Family & Relationships - 12 February 2007

I've not spoken to my close female friend for 2 months as we got to close.I told her that I wanted no contact so that I could get over my feelings for her. She only wanted to be friends.

I've tried to get bck in touch as I've got over her now and I'm interested in another girl.She's been ignoring my attempts to get in touch-I've apologised if I wasn't tactful in the way I said I wanted no contact for awhile

She's ignoring me and said 'WE ARE ON A BREAK' - MEANING?

I'm going to see her on Friday - I'm dreading it.Trying to establish contact beforehand - for our mate's sake(her reunion party).

How will she possibly behave/react to seeing me???

Why she like this - she wanted to be friends....surely she'll still not be hurting from me not wanting no contact for awhile........?

2007-02-12 08:49:53 · 11 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2 in Friends

i have had 360share for 3 years now can some one tell me what is going on with it do we get are money back .

2007-02-12 08:49:23 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-12 08:49:02 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Friends

I feel like my wife doesn't trust me yet I've never lied or done a major wrong in our 5 yr relationship. She asks me so many questions then challenges me if a response doesn't mesh 100% (like I'm being cross-examined) or accuses me of misleading her or "lies of omission" or lying and I have to go to lengths to prove otherwise. Sometimes I don't say something on my mind because I don't want to hurt her feelings, and I just safely/quietly let it go. I had a major life decision to make recently & we both agreed I needed to leave for a day to think about it solo, and when I left out some of the details in my decision process she accused me of a lie of omission. It goes on & on, basically feel like I'm guilty until proven innocent & it gets tiring. How do I work on building trust? If I shared details of every business or 3rd party personal conversation with her, I'd be blabbing 12 hrs a day & never get a thing done. And for a guy I do think I communicate.

2007-02-12 08:48:50 · 3 answers · asked by Babyface 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I go to college in Georgia, my boyfriend is in California, my home town... we've been together for six months, but I've known him for four years. we won't be together for Valentine's day. I've been really depressed and I just want him hear with me no matter what. He says he will pay me back but I don't know if the money will come soon enough...Should I just buy the ticket and shut up?

2007-02-12 08:48:37 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

and was it mistake/do you regret it?

2007-02-12 08:48:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been going out for 4 1/2 weeks on valentines day..... am i supposed to get him something? If so what do i get him?!

Also at school there is a flower delivery thing.... should i send him a flower , or no?

2007-02-12 08:48:09 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-12 08:48:02 · 11 answers · asked by sweetwife18 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am a little overweight at 5'2" and about 163. it annoys me very much that people are trying to make teens and basically everyone feel ok about being fat and tell them that they are still attractive. i'm not saying that they shouldn't feel good about themselves and obviously over weight people can be attractive, but the real issue is health. no matter what, it is not healthy to be overweight. people need to realize that there is a real problem with western society. obesity should not be ignored. does it bother anyone else?

2007-02-12 08:48:01 · 10 answers · asked by prettyenoughforyou 3 in Singles & Dating

yea the thing is he soo shy and he gave me gum today he soo cute i really like him and he likes me back should we have a date were both REALLY REALLY shy should we have a date

2007-02-12 08:47:58 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend were talking on the phone and he said is she going to ***** refering to my mom. but my mom misheard him and thought he called her a *****. and she flipped and told him not to call anymore. i really love him but she hates him. what can i say to her to give him another chance? or make things better?

2007-02-12 08:47:55 · 5 answers · asked by hj 1 in Friends

One of my friends got pregnant when she was 14, and she's 15 now and she's had her baby and I'm going to visit her. This is the first time seeing her in like a year.

I feel really weird going to visit her. We used to be really good friends and went to school together, but her mom pulled her out of school to go to a private school.

Anyone got any advice on what we could talk about? Thanks in advance! :)

2007-02-12 08:47:53 · 9 answers · asked by Jayden C 2 in Friends

they're gonna cheats anywayz? is it cause they want someone to cook and clean for them and take care of them when they're sick or just to have kids? why don't they just get a maid for that? it's better to go an live your player fantasy then to do it while hurting someone

and cheating includes lap dances (yes that's cheating guys it's sexual contact) & strip clubs and that sorts of **** but back to my question why guys why do you get married if you'll cheat and want to be players? be HONEST

2007-02-12 08:47:50 · 7 answers · asked by mamama 2 in Singles & Dating

I had asked my best friend, Milly, to talk to this guy that i liked (Josh) to see if he if he liked me back, so a week later my other friend Katie tells me that Josh likes Milly. it turns out Milly wasnt really talking to Josh about me, she was really flirting with him, even though she doesnt like him. I no it may sound like in in 7th grade but what do u think I did to her to get her to do something so b*t*hy to me??? I Though she was my best friend??

2007-02-12 08:47:37 · 4 answers · asked by Leah 2 in Friends

could it be possible that my boyfriend is trying to get me to have intercourse with him the hard way instead of the easy way? the easy way is asking me strait out, and the hard way is subliminal messages, hints, playing hard to get etc, so could it be possible that he is trying to get me to have intercourse with him the hard way? by the way we havn't had intercourse yet. "i only lied in my questions box so people would answer my true question faster", i'm a very impatient girl, sorry.

2007-02-12 08:46:15 · 39 answers · asked by US 3 1 in Singles & Dating

why are guys so drawn to sex? ugh, it's a huge turn off but lets not get started.. you see, i was wondering. what is it that makes men SO attracted to sex.. they are always thinking about it and stuff.. like, is it the though about seeing their partner naked, or .. what?

2007-02-12 08:45:54 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my girlfriend have been ready for atleast 2 months, we have talked it over and decided we should have sex....we have been dating for 3 years.

2007-02-12 08:45:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

33 yrs old, A pennsylvania country boy. I am currently working outside the country. I tried yahoo member directory but for some reason it isnt working. I guess im just alittle homesick. I figured I would give this a try.

2007-02-12 08:44:20 · 3 answers · asked by James O 1 in Singles & Dating

Maybe I'm viewing things differently than how they actually are. So from how I see it, 20+ years ago, the guy would just pop the question, total surprise for his future fiancee.

With how things have changed socially now, is it now commonplace for a couple to discuss marriage prior to the actual proposal? Would they also discuss the ring, finances, family, etc prior as well? If so, then the modern day proposal isn't really a surprise to the bride-to-be, is it? Because if it's discussed prior, she knows what's coming. How would a guy make it a surprise?

I guess this is kind of a philosophical/social question, but I am curious of other viewpoints on it. I'm personally for discussing marriage prior, but I am wondering about how it all would pan out as the whole idea of a proposal is historically supposed to catch the woman off-guard.

2007-02-12 08:43:41 · 15 answers · asked by Tygirljojo 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you regret it?? How does it feel??

2007-02-12 08:43:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I got this sick feeling lately that a huge amount of women cheat. Now I am a man that plans on finding a good women and being faithful, however every where I look I hear stories of cheating women, women having kids with a different man than there husband, all kinds of stuff like this, and its giving me a terrible outlook for the whole thing. Now I know men cheat too, maybe even more, but are the chances that I'll have a wife that will probly cheat at some point. Ladies be honest here.

2007-02-12 08:43:26 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy, he is VERY gothic , I'm afraid he's gonna look at me and think that I have serious mental issues if I even tell him.

2007-02-12 08:43:07 · 7 answers · asked by primamaria04 5 in Singles & Dating

I'm a very shy 20 year old college student. Between August and December I was depressed alot about being alone and how I am. After Christmas I went on the first date of my life, but the girl and I ended up not clicking so I'm alone again. I haven't really been depressed (except for one time) since the beginning of the year, most ly because I've been ignoring all that kind of stuff. Tomorrow I will see people with flowers and balloons and stuff and I need to convince myself that It's ok that I'm alone.

2007-02-12 08:42:31 · 1 answers · asked by Wocka wocka 6 in Singles & Dating

because they don't accept their looks or body.

2007-02-12 08:42:19 · 28 answers · asked by curlyloxx 3 in Singles & Dating

I am almost ready to say f*ck it. I don't need a man, right? I can do bad by myself.

2007-02-12 08:41:59 · 2 answers · asked by precious 3 in Singles & Dating

2 weeks ago,a coworker sent me an email that I was too weird for him to be friends with because I was sending him mixed signals. B4 this we had been close for awhile and I told him it was best that we ignore each other so I can get over my crush on him since he already has a gf not in the US . During all of this, he suggested that the best way to get over him was to sleep with him. I thought he really wanted me because he kept asking if I wanted to do it. Then he told me that I should do it with someone else since he already has a gf. I felt hurt and angry since I told him things that I wanted him to do to me. Days later I called him a dog via text since he jerked my feelings around, then I felt bad about it and wrote a letter apologizing to him. Then 2 weeks ago, he looked at me like he wanted to say hi and I emailed him asking him if we could just treat each other civily and say hi. He said I was too weird and that I shouldn't email, text, or say hi to him. I haven't but he looks.

2007-02-12 08:41:41 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex boyfriend told me when I met him that he had never been married and was still a virgin for religious reasons. He was a physically normal, very good looking guy who was definitely interested in women. He wasn't a totally honest person because he encouraged me to lie to other people. Do you think he probably lied about being a virgin?

2007-02-12 08:41:23 · 8 answers · asked by mj_indigo 5 in Marriage & Divorce

I slept with a girl from work, and now I regret it. I thinks she wants a relationship, but I'm not ready for that now. How do I let her tell her this without hurting her feelings?

2007-02-12 08:41:12 · 10 answers · asked by chadesius 2 in Singles & Dating

I went out on a date with this guy I was completely in love with when I was 16 (5 years ago), and he was a total idiot! He couldn't stop talking about himself and he sounded like a 14 year old! He has a giant ego, and went on and on about everyone on earth having egos, except him! I felt so misserable the entire time and now I just feel so embaressed for ever liking this stupid, immature guy. Plus, he's about 5'1'' and looked like he weighed about 120 pounds! Why do I feel so insanely embarassed? Shouldn't I find this thing funny and laugh it off? what's my problem?!

2007-02-12 08:40:53 · 3 answers · asked by Jess S 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married and though I already have a long last name, I'm thinking about hypenating and using my maiden name as my middle (i.e. Jane Doe-Smith). My reasons for doing this is simply because I already have children and I don't want to have a completely different last name than they have. His adopting them and changing their last name won't work - their father will never stand for that. Also, I would like to have another child after we are married, I definately don't want the three of us (me, him and the baby) to have a different last name - I don't want to alienate my kids. My fiance totally understands this, though I think secretly he's sad about it - he just wants me to have his last name without the hypenation. If I didn't already have children, it wouldn't even be an issue, I'd simply take his name. So I'm wondering what other brides and brides-to-be have done or are doing? Did you/will you hypenate or simply take your husband's last name?

2007-02-12 08:40:47 · 10 answers · asked by Brandy 6 in Weddings