Well heres my situation. I really like this girl and I would do anything for her but the problem is she wants me to open up and i have trouble doing that. It isnt the fact I don't want to but i just have problems communicating it. Whenever i do try it usually comes out as a joke and she probably thinks im kidding. Any suggestions? And also. how would you start to say this?
2007-02-13 15:30:14 · 13 answers · asked by David 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Jokes are a good start.
2007-02-13 15:33:37 · answer #1 · answered by Hello Goodbye 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When my hubby and i met it was on the internet so we were able to totally open up through chat. It allowed us to say everything that needed to be said without having to actually say all of the words. Just type in what you feel. Maybe it would be a little more comfortable for you to do it this way that way you are not face to face
2007-02-13 23:36:14 · answer #2 · answered by tracystokes3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, you sound sweet. Just tell her what you just wrote and then tell her that you want to open up to her but need to work on it; ask her to help you. But, don't let her push you either. She wants to know that you are honest and not a pig like so many can be (guys/and girls).
She just wants to "connect" with you. Women need that more than men. Tell her about something that happened to you that affected you or something that made you "feel", that you never told anyone.
Don't BS her, just try to trust her and share who you are. She wants you to feel that she is someone you can trust.
2007-02-13 23:38:33 · answer #3 · answered by crct2004 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Youve held your emotions in too long...like me heh...its very hard for some of us to show our emotions even to the one we like most... maybe fearing that you think you said something wrong or strange.. yet you should sit her down and tell her..let there be no distractions around when you do.. so she knows your serious... after a few times talking to her this way should make it more comfortable.. goodluck man.
2007-02-13 23:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by garrwing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you truley like this girl as you say you do...then explain to her your situation...if you can't say it in words to her face write it down...but make sure she knows you want to open up with her...Then start to slowly...tell her little things at first and work your way up....If she cares for you she will understand..but you have to make an effort to show her you are willing to try...
2007-02-13 23:37:28 · answer #5 · answered by beans 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're going to have to get around it if you want to progress with this girl :D. What you can do is sit her down, maybe take her to dinner, a boardwalk, etc. something fun, and when the moment feels right, do it :D
2007-02-13 23:34:04 · answer #6 · answered by Blanca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just think outloud. If she asks you a question answer her as if you were talking to one of your friends that you feel most comfortable with. The one thing she wants to feel is that your comfortable with her enough to talk to her. Girls like that, they like to feel that there is a connection, a bond, and trust there. Shell appreciate that and like you even more for it.
2007-02-13 23:35:25 · answer #7 · answered by alex77055 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to develop comfort, before you can start speaking your mind.
Be happy, relaxed, enjoy the surroundings, and it should come out easier.
When you are tense, that is all you are thinking about.
2007-02-13 23:32:53 · answer #8 · answered by freezie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her what you put in your question. that it might come out like a joke, but you are just nervous because its personal and your not use to talking about that type of stuff.
2007-02-13 23:35:13 · answer #9 · answered by 258Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what she wants you to be open about.
2007-02-13 23:42:33 · answer #10 · answered by jenny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋