Me and my girlfriend have been ready for atleast 2 months, we have talked it over and decided we should have sex....we have been dating for 3 years.
2007-02-12 08:45:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
14 is too young...that's not old enough.why are you thinkingg if you should have sex?can you just study first and later worry about that stuff.that's crazy!!
2007-02-15 18:34:20 · answer #1 · answered by misia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 is way too youthful. Take it from me. My first time i grow to be 16... yet my sister in regulation were given pregnant at the same time as she grow to be 14. Fourteen years previous is way too youthful to be having sex. No offense, yet you do not comprehend how a lot duty comes with having sex. once you initiate to have sex each and everything variations. you've all new concerns. What if the condom broke? What if i'm getting pregnant? Am I waiting for a touch one? What if i'm getting an STD? I advise the record basically is going on and on. And when you've it once, the subsequent guy you get with will assume it because you've already done it. do not enable anybody stress you into some thing you're not any further particular of. And seeing the way you're on line asking once you're too youthful, you possibly imagine you're and are wanting to attraction to close what others imagine.
2016-12-04 02:30:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Theres no way you are ready you are too young regardless of what everyone else is doing, I still think 14 is too young. Have you thought what you will do if she gets pregnant? Well no matter what birth control you use thats always a possibility....I always say at least wait until you're out of high school and you get an idea of whats out there and what u will do with your life...but in this day and age everyone is having sex at your age but they are also having kids at your age so really think about the responsibility that comes with having sex before you do it.
2007-02-12 08:52:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask your parents. Or tell your parents you want to. Show them that you are matuer enough to think about others like your parents before jumping into the unknown situation. I am sure you both have deep feelings for each other, but since you are asking people why not ask your parents. If they respond with anger or try to keep you both apart then maybe you shouldn't take their advise, but if they try to be understanding and discuss the matter with you then you now have an open communication line and someone who you can return to to get more information.
And if you do take any of my advise let it be this. Use protection, not because you don't trust each other, but because you don't want to have children... yet.... Hopefully
2007-02-12 08:54:27 · answer #4 · answered by Magus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're NOT ready at 14!!!! Are you ready to be a father? Is she ready to be a mother? Can you or she get a job and support each other and a baby? I don't think so! Be a child while you still can!
2007-02-12 08:49:51 · answer #5 · answered by First Lady 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's a personal choice. If you feel you are ready to handle all the consequences and responsibilities that go along with sex. I had sex when I was 14, but I made sure I was on the pill and my boyfriend used a condom, and I felt that I personally was ready for it.
2007-02-12 08:52:50 · answer #6 · answered by me! 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I say thats too young. You guys need time to mature a little more then maybe you will be old enough to handle a serious situation like that. You must think of the risks - pregnacy, stds, etc.
2007-02-12 08:51:29 · answer #7 · answered by sweetsss 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are too young at least wait until you are 16 or 17 and that is still young, you can get sick or get pregnant , and a 14 year old pregnant could DIE during the pregnancy and you would get accused of murder
2007-02-12 08:50:14 · answer #8 · answered by Veronica G 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Hell no...u guys aren't even mature enough to handle the emotionalism that comes along with it..just be patient and wait it out
2007-02-12 08:54:53 · answer #9 · answered by Lola M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
really all comes down to your choice but are u sure you are both mature enough mentallly for this? personally id say 14 is old enough but i was always told i was very mature when i was 14! but u have to be ready to take a huge responsibility if she ended up getting pregnant, sure u can handle it?
2007-02-12 08:50:20 · answer #10 · answered by motleybadass 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋