Im in Love but im not sure where she is.?

Question

I fell in love with a girl at first sight. we became friends at first but now it has progressed. She is a Christian and at first said it would not be right to be in a relationship with someone who isnt so we waited and i am trying my best at Christianity. We have never kissed (i dont know why! religion etc.)....but i am a really successful guy i am also a part time model so its not a "looks" thing but she still cant accept me at all.....on the phone she seems distant...she made a comment about how she would "love to see the world with me" but then ten minutes later she goes quiet again...I am so in love with her.

What will i do?

Answer 1

I hope you find her soon......

Answer 2

Hey i can understand why she might appear that way she does... I'm a Christian as well so i think i know what might be the problem. As Christians it is said that we should not be unequally yolked which means that its not right that we should go out with a non-Christian. As i can see that u've tried your best to impress her thats great. And i think she must be fighting to go out with you behind your back with her parents etc(i would be probs doing that if i love a non-christian :)).And another point is that most girls think that boys want to go out with them just cause they want to have sex and that might not be the reason with you. So i think you should talk to her about it. Tell her how much you feel about and that you wish she would tell you if there is anything that you could do to make things better???And give her some time to think about it all :) And im really sure she loves you from her heart....
take care!

Answer 3

hmmmm....girls are complex creatures - well done for trying you hardest at christianity - but are you doing this for her or because you NEED to do it for yourself - if youre doing it for her it will be obvious to her by your passionate differences for God...and WILL be noticable

i feel that maybe the chase is also what keeps her going as it is natural to feel a thrill in that - hold back a bit and dont show her your eagerness - desperation kind of puts girls off a bit - show her you rugged side, a manly without trying too hard side -, regardless of her devout christianity there is also the human nature side -

if in real doubt ask her why she is like this - without being too pushy or demanding -

albeit you are a model - sometimes its not about looks - as it it personality that makes a person and makes their looks - a person with a beautiful FUNNY heart could be ugly as anything but that personality makes them handsome - where as you could have the worlds most gorgeous guy and without the personality his features are nothing -

seek Gods guidance in this, he knows your heart -

Song of Solomon 8:7
Many waters cannot quench love; rivers cannot wash it away. If one were to give all the wealth of his house for love, it would be utterly scorned. (NIV)

1 Corinthians 13:1-8a and 13

Answer 4

I think, in my humble opinion it is a bit ignorant to deny you because you are not a Christian. Surely, it should be about your personality, not if you believe in a super natural being or not?

You can still have many of the Christian traits, without being one.

I know plenty of girls that sound like that, she's probably doesn't mean to be distant. She might just not know what to say - I would help her out a bit.

Answer 5

You will eventually realize that even though you have good qualities doesn't mean that every woman you like will like you back. She has reservations about your religious differences--which is not something you want to overlook--and until she is comfortable with that she will remain distant.

You will either become a Christian (and not just "try your best at Christianity") or you will move on.

Answer 6

come on man. Christianity? im sorry but this sounds exaclty like my story and i can't even begin to comprehend how you could put your faith into jesus christ at a whim and for a girl? Maybe im being hard, and im sorry i don't have an answer to your question, but it is just completely beyond me as to how you can just pick up christianity so lightly to get a girl. I mean, if you think im being a jerk then sorry. i envy your ability to accept christianity so much. I wish i could, but i just can't do it

Answer 7

Surely if she is religious , practicing christian girl you must mean a lot to her to be involve in a relationship that should normally only lead to one thing ...That is marriage of course.
I wouldn't worry if i was you , perhaps it is only a trait of her personality . Love doesnt stop there find depth ...communicate :D

Im engaged to a religious boy ...we havnt kissed either and he can be the same way as your girl ,doesnt mean he doesnt love nor care. Give it commitment true love can only flourish :D
Hope that helps ...

Answer 8

It seems like she's a shy girl. Maybe you should just wait to see what will happen. Be patient w/her. She's a very strong Christian. Try going to church w/her so that you can show her how much she means to you.

Answer 9

keep giving her attention and try to focus more on her needs now
the problem is how you do it...

keep showing her that you love her rather than telling her that
if you are far away, and you can only talk by phone, maybe you can try and find a nice opportunity to tell her how you love her, but watch your tone of voice

Answer 10

I wouldn't worry about her with other guys, if she wouldn't even KISS you cause your not a christian, yet your a MODEL, she's VERY cautious and gaurded unless your just messed.

Answer 11

If it's worth it wait. She seems like she wants something concrete and permanent. If that's what you want, be patient and wait it out....if not I don't think this is the girl for you.