2007-02-10 07:13:58 · 5 answers · asked by Deboralysse 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
one is my ex which we were together for 3 years & the other is my current bf we've been together for 6 months..
2007-02-10 07:15:06 · update #1
Truth? The answer is "NO" and I think that in your heart you know it too.
Smart girl to be realistic enough to know that the ex did not have desirable traits.
Smart girl for cutting ones losses and moving on.
What is left and confuses you is the habit, and the memories of your loyalty to him. Affection and true caring for his welfare.
You are a good person to even have these emotions to confuse you. Others would just cut off all these invisible "ties that bind".
This is the time when you listen to your head. Do the judgment thing all over again. What can you teach this new guy in your life that can be the equivalent of what you found really desirable in the ex?
2007-02-10 07:23:30 · answer #1 · answered by QuiteNewHere 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. You only have one heart and it should not be shared.
Find out the pros and cons for each one of them.
Rate them and see what's best.
Sounds like you just haven't found the right guy in either of them.
You should never compare one against the other. Everyone has faults, being in love ignores those faults and brings out the positive things about a person.
Sorry but you don't sound like you're in love
2007-02-10 07:53:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm , well yeah its possible to be in love with 2 guys but chances are slim . But if you really ar in love with them both I suggest looking past how much you love each one and look at which guy would be better for your future . Ex, job wise , education , lifestyle , the way he treats your family .. etc ..
2007-02-10 07:17:47 · answer #3 · answered by lovehate 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes possible
you probably still havent heald from the pain of your ex.
2007-02-10 07:16:41 · answer #4 · answered by DJ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am, so glad you are not somebody I know...
2007-02-10 07:17:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋