Family & Relationships - 11 February 2007

I got back in touch with a friend from middle school that is a leisbian. I knew she was gay. After hanging out for a month and becoming tight, she now loves me, if you know what I men. She told me and knows I'm staying straight and I'm not changing. She said she understanding perfectly. Another friend she's close with likes me and IF I hooked with him (which I don't really know if I will want to) she said she would be hurt, but understand and deal with it, She likes me more. I don't know what I should think about her liking me. One thing is she a great friend, and we are close like I said, though she is gothic and I'm not. I'm confused. What should I think or feel?

2007-02-11 12:55:26 · 16 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3 in Friends

my mom was an abusive person all her life and continue to do so, i've cut all ties with her for 1 year and my life was so much happier! i really love my aunty (mom's younger sister) and she was a wonderful lady, i want to keep in contact with her, sharing my life but i really don't want my mom to find out (the less she knows the better), but my aunty and my mom talks on the phone every week because my mom is looking after her daughter (my cousin lives in the same country as me), i've told my aunty to not repeat anything i said to my mom but somehow my instinct tell me she will, my aunty said she will not say anything (with a seak voice) should i continue confide in her?

2007-02-11 12:54:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Do you perfer a girl who looks pretty without wearing makeup, or a girl who just looks good with makeup? What are your reasons? thanks

2007-02-11 12:54:31 · 17 answers · asked by crazy little thing called love 3 in Singles & Dating

should i turn right or left??serious answers only...thank you

2007-02-11 12:54:05 · 3 answers · asked by anna gr 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, im a girl whos 15 and my girlfriend lives 45 minutes away and therefor goes to different school, i dont know anyone there, but i want to do something really special for her on valentines day, but i dont know what. help. what should i do?

2007-02-11 12:53:14 · 4 answers · asked by shea p 1 in Singles & Dating

I really need some advice please.

2007-02-11 12:52:47 · 4 answers · asked by cutiepie1019664 1 in Singles & Dating

He has cheated on me before in the past, But that was 2 years ago and he is home with me every night...is he just a weirdo?

2007-02-11 12:52:01 · 19 answers · asked by jiggamaboo 2 in Marriage & Divorce

hey guys i was hopin u can help me like u've been helpin me all along. i notice a girl for the first time during my last year of h.s. in witancial h.s,MD . she cute but i really like her personality. even though i only know her for 6 days and really talked for 3 days. i know i make her laugh. my question is how do i know she likes me too since she is one year younger than me and how would like you guys to give me some pointer to both win her heart and give signas that i like her without revealing to much.... is offering food too much to get her attention .. another question since valentines day is comin up.. what should i do to at least show her that i like her... any sugestions...

2007-02-11 12:51:35 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i really want to ask this guy..but i am shy when it comes to this kind of stuff!! So how should i ask him to the dance!!!???

2007-02-11 12:50:37 · 3 answers · asked by Pro-Dancer 1 in Singles & Dating

I know these have been asked a lot but what do you women feel about the age difference between a 30 yr old woman and 25 yr old guy (me) ? I know it's only 5 years but I've heard that when women hit 30 they start looking for more "mature" guys. Any insght is appreciated....

2007-02-11 12:50:36 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does this mean that he likes me?

2007-02-11 12:50:29 · 9 answers · asked by joker 1 in Singles & Dating

A question for the guys?

I am single. I have been married. I have a wonderful daughter that I love very much. Been divorced from her Mum a long time. Before meeting her Mum and since we were separated - I have "known" a lot of women.

This does not relate to her Mum. There was no adultery, we just drifted apart.

It relates to my life now. I am a warm and loving guy, I like female company. I am not a love-rat. I meet someone, usually we "hit it off" and then some time later - there are some small problems? I am a workaholic and I give her some room to doubt me (I always try - but sometimes, my days are very intense) . Sometimes the lady - is too clingy? Possibly - all is not right in the bedroom and I become restless? (I dont mean that to sound bad - it isnt).

I've known some wonderful ladies and some remain very good friends ;-) I fear that - I have created a perfect woman in my head.

This is not normal. How many women have you "known? .

2007-02-11 12:49:53 · 10 answers · asked by ~Mustaffa~Laff~ 4 in Singles & Dating

Lesbians Why? More Inside?
Why is it that 25 years ago if you was to take all the men off the world and leave only females ,there would be no more civilization,but at the same time technology came into the picture, and now females act like men aint worth ****.Because if they wanted a family all they have to do is adopt or pay for one. What that being said no disrespect to any lesbians, I love them all, But whats the damn fault with not liken men at all. Damn , Thats a one life road, with no man and woman relations, not talking about bi.Just Lesbians. Why men aint **** all of sudden and they are dum, Just because Women are knowledge on how men think a little ,Why take the ball and run with it, and never come back. I understand the comfort level for things, when someone is lonely,no one should be alone period.But never come back

2007-02-11 12:49:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lets say that i'm going on my first date with someone. she has a good sense of humor and she thinks that i do as well, but my personality is best when i'm with my friends and we will be on the date alone (of course). I'm not a very big talker, matter of fact when my friends arent around, i don't have anything to say. what should i talk to her about? I mean, obviously i can't just sit there in silence, what topics are appropriate, I'm kinda a geek i guess.

2007-02-11 12:48:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Weve been only going out for 1 week.but i dont know if i should get him a card or some chocolates?

2007-02-11 12:48:55 · 9 answers · asked by Priscilla 1 in Singles & Dating

...spouse or life partner? I'm sure there's a romantic answer to the big 'how we met' question. But I think that in the beginning, interest (no matter how vain) does play a part as a reason for selecting a partner. How is it that people call it unconditional love?
We all have made mistakes and have flaws of our own. But everything always comes afloat. There's more than one question here:
Are they denying the truth about meeting each other to live in a dream world?
Do they lower the standards of their convictions?
Are there real conditions?
Does 'change' take a part in all this?

PS. Change can destroy a relationship.

single/male/33

2007-02-11 12:48:15 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Can someone recommend a song about two people who want to be together but can't? (thus, a Romeo and Juliet song)

It can be any style, tempo, anything. I would like it better if the lead vocals were done by a female artist, but that doesn't really matter that much.

2007-02-11 12:48:07 · 6 answers · asked by jj76 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a mum of 3 year old twins and am wondering how twins feel about being a twin. I am sure like everything there are good and bad points. Just interested to hear your point of view.

2007-02-11 12:47:44 · 7 answers · asked by the_little_one_said 3 in Family

I like to wear black clothes because in them I feel beautifull safe and protected, I know it sounds weird, but that's just the way I feel, the problem is people won't accept me this way, not even my mom, she's always telling me I look goth and saying goth is demonic.
My friends are always telling me I look gloomy and saying I should wear more colors,and even the mother of one of my friends told him he couldn't go anywhere with me because of the way I was dressed.

What should I do??

Should I pretend to be someone I'm not just for people to accept me??

How do I tell my mom goth is what I am and it won't stop me from being a good christian??

2007-02-11 12:47:34 · 18 answers · asked by Debbie 2 in Family

I have feelings for a girl in my school. Im 14. shes in all my classes.

2007-02-11 12:47:00 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am an adult living at home with my mom while finishing my law degree. I have a bother who is 20 at home. About 2 years ago my dad had an affair and left my mom. HIs lying, deceit, and betrayal was certainly was the opposite of my honest and loving mother.

Since then my mom has tried dating with not a lot of success. She has made a lot of friends though and looks great. However, she tells us she wants to date and she wants to try different methods (eharmony, a matchmaker, singles club). Both my brother and I are supportive. This weekend we found out (we had our suspicions) that she is dating a married (possibly separated man) for months. The way we found out was not great and required some snooping. Our question is how do we confront our mother who has been lying for months? How can she lie to our face that she was away with her friends when we know she was with him? Can we do this without destroying what is left of our family? I am a Christian who values honesty and family.

2007-02-11 12:46:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

What do you do when an in-law hates you and you have never even been around them to speak of and when you do run in to them the dirty looks scare you.

2007-02-11 12:46:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

sorry to be so blunt but I met this GREAT guy and I liked him alot, then I found out that his penis was very very small and now my feelings for him have went away. I feel so bad and I wish that didnt bother me....I have a strong urge now to JUST be his friend...what should I do? by the way, this is serious, im not joking incase any of you think I am

2007-02-11 12:45:37 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so I went clubbing on the week end and my boyfriend couldn't come coz he got to wasted and picked out on us, I went with a 2 friends a guy and a girl.
Well I this guy there there that in the past has been quite sleezy and my boyfriend acually punched him in the past. Anyway I desided to be polite and say then I went of with my mates.
Bout halve and hour later he was standing by with mates and he came over and put him arm round me, so I told him to back off.
I feel bad for some reason. Why is that did I do somthing wrong

2007-02-11 12:45:03 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it coz adults wont reason?
(wiv these irrational brats)

2007-02-11 12:44:51 · 15 answers · asked by qwerty 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I fell in love with a girl at first sight. we became friends at first but now it has progressed. She is a Christian and at first said it would not be right to be in a relationship with someone who isnt so we waited and i am trying my best at Christianity. We have never kissed (i dont know why! religion etc.)....but i am a really successful guy i am also a part time model so its not a "looks" thing but she still cant accept me at all.....on the phone she seems distant...she made a comment about how she would "love to see the world with me" but then ten minutes later she goes quiet again...I am so in love with her.

What will i do?

2007-02-11 12:43:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 12:43:41 · 9 answers · asked by dab1121 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-11 12:43:40 · 6 answers · asked by ashley m 1 in Singles & Dating

My colors are red, white, and silver. I want to do something inexpensive but different than a plain flower arrangement. Any pictures of real centerpieces?

2007-02-11 12:43:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-02-11 12:43:13 · 31 answers · asked by rayjay80602 1 in Singles & Dating