should an exwife be givin a second chance?
2007-02-10 07:17:02 · 13 answers · asked by john n 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The thing is everybody changes. I think that is why marriages sometimes fail in the first place. We are all given the chance every day to "reinvent" who we are, what we believe and what we stand for. The fact that you are asking the question might mean that you already know the answer yourself.
Should you give her a second chance? Heck, you can give anyone an infinite number of "chances". It's always up to you.
2007-02-10 07:25:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People can change and usually do in some way or another but here is the crappy part about this.. When you are with someone they learn everything about you how you think ... how you are going to react and so on.. When there is negative things happening in the relationship that caused you to split up.. Those things do not just go away.. She knows what you will let go and not fight about.. she knows what will get you really mad.she knows how to hurt you when you fight and on and on. So if she were to find someone else she could be totally different because he doesn't do the same things as you.or react as you do.. I hope you can follow this.. But the bottom line is.. She will not change if she is with you!! Sh*tty i know but true!
2007-02-10 07:24:05 · answer #2 · answered by BLONDE BEAUTY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they sure can if they want to change for the better. Anyone deserves a second chance. Date and get to know her all over again and be friends at first. If over time you fall in love again then go ahead and get serious and remarry if you want to. Anyone can change.
2007-02-10 07:52:23 · answer #3 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the trust that is built. Everyone deserves a second chance if the person giving it is willing to it. ex's are people...people change!
2007-02-10 07:20:55 · answer #4 · answered by Roxy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can decide that. What may be forgivable to you may be unforgiveable to me.
However it seems to me you really want to give it a second try, so go for it!
2007-02-10 07:24:36 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
people can change.. most dont want to change ..that is a real problem...if he was an alcoholic or dfug user. he can change that.. but his personality and his way of thinking wont change.. it all depends on why you split up..
2007-02-10 07:25:30 · answer #6 · answered by road runner 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the reason you guys broke up in the first place
2007-02-10 07:20:28 · answer #7 · answered by Kisa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depands about the reason but yes everyone ccoud change if they really wanted to
2007-02-10 07:36:14 · answer #8 · answered by Spicatt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only you can decide, but the best predictor of future behaviour is past behaviour....
2007-02-10 07:38:45 · answer #9 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some do and some don't its up to you about giving another chance
2007-02-10 07:22:18 · answer #10 · answered by sweetgranny06 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋