i have never been kissed!!!
is that ok for a 14 year old?
i had a b/f for 3 months over the summer but we never kissed.
he never even held my hand.
am i unattractive?
2007-02-10 07:16:50 · 8 answers · asked by walks with goats 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I can't answer whether you're unattractive or not, because a) I can't see you and b) it's completely relative to that person.
However, don't try and rush things, it will happen when it's supposed too! I'm 24 and didn't have my first proper kiss with a girl until I was eighteen, long after any of my friends had!
Best thing to do if you're unsure about why your boyfriend isn't holding your hand or being affectionate, is to just ask! It's probably not you, more likely he's just as nervous as you are!
2007-02-10 07:24:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is absolutely ok for a 14 year old! This also does not mean that you are unattractive. You do not need to be in a rush to do those kinds of things as they aren't really important yet. Your first kiss is a special one, so make sure that it's with someone you really care about. It will happen, but don't force it! It will also be very sweet and you will appreciate waiting.
2007-02-10 07:22:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, it's fine if you've never been kissed. I'm seventeen, going to be eighteen in June 2007, and I have never been kissed either. Don't worry about it, it is just probably not the right time for your knight in shining armor to show up. XP Just be patient. I know it can be frustating at times, but it'll all workout in the end.
2007-02-10 07:22:06 · answer #3 · answered by Mizuki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, 14 is fine for not having been kissed and as for the unattractive part i don't know what to tell you
2007-02-10 07:19:46 · answer #4 · answered by Kisa 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
okay, you have never been kissed...not a biggie. it'll happen. and this guy you wasted 3 months on, evidently wasn't that into you.
and if he made you feel you were unattractive, he REALLY wasn't worth it. take it slow, and as it comes.
2007-02-10 07:22:02 · answer #5 · answered by italiana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are fine. u shouldnt rush things, just calm down...=) i dont know if you are unattractive and that shouldnt matter to ur b/f if he really loved you.
2007-02-10 07:20:40 · answer #6 · answered by IGaveEmHell 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its fine=)
2007-02-10 07:27:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are probably cute and innocent so... STAY THAT WAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-02-10 07:20:17 · answer #8 · answered by rhonda_seiler 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋