my mom was an abusive person all her life and continue to do so, i've cut all ties with her for 1 year and my life was so much happier! i really love my aunty (mom's younger sister) and she was a wonderful lady, i want to keep in contact with her, sharing my life but i really don't want my mom to find out (the less she knows the better), but my aunty and my mom talks on the phone every week because my mom is looking after her daughter (my cousin lives in the same country as me), i've told my aunty to not repeat anything i said to my mom but somehow my instinct tell me she will, my aunty said she will not say anything (with a seak voice) should i continue confide in her?
2007-02-11 12:54:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Every time I ignore my instincts I regret it.
2007-02-11 13:13:14 · answer #1 · answered by Rani 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust is as important for you as for her. I know it can be hard to trust people if the person you're supposed to be able to trust (your mom) lets you down. I say trust everyone until they give you a reason not to. It seems that your aunt is important for you as a confidant, so don't just give that up easily.
2007-02-11 20:59:08 · answer #2 · answered by petral6 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well that depends on how much you trust this "aunty" of yours if u do really like her then give her a chance but if it's kind of an ify and short relationship watch your back
2007-02-11 20:59:55 · answer #3 · answered by Susan K 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If u dont trust her, write it all down in a private diary. then it isnt bottled inside of you and you feel less stressed.
2007-02-11 20:58:59 · answer #4 · answered by parisgrl73 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, If you are NOT comfortable then DON'T. Your gut instinct is more likely right than wrong.
2007-02-11 20:59:09 · answer #5 · answered by GRUMPY 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your aunt what your mum is doing to you.
2007-02-11 20:57:40 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
aunty's not a very trusing name.
2007-02-11 21:11:41 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
follow your heart
2007-02-11 20:58:30 · answer #8 · answered by b_eazy01 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe you can trust her.
2007-02-11 21:02:35 · answer #9 · answered by JoJoBa 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-02-11 20:56:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋