He has cheated on me before in the past, But that was 2 years ago and he is home with me every night...is he just a weirdo?
2007-02-11 12:52:01 · 19 answers · asked by jiggamaboo 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well can I ask, if has cheated on you in the past what is stopping him now... I dated a guy for 5 years and he cheated on me in the beginning and I stayed and then he left his phone with me one day and he got a call and picked it up just so I could take a message nothing bad... the girl on the other end said of I am sorry, wrong number... I remember the number and looked in his records that were part of a joint phone bill that he and I had and found that girl calls a lot and I called it to find out he was cheating again... I left... it took me 5 years to find out but I am glad I am out of that crap, always wondering what he is doing and so on.... When you live with someone, there is no personal property just like getting into a relationship there is no MY stuff, its WE or OURS.... If you are having doubts then get out its not worth your time and tears. But its your decision it took me so long to find out that I could live without him and we had a home together and were going to get married that summer, I even had the dress... But at least I found out when I did and now I have complete trust with my new fiancee and no doubts or worry... its a huge relief. good luck.
2007-02-11 13:10:59 · answer #1 · answered by amazonkittycat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's hiding something if he wont let you use the same phone with him. Which means someone is calling that phone that shouldn't be. I'd somehow monitor his phone bill to find out what phone calls are being made and coming in on a consistent basis. If you cant get ahold of his phone bill then get online and create an account and find out the phones activity.
2007-02-11 20:55:44 · answer #2 · answered by Aimee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get your own phone!! Of course his phone is his property, duh. If my husband came to me and demanded I "shared" my phone, I would tell him to get lost. I have my own, and he has his, there's never even been a question of "sharing". If you don't trust your husband - it has nothing to do with the phone, you living together, the baby or anything else. You have to deal with the trust issues directly, not by picking fights about peripheral stuff like the phone.
2007-02-11 21:21:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is not a good guy and I know he is probably cheating on you. Take your baby and get out now. Move on with your life and he is wrong for doing this to you and to your baby.
2007-02-11 21:00:37 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're only living with the guy, he doesn't HAVE to share anything with you. Frankly I'm thinking YOU are the weirdo to allow yourself to be used this way...But that is your CHOICE.
2007-02-11 23:25:43 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He needs to grow up... wake up and smell the roses!
If he is in a committed relationship with you, then you are his personal property too, and so are your kids, and so..... you have every right to see his phone if you want to.
2007-02-11 21:21:18 · answer #6 · answered by addicted2stamping 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously there are trust issues because of past problems, I think if he cared about giving you peace of mind then he would just be open and honest. If there were no reason for him to be hiding anything, he wouldn't!
2007-02-11 20:58:07 · answer #7 · answered by mistyboo143 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sadly yes. Yes it is bad that he won't share. Honesty is the best way for a relationship to go on.
2007-02-11 20:55:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well u cant just blame ur husband 100%
it might be tht he wants to have privacy on his stuff..coz its seems tht u ve been sharing alot of things together..
but u still have consider about him cheating behind u,coz he had "case" b4..so all i could say just wait n see
2007-02-11 21:09:25 · answer #9 · answered by young wifey~ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm i guess to some extent it is personal but if he is making a issue of it then why ?¿?¿ i would be a bit weary if my man said that espec after having cheating history
2007-02-11 20:55:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋