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not stuck in something, that never will be a reality.Move on in your life.He is gone.Do not live in the past time.God already have a good man for, in your way.He will love you indeed;and also will be with you all time.Please,move on.
2007-02-13 15:31:43 · answer #7 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly, i'm on the different aspect of this variety of relationships. one in each and every of my galfriends knows that i love her, because that is fairly glaring. besides the undeniable fact that, she already enable down one in each and every of my different associates at the same time as she knew he loved him. She basically suggested, "i do not prefer to ruin your emotions, yet i love you as a pal. ok?" He must be effective with it. on the most, he will be a touch glum for quite. i'm hoping this helps!
2016-12-04 03:54:37 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest
2007-02-13 15:26:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋