Family & Relationships - 9 February 2007

Ok, my exboyfriend and I have been broken up but still very good friends since sixth grade. (we are now in tenth grade) He lives an hour from where Iive so I don't see him much. After we broke up I went out with someone else but still loved him. He never went out with anyone because he was always in love with me too. Well, it's been a while since he called me (in fact, since before my birthday in December) and I found out from a friend of ours that he has a girlfriend but is scared to tell me. I think that he should be the one to call me but because he is being a coward he isn't, so should I call him and talk to him about it?

2007-02-09 09:07:51 · 9 answers · asked by Turtle 1 in Friends

in terms of virginity....are you still under no till or has your field been plowed?

2007-02-09 09:07:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-09 09:06:55 · 5 answers · asked by lucy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I love cheese! LOL JK!!!!

2007-02-09 09:06:50 · 5 answers · asked by ♥Kayla 3 in Singles & Dating

i have been with tom for 4yrs and we are to marry next summer.he has been divorced for 5yrs with a 7yr old child.the problem is his exwife she treats me like a doormat(tells me what i can and can't do with thier child,talks badly about me to our freinds+family ect)and all my bf does is makes excusses why he will not stand up for me(can't control what she says,don't want to make waves for his son ect)becuase he has joint custody of his son i have to deal with her all the time.now to makes matters worse after all she does to me hes nice to her(listens to her health problems,changes his childs visatation schedule around to help her out,basicly does what ever she whats)why when he knows how upset i get does he do this?why can't he stand up to her?hes the one who left her because she was so controlling to me it seems she still is

2007-02-09 09:06:32 · 8 answers · asked by shella7687 1 in Weddings

i have been with tom for 4yrs and we are to marry next summer.he has been divorced for 5yrs with a 7yr old child.the problem is his exwife she treats me like a doormat(tells me what i can and can't do with thier child,talks badly about me to our freinds+family ect)and all my bf does is makes excusses why he will not stand up for me(can't control what she says,don't want to make waves for his son ect)becuase he has joint custody of his son i have to deal with her all the time.now to makes matters worse after all she does to me hes nice to her(listens to her health problems,changes his childs visatation schedule around to help her out,basicly does what ever she whats)why when he knows how upset i get does he do this?why can't he stand up to her?hes the one who left her because she was so controlling to me it seems she still is

2007-02-09 09:06:07 · 15 answers · asked by shella7687 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have been with tom for 4yrs and we are to marry next summer.he has been divorced for 5yrs with a 7yr old child.the problem is his exwife she treats me like a doormat(tells me what i can and can't do with thier child,talks badly about me to our freinds+family ect)and all my bf does is makes excusses why he will not stand up for me(can't control what she says,don't want to make waves for his son ect)becuase he has joint custody of his son i have to deal with her all the time.now to makes matters worse after all she does to me hes nice to her(listens to her health problems,changes his childs visatation schedule around to help her out,basicly does what ever she whats)why when he knows how upset i get does he do this?why can't he stand up to her?hes the one who left her because she was so controlling to me it seems she still is

2007-02-09 09:05:54 · 4 answers · asked by shella7687 1 in Singles & Dating

ok for v-day i was thinking about getting my bf an ipod shuffle cuz he wants one to work out w/. but now i'm thinking since he's going to play in a baseball league & he needs to get new equipment-i'm thinking about getting him a $100 gift certificate for baseball express.
what should i get him?
i wanna get him something that he's gonna use-not something that is just gonna take up dust.

2007-02-09 09:05:19 · 3 answers · asked by Janelle Marie 3 in Singles & Dating

I'm renting Heartbreakers and drinking a bottle or two of wine. How about you?

2007-02-09 09:04:26 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1. lack of privacy
2. lack of money

I tend to believe that there is a more ominous reason because it seems to me that you can always find a place for that but who knows?

2007-02-09 09:04:23 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its really dumb, and people always say bad things about jesus..i mean get a grip people!


krista

2007-02-09 09:04:20 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I'm going out with this really nice guy who asked me out at the last clubnight. Before he was all over my friendbut when he asked her out she said no. Anyway she's in all of his classes and im in none of his classes so everytime i see him... my friends there having a laugh with him. I didn't mind. Then she goes around asking him for hugs RIGHT IN FRONT OF ME. thats when i got worried.
he's always busy but when he isnt then we sumetimes have a lil time to spend together. we haven't pulled but we were so close! but i still have a feeling that my friend is stealing him and shes not even single! what do i do?

2007-02-09 09:03:42 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what sexual position do guyz like the most? and what do you do with it? does anyone have any information or tips on what feels best for a guy to receive or do to himself?

2007-02-09 09:03:41 · 11 answers · asked by gennydell 1 in Singles & Dating

i have been with tom for 4yrs and we are to marry next summer.he has been divorced for 5yrs with a 7yr old child.the problem is his exwife she treats me like a doormat(tells me what i can and can't do with thier child,talks badly about me to our freinds+family ect)and all my bf does is makes excusses why he will not stand up for me(can't control what she says,don't want to make waves for his son ect)becuase he has joint custody of his son i have to deal with her all the time.now to makes matters worse after all she does to me hes nice to her(listens to her health problems,changes his childs visatation schedule around to help her out,basicly does what ever she whats)why when he knows how upset i get does he do this?why can't he stand up to her?hes the one who left her because she was so controlling to me it seems she still is

2007-02-09 09:02:33 · 11 answers · asked by shella7687 1 in Marriage & Divorce

. . .but honestly how many women like to get eatten out? Seriously. Is it ok to do that to a girl your just freinds with?

2007-02-09 09:02:08 · 12 answers · asked by JESTER 2 in Singles & Dating

Hopefully I get a broad range of answers, so I get a good idea of what it's like. Is anybody out there an Air Force wife? I recently got back together with my high school sweetheart, and his enlistment is up in August. He's thinking of staying in, in which case, we'd have to do some serious compromising and sacraficing, which we've never done before (that's why it failed before). He's an HVAC, and very good at what he does, he's gotten early promotions and done really well, and he likes it. I'm terrified of leaving my family, and... "following someone else", I guess. He wants to go to Europe, and see the world, and he's been told he'll get the chance if he stays. What's it like to marry into that? Is it fun? Is it boring? Do you wish he would have picked a different career? I haven't finished school yet, and its important for me to finish. Any insight would be greatly appreciated, thanks in advance.

2007-02-09 09:02:03 · 7 answers · asked by Mel 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my live in bf has not respected my wishes on dropping this one gal friend who is very disresectful to me and our relationship and she request to continue being his friend even in secretsy and he does so even after our marriage he continues his secret " friendship" with her and continues to lie to me about it after promising he would end whatever with her as part of me saying I do and starting over.
does it sound like a fact that he is more comitted to her rather than to me?
and if he is more comitted to himself then why would he be more comitted to talking to her than to our relationship or respect?

2007-02-09 09:01:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what is considered cheating? ppl always say that if u sleep with someone else, than thats cheating. but is that it? what if u kiss someone else or hug someone or hang out with someone who isnt ur mate. is that considered cheating. is it only sex thats considered cheating? when ppl say "she cheated on me" are they generally refering to sex?

2007-02-09 09:01:45 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when is the right time to have sex? and how old do u think u need to be to have sex?

2007-02-09 09:01:15 · 20 answers · asked by jessica h 1 in Singles & Dating

do they get that tingly feeling? is it even a big deal for them?

2007-02-09 09:01:00 · 3 answers · asked by ♪ Jackielynn 3 in Singles & Dating

ive been hanging out with this girl for the past week...never for very long but we get along great and Im really interested in her.

A buddy of mine told me she was talking to him about me and said that she likes me etc etc.

Anyways... we used to text each other a lot, and talk a lot but over the past few days I havent seen her and havent heard from her a whole lot.

Does this mean that she is waiting for me to initiate things, or does it mean she wants a break from me (i would have no idea why),or am I just being overly analytical and its really nothing, i mean it has only been a day or two.

I havent felt like this about someone before...usually girls are just girls, and even my ex girlfriends were never very important to me. This girl is different...I think about her all the time

2007-02-09 09:00:58 · 16 answers · asked by mr v 1 in Singles & Dating

is not meeting my sexual needs. I've told her I am attracted to her and need to be with her...but she is always too tired or sick or that time of the month...I have tried to be patient but am losing it. Before we got married, we were doing it nightly...should I go through with the affair?

2007-02-09 09:00:43 · 51 answers · asked by Johnny A 3 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my husband are spliting we live in a £160,000 house i don't want to take half but i would like something so interseted what i am actually entitled too

2007-02-09 08:59:57 · 19 answers · asked by nicki 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well i went out wit this guy who i love and we went out for 2 weeks then he broke up wit me and i cant get over it and we see each other 2 a week and we talk and were still friends but i am tring 2 get over him but its hard and i need help so plz give me some help.

2007-02-09 08:59:49 · 4 answers · asked by jessica h 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been in a relationship with a sometimes great man for 13 years. We have lived together for 8 of those 13 years. I love him with all that I am but sometimes find myself wishing I was single just so I would not have to compromise all the time. I know and understand that being in any relationship is work but should it not get easier as time goes on. After 13 years I thought it would be so easy but it seems that the longer we stay together the harder it gets and the more compromising I feel I am doing? Am I looking for a fairy tale thinking things are always supposed to be rosey and nice? Help me make since out of life and love.

2007-02-09 08:59:48 · 4 answers · asked by chema129 2 in Singles & Dating

Omigosh, have you ever gotten butterflies and goosebumps when you think of 'him/her'? Well, I have that feeling towards this boy at my school...well, he doesnt go to my school. I'm in 9th grade and he's in 10th. He's in high school and I'm in Middle School. I REALLY like him and have liked him ever since last year. Whenever I talk to him he makes fun of me because I'm so short, or how I'm so young or whatever. But he still asks for hi5s, and gives me frequent hugs. Whenever the topic comes up of him dating a younger person he always says 'I would NEVER go out with some little 9th grader'. But all my friends say that they think he likes me, but I'm too shy to!! What should I do? I REALLY like this guy, but I haven't seen him in about a month. There is a semi formal coming up and I want to ask him, but because I haven't seen him in awhile it could be awkward. Plus whenever there are older girls around he tends to flirt with them, so thats kind of a setback with me. Any help appreciated!

2007-02-09 08:59:43 · 2 answers · asked by Quin G 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend got in trouble with his parents because of grades and his attitude. His grades aren't even that bad but I need ideas as to how to improve his attitude towards his parents and be nicer to them. Like things to tell him he should try to do to fix it. I'm already working on the grades but advice on that would be good too. He can't hang out with me until he fixes his grades and has a better attitude. He also got his computer and cell phone taken away so I don't really have any way of talking to him accept at school. IDEAS PLEASE...?
he's a sophomore in high school by the way

2007-02-09 08:59:12 · 4 answers · asked by sportzchic09 2 in Family

So about a month ago I decided to ask an old coworker out to the movies since all my friends punked out on me. I figured..meh he was always calling to see if I wanted to hang out so why not just go to the movies with him.
Then he confesses to me he likes me more than just a friend/ex co worker and would like to date me and I staright told him I am not looking for any type of involvement (which is true). Plus he is really not my type for me to budge and give in.
He proceeded to say "I will take ever you can give, even it its just friendship I would like us to hang out."
I dont want that coz I feel bad, dont want to lead him on and we don't even have a friend like chemistry.
What is the best way for me to say no to him coz he keeps calling or texting me?

2007-02-09 08:58:29 · 15 answers · asked by Pudge_Monsta 3 in Singles & Dating

in the bedroom that freaked you out? Did you panic?
Did you try it?
What was it?

2007-02-09 08:58:22 · 17 answers · asked by Basket-santa 6 in Singles & Dating

I had some concerns about my relationship with my brother. We are so different and in many ways I felt bad with the way he joked around about me. I tried saying something over the years and he didn't ever seem to hear me. We are now in our 30's and I finally just emailed him after Christmas and told him that I am getting more upset over the years over something that started out so small. I feel upset and that he is insenitive to me frequently. It has been like this since childhood and so I told him that I don't blame him.. we were raised this way and I just felt that I needed to say something about it. He got very defensive and angry. So I told him that I would no longer put up with feeling bullied, no matter how innocent his intentions. He then emailed me back telling me that I am a very manipulative person and that he will not kiss my a-s-s. Did I do something wrong? I was just trying to ask him to show more respect when talking to me. What happened?????

2007-02-09 08:56:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family