in the bedroom that freaked you out? Did you panic?
Did you try it?
What was it?
2007-02-09 08:58:22 · 17 answers · asked by Basket-santa 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No but i freaked a few men out!! tee hee
2007-02-09 09:01:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. But i have asked and freaked someone out. Someone else asked me to do that same thing with her.
Peoples 'comfort zones' are not the same, take it slowly, and if you want to try something and you are not sure of the reaction - bring it up as a joke, test the water so to speak.
Better to be asked than it just happen though, an ex once did something that nearly sent me through the window - and im not easily shocked. The details stay private, i dont think this is the place to discuss some things.
2007-02-09 17:07:32 · answer #2 · answered by Subic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, rule #1: if you're freaked out, that's not a good sign.
Bedroom activities should be based in trust, in confidence that your partner has your well-being in mind while the two of you are together. If you're freaked out, then it's time to discuss things with your partner, letting them know your reasons for being nervous and either working through the issues or else scrapping whatever it was that got you to this point in the first place.
Going through with it should only be attempted if you gain a measure of confidence based upon his or her answers, and are willing to place that trust in them.
2007-02-09 17:07:49 · answer #3 · answered by pblcbox 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No never I'm completely confident in the bedroom
2007-02-09 17:39:20 · answer #4 · answered by Zenlife07 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what kind of relationship you have. If you are serious about eachother and he has a fantasy, and you can deal with it, go ahead. If not, say no. Dont ever do something you're not comfortable with but when in a serious relationship, its always nice to please your mate, if it is something that you can be ok with.
2007-02-09 17:03:35 · answer #5 · answered by jenn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, never. I'd like to think that if it happened I'd either be accomodating or at least open minded enough to maturely handle the situation.
2007-02-09 17:07:27 · answer #6 · answered by Sparkle S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did , panic, my boyfriend wanted me to give him?, but I said I wouldn't do that ever again, it hated it.Sorry cant tell you
2007-02-09 17:25:28 · answer #7 · answered by kitty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes! I was with a guy who wanted to pee on me, and I told him no.
and one time I was kissing and stuff with a hottie girl until I found out she liked to poop-while-watching type thing. I left her fast!
xoxo
sophia
2007-02-09 17:05:05 · answer #8 · answered by sophia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes no yes not telling
2007-02-09 17:03:21 · answer #9 · answered by . 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. yes i panicked cos i'd never done it before. yes i tried it but didn't like it and no i will not tell what it is. that's for me to know and u to guess at!!!!!!!
2007-02-09 17:01:50 · answer #10 · answered by rambo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋