Family & Relationships - 10 February 2007

rite well my m8 clair fancies her uncle martin and she even baught him a valentines card! and wen he kisses her just as a friendly family peck on the cheek she thinks its gr8 and she thinks they have a chance. i mean she is 13 and he is 31 for flips sake. THERE RELATED FOR CRYING OUT LOUD! help me show her its rong!

2007-02-10 07:24:57 · 6 answers · asked by emsi_n_kiki 1 in Friends

she is always talking about her sex life.
one time she was talking about wut she did last nite and she said was mad at her b/f so she had sex 12 times with his best friend.
she is friends with my best friend and she thinks she is my best friend too. wut should i do???

2007-02-10 07:24:36 · 10 answers · asked by walks with goats 2 in Singles & Dating

Is there anyways to tell if your going to marry the one that you love, now I am only 17 but I truley want to marry the love of my life, but anytime that i tell her, she Is Like well I am only 17 and I don't really need to worry about that right now, but I have my Heart set on it, Any Help?

2007-02-10 07:24:09 · 9 answers · asked by Nate C 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-10 07:23:56 · 10 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Singles & Dating

We have been married for 3 years and we mistakenly had the "past lovers" talk. I feel like pandora's box just opened up. I found out that she was not shy at all when it came to casual sex. She has had numerous one night stands, sex on the first date, sex with "friends with benefits". I am not even nearly as experienced as her. If you put her past on a scale with my past, it would tip very hard in her favor, enough to topple the scale.

And what really gets to me is that now I'm married to her. I feel that she shared herself with a whole lot of people for free, yet I'm here paying a premium (marriage) to be with her.

Am I crazy for feeling this way?

2007-02-10 07:23:44 · 24 answers · asked by Joe B 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-10 07:22:58 · 33 answers · asked by cigaro19 5 in Marriage & Divorce

gosh just somebody tell me !!

2007-02-10 07:22:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My best friend has been separate from her ex boyfriend for over a year living her life and they finally decided to meet up and see each other. Even though they had decided to be friends, one night she told me that she heard him get in her bed with her pull her close to him, and kiss her twice while she was "sleeping". Now some have told her that that is what friends do but I think he still has feelings for her, maybe im crazy. what do you think?

2007-02-10 07:21:46 · 9 answers · asked by saborfresca82 1 in Singles & Dating

Every thing i do, every move i make, my paernts are in my business.For once i want them to know im not a kid anymore, i am fully responsible for myself.I don't tell them anything because they tell the whole family your business, and them kind of things are not for everyones ears.Somethings are better of left unsaid.

2007-02-10 07:21:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-10 07:21:23 · 10 answers · asked by S x 1 in Singles & Dating

a size 8 and 5ft 7. Whenever there are family fuctions and parties I don't feel like going as all I see is her sitting with her size 8 mates giggling and watching me in disgust. My weight is never steady I often go from a size 14/16 and 5ft 3.

Yesterday it was my mums 45th birthday and I now a size 12 after eating properly and exercising. Finally I feel good about myself I am now healthy with so much energy. So I treated myself to a nice dress and accessories. Big mistake. I walked into my mums party feeling healthy and trim just for my cousin to come over to me with her boyfriend. He said to me you'll never look this hot darling (pointing at her) why keep trying. I just ran out drove home crying.

I miss when my cousin used to be close with me and hate the way she treats me. At the moment I feel depressed as I have no one to talk to and I feel like I cant take it no more. I ain't jelious of her I just want us to be close again.

What can I do?

2007-02-10 07:21:06 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

something I always wondered.. discuss?

2007-02-10 07:20:55 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A safe place, one where it is smart and safe to go being a single woman. In a new city where you know NO one. A place to meet Frinds and even guys. Any Ideas? I am moving to Colorado and know no one there... At my job the people are much older than I am and married and dont go out. SO any advice ... anyone?
Thanks

2007-02-10 07:20:47 · 14 answers · asked by D 1 in Singles & Dating

My muslim husband of 9 years married a woman behind my back we have two children together. This was so unexpected for me.I just found out he was married again two months ago.and yes he did this while we were still married and the woman knew about me she just didnt care. There was no known problems in our relationship.I went online found out some info about this woman nadia smith oakland ca I found out she has been to jail she is a bad woman for forceable entry .He wanted to be with me still i am not muslim i can not do this.I have been with him for 9 years and now he is becoming someone else he is doing things I've never seen him do he is becoming really volient he has called me bitches something he has never did while we were together he has attacked our 9 year old son.He has only known this woman for 2 months he acts as if I am the stranger now Who is he what has he become

2007-02-10 07:20:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've not spoken to my close female friend for 2 months as we got to close.I told her that I wanted no contact so that I could get over her. She only wanted to be friends.

I've tried to get bck in touch as I've got over her now and I'm interested in another girl.She's been ignoring my attempts to get in touch-I've apologised if I wasn't tactful in the way I said I wanted no contact for awhie

My friends have told me that she's told them that she's ignoring me 'AS WE ARE ON A BREAK' - MEANING?

Also she thinks that I think of us as a couple!

Why would she say this - especially as I'm the one who wanted no contact TO GET OVER HER!!!

Advice

I just don't understand why she's lying!!!

Why she hurting-she wanted to be friends!

2007-02-10 07:20:10 · 9 answers · asked by sircrazydude90 2 in Friends

2007-02-10 07:19:47 · 3 answers · asked by iceKP 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, there is this guy who I've known for a long time. Recently (like two months ago) I started liking him. A month ago, he asked me to the movies and we went and he paid. Is that a date? But my main question is, is yesterday he asked me to come over to his house to watch this marathon of a show we both like. Are these signs he likes me? And also how can I get him to ask me out? Help is appreciated

2007-02-10 07:19:36 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my cousin is gonna 2 b 13 wat should i get her

2007-02-10 07:19:12 · 3 answers · asked by mimi 1 in Friends

2007-02-10 07:19:05 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i heard that within 10 minutes men think about sex atleast 30 times. anyways why do ppl act like sex is their life. seriuosly like their are other things to keep people occupied. if they dont get sex right away they have a melt down or something. personally as a girl i dont think sex is all that great. well maybe its because the first time i did it was unpleasant and never did it again. i didnt even like the guy. just wanted to loose my virginity. anyways im willing to give it another try but i want to be in love. so my question is.. is sex better when u are in love wit da person? and what is the difference between "having sex" and "making love" is there even a difference at all?

2007-02-10 07:18:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am planning to have a small wedding (150-175 people) but since I have never done this before, I am planning to meet with two sisters, friends of mine, who do wedding planning on the side. Again since I have never done this before I am wondering how much to expect, in terms of cost. Can you give me an idea?

2007-02-10 07:17:32 · 10 answers · asked by ksnle67 1 in Weddings

should an exwife be givin a second chance?

2007-02-10 07:17:02 · 13 answers · asked by john n 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i have never been kissed!!!
is that ok for a 14 year old?
i had a b/f for 3 months over the summer but we never kissed.
he never even held my hand.
am i unattractive?

2007-02-10 07:16:50 · 8 answers · asked by walks with goats 2 in Singles & Dating

I have screwed up ALOT during the past few years, I got caught sneaking out, drinking, and now bringing alcohol to school... How stupid am I. I just need some advice right now on how I can get my parents, my dad (mostly) to trust me again.
He says he is disappointed in me... but I dont know what else to do. I say i wont do it ever again, but i keep doing it. I dont know what to do, I fell as though he doesnt care any more. and it hurts.

2007-02-10 07:16:48 · 12 answers · asked by allie_cat_andry 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

He is cute but sometimes..he gets on my nerves cuz all he ever says to me is that he is hott...in a way I kinda believe it but then I dont want to.
He used to be very disgusting saying imature things about girls in my class room and I would slap him for whatever he said.
But now that Valentines Day is coming....he has been very sweet asking me if I think I am going to my scools Valentine Dance...& I keep on telling him that i am not.He keeps on telling me that I am that I will go becuz this dance is only if u behave good I really havent.He has been saying also that I am a very nice girl that why wouldnt i go..he is kinda I guess trying to say that I am a sweet girl.
Made me blush..alot. But evryone thinks he is nasty what he says is nasty not his face...or anything but like how he thinks. I said many times to every1 that I dont like him..but I kinda do. I really dont know what to do...I am not sure if I like him Like him..what do u think?

2007-02-10 07:15:57 · 8 answers · asked by SGx 2 in Singles & Dating

ive been going going out with this guy for 5 weeks and in the past week hes been avoiding me. he never replies to my texts or my email he doesnt even say hi in passing and wont go on a date with me on valantines day!im really worried hes going to dump me. my friends keep telling me hes not though as if they know somthing i dont. do you think hes going to dump me.if so what can i do to stop him

2007-02-10 07:15:46 · 26 answers · asked by chimpapple 3 in Singles & Dating

we're both 19, and been together for 4 months and we fight every week. 2 months after we started going out he made me say i love you but he never said it back. He said if i didnt say it, then he will walk out. I did love him so i said it. When i asked him why he made me say it, he said its because he knew that i loved him and he had another good reason why but he forgot what it was. Since then, we keep fighting everytime we talk about our relationship because he doesnt like to talk about our relationship. He also said that he will never remember the reason why he made me say "i love you".
Also, he tried to break up with me 3 times already because he hates choosing between me and his friends. I told him that if thats what he really wants then he should do what he wants to do. But he said that he cares about me and he wants to take care of me and he wants to give it another try. Idk what to do, sometimes he is really sweet, then he will ruin it by hurting me bad and making me cry.

2007-02-10 07:14:26 · 18 answers · asked by Nina_678 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-10 07:13:58 · 5 answers · asked by Deboralysse 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

This girl I worked with I fell in love with. I have known her for three years. She has always wanted to date me and I felt a huge connection to her, I'm pretty sure she did to. She told me that she loved me a couple of times and I never responded. I felt the circumstances warranted that I couldn't tell her how I felt. I woke up in December realized that I might never see her again. I panicked and tried to contact her. Apparently she never ever knew that I had really strong feelings for her. I sent her a letter where I spilled my guts to her and apologized. She never got it, I thought she did and I totally screwed up. I scared her probably because she never knew I had feelings for her, she never got my apology letter, when I contacted her it coincided with her turning the age of consent in my state and I went a little overboard. She doesn't want to talk to me, probably cause I scared her. Should I try and contact her to get closure?

2007-02-10 07:13:50 · 14 answers · asked by DMan 2 in Singles & Dating

why is it no one wants to be my travel partner. tried asking my family n friends but all of them shrugged the idea of going to other parts of the world to explore .. i thgt of going for 2 years away from home.. just taking where my feet goes ... even though i'm not that of an experienced traveller.
i even had the urge to just find someone that i dont know to travel with .. but i know its going to be dangerous..

2007-02-10 07:13:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends