Cause i have 2 sisters younger then me, but they are in elementary and im in high, we don't really connect. I always wish i had a brother my age and at school i would sometimes wish my closest friends were my brothers. is that weird?
2007-02-13 15:37:06 · 19 answers · asked by tootie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have 2 sisters and no brothers. however, my sisters are too young and they always play with their barbies and im in high. i recently met a friend who i haven't seen in years and i keep wishing we were brothers cuz i always wanted one. weird?
2007-02-13 15:49:38 · update #1
Its not weird at all. Close friends can be brothers. Being brothers is a connection that does not have to be bound by blood. I have a friend who I treat like a brother, and I would die for him. If you have a friend, or a group of friends who are very close to you, then go ahead and think of yourselves as brothers.
It may not be completly what your looking for, but you can also join a big brother program. They are everywhere. Basically you get paired up with another kid who doesnt have a family, and you guys hang out and go to movies or whatever you like to do, play frisbee, whatever. If you have the patience you can form a similar connection there too.
2007-02-13 15:44:35 · answer #1 · answered by Jason 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think its wrong or weird. I have a best friend of 9 years of good times and bad times. His dad taught me how to play the guitar when I was 15 and since then has become like a father to me. So my freind and I are pretty much brothers. I think family is measured in love not blood. So I don't think it's weird. Maybe try making strong bonds with friends or join Big Brothers big sisters.
2007-02-13 15:47:45 · answer #2 · answered by Frost bite 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe in reincarnation and living ones journey in this lifetime. I'm of the belief that a person chooses the scenario of this lifetime to transition and grow through necessary lifes ' lessons ' and awareness's. That being the thought...you chose to be an only brother with two younger sisters. My suggestion...' walk your soul's path journey ' and ' discover ' what it is that you were to be the only male sibling in your family. Relationships are formed by those in your family, friends, neighbors etc. Maybe you were to learn something different from your sisters . . . Maybe you were to formulate a closer ' brother type ' bond with a friend or two. Just a thought.
2007-02-13 15:44:34 · answer #3 · answered by onelight 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have a brother its not what it seems because you have known him so long. Its not weird i wish i had a twin brother though. Nobody really hangs with there brother as constant friends anyways cause ones usually older by a year or two and you make different friends in school.
2007-02-13 15:42:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't, I think all of us have gone through that. Sometimes I wish I had a older sister, I was fed up of hearing Your the oldest and should know better. But as all of us grew up It doesn't matter anymore. During my school years I made sure I had lots of Friends to help me through it, and found out they also felt the same way.
2007-02-13 15:44:27 · answer #5 · answered by lennie 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Join a special operations unit in the military. You will never feel that you are without brothers again. Civilians just don't understand the closeness that comes from sharing a Gatorade while stuff's blowing up around you.
2007-02-13 15:45:25 · answer #6 · answered by scp98k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres always adoption. I have one older brother and 4 of us girls. We are all pretty close in age but my brother is never home cause we're boring for him. Just find a really good friend (someone who wants a brother too perhaps...).
2007-02-13 15:42:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
nope and there is nothing wrong with this either.
Me and my best bud for example, we are like brothers. We've known each other since our dawn of time and we are very close as a close knitted family would be.
Its great to have an extended family. Gives you more that feeling of worth and belonging minus alot of bs you get from a family circle
cheers
2007-02-13 15:43:49 · answer #8 · answered by H Vice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no its not weird. I have three brothers younger than me and no sisters so I can understand how you feel. try to socialize more with your sisters, right now is the best time for you and them to bond. You dont know how much they really depend on you.
2007-02-13 15:41:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no that's not weird wanting your closest friends to b your brothers. when i was at school i had 3 really close friends and we use to say we were sister because we were inseparable and it was nice to be that close to some one. so no i don't think its weird
2007-02-13 15:43:34 · answer #10 · answered by rk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋