they're gonna cheats anywayz? is it cause they want someone to cook and clean for them and take care of them when they're sick or just to have kids? why don't they just get a maid for that? it's better to go an live your player fantasy then to do it while hurting someone
and cheating includes lap dances (yes that's cheating guys it's sexual contact) & strip clubs and that sorts of **** but back to my question why guys why do you get married if you'll cheat and want to be players? be HONEST
2007-02-12 08:47:50 · 7 answers · asked by mamama 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men cant help themselves from cheating..just like women cant stop gossiping.
2007-02-20 00:06:00 · answer #1 · answered by fajita 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've been married 3 times now and only ever once cheated. Even now over 20 years on I suffer a terrible sense of guilt. At the time I was extremely selfish and when I got the attentions of a good looking lady from Spain I couldn't resist. As I said I still feel great remorse. Incidentally my other 2 marriages failed because my wife's cheated on me while I was at work. But from a mans point of view I'm still the one who's been isolated.
I sometimes feel that we get with a person because at the time we like what we see. However in life we all develop and change. Unfortunately we don't always do it at the same rate. Therefore we need to find something else to help us along the way. Live and enjoy what you have while it's there and don't be angry when it's gone. Hopefully you'll grow together. It has been known.
2007-02-20 16:17:32 · answer #2 · answered by GEORGE T 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Cheaters are born that way. Society tells them that to be loved they must accept monogamy. But like the gay they are compelled to cheat.
Other guys are born to be monogamous. It is up to women to look for the signs and only commit to a guy she can trust. Or if the woman is born a cheater too, she should find a cheating guy and be swingers together. Sucks that cheater always want to get together with non cheaters.
Lap dances are stupid and sleezy, but not cheating. Just a corny way for some rube to get cheated out of a bunch of money by some sweaty slut, then he can go home all horney for his wife.
2007-02-15 09:17:12 · answer #3 · answered by tenbadthings 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I don't mind guys cheating as long as it's with me and not on me. If my guy wanted more action than I was giving him, he could bring the other girl to our house so we all three could make life more interesting...So I honestly don't think I have to worry about ever being cheated on.
2007-02-20 11:02:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
men are men and thats how they are(not all of them)sometimes they don,t plan it like that when they marry but as time goes on there feelings seem to change especially when she gains weight after child birth or if she stops taking care of herself physically they will look elsewhere and cheat.oh well thats what i,ve seen so far happen in reallity.
2007-02-20 14:52:59 · answer #5 · answered by Baby Doll 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
they want their cake and to eat it too, and if they can get away with it, they will do it.
2007-02-20 15:06:34 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
jf
2007-02-20 14:52:19 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋