Family & Relationships - 9 February 2007

So, some among you may already know I'm no big fan of God, in fact I've excommunicated myself from the church a while a go, so "officially" I'm not a christian anymore, even though I have never been one in my mind, but that aside. The Bible in my opinion is full of lies, and the Church itself a criminal institution. Suppose I'd ever meet a nice girl, who, strange that may be, still IS religious (and I mean more than sundaychristian), would that be a problem ?

2007-02-09 22:20:32 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-09 22:20:30 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Thanks..

2007-02-09 22:16:54 · 5 answers · asked by anne 3 in Singles & Dating

One day me and a girl form my class were in the classroom alone then we were chatting then she went to touch my privte part through my pants.She like reacher out her hand and went to touch my pants,i mean my prive part..does this mean she likes me?

2007-02-09 22:13:45 · 8 answers · asked by help me 1 in Friends

Tell her? Ignore the whole thing? What would you do?

2007-02-09 22:07:30 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

When my husband & I got married, his sister was in a bad relationship and afraid if he married me, he wouldn't be around for her sounding board and all, or that he would end up unhappy too. He is 20 yrs older than me (50 & 30), but both of our families were very supportive and saw that we make each other happy. She told him (i assumed somewhat jokingly) that she would give him $1000 to not get married. He chose me. But now, 3+ yrs later, every opportunity that she gets when I am being introduced to someone from their small community, she blirts out "I offered him $1000 not to get married but he didn't take it". She has done this at community banquets, and even at a dinner for donors his campaign for local office. A banquet is coming up, and I don't know if I should just pull her aside and deal with it before she says anything, or just let her be her normal self. The 1st time I blew it off, the 2nd my husband talked to her, but she continues. I'm at a loss & I can't just avoid her

2007-02-09 22:05:01 · 7 answers · asked by picture . . . perfect 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Is this wrong????i dont know what to do???
Is this wrong????
would it be wrong of me to send my ex an email an tell him how i feel to see if there is any chnce for us before i move on??
i still love him
we have been apart for nearly a year. is it too late???
and should i tell him all my feelings or just come out and ask simply if hed give us another chance???
we have had contact over the year and he has been driving past my house but he said it was coz he was worried bout me....
we were together for 4.5 years he is 30 and i am 23.

2007-02-09 22:03:11 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I just need some serious answers here i used to be friends with a guy here on this site so much so he even gave me his mail address, office number where he works, various contact details, i thought it was just a friendship, ok maybe i was wrong but i made things clear from the beginning, but he obviously couldn't face the fact that i had a partner, but still he insisted on continuing all the time i noticed each time he was becoming more and more aggressive with his mesages, and demanding a picture which i did not feel comfortable sending why? because i did not know this person and had a partner and child i did not trust this person to that extent to send personal details but he trusted me......now further down the line this person has now dismissed the friendship because i would not do what they want me to do......am i in the wrong? or are they for reacting so erratic i'm begining to think there is something mentally wrong with this person....what do you think about this?

2007-02-09 21:58:21 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-09 21:53:27 · 28 answers · asked by bec 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-09 21:47:24 · 17 answers · asked by misia 5 in Marriage & Divorce

how can u tell when u r in love with someone, in lust or just infatuated with them?

2007-02-09 21:46:27 · 12 answers · asked by rambo 2 in Singles & Dating

on the floor in hall,i dont understand if she wants a bit or wat! should i tell her or wat cos im wanting to shag her wen i know she has none on!!!!!! arrggghhh!!

2007-02-09 21:46:21 · 16 answers · asked by the pleb 1 in Singles & Dating

passed XII from K. V. Danapur Cantt.

2007-02-09 21:46:03 · 2 answers · asked by shekhar 1 in Friends

2007-02-09 21:37:51 · 8 answers · asked by march 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

We have been married for almost 30 Years and He has only gave me something two or three times for Valentine's Day. He also never gives me anything for Mother's Day He say's I am not His Mother. He believes these are just Day's made to waste money.

2007-02-09 21:36:14 · 13 answers · asked by Jean f 3 in Family

..... and how do they take care of themselves in order to survive? What happens to their schooling? Where do they land up?

2007-02-09 21:34:35 · 5 answers · asked by MaggieSA 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

can u define best friend as one who help you in all trouble??

2007-02-09 21:33:04 · 10 answers · asked by john_secretadmirer 2 in Friends

This girl has(or had) a thing for me. I blew her off because I don't think that I am a good enough guy for her. ( I stoped going to school I smoke and drink ect.. ) Now I cant stop thinking about her. Did I make the right choice of staying out of her life?

2007-02-09 21:29:16 · 10 answers · asked by idl_2k3 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-09 21:28:54 · 13 answers · asked by skant42 2 in Friends

I have been dating three men for about a year now and as things become more serious in each relationship, it's getting harder to keep the men from knowing about each other. I know it's sick of me to do this to them, but how do i chose between them, I love each for different reasons and they're all so unique warm, and loving. My secret is causing me a lot of stress, and I worry I might call out the wrong name at the wrong time and loose them all. (I only call them by pet names, so when I do slip they don't notice) Two of them have proposed to me, and I made an excuse about not being "ready" for marriage. (true) But what do I do, sometimes I wish I could just start over with someone new, but I can't bear the thought of not having my special moments with each of them. What is wrong with me, is this normal at all? :-) I desperatly need kind honest answers please, thanks

2007-02-09 21:28:23 · 15 answers · asked by lolli 1 in Singles & Dating

i've been going out with my girlfriend for almost 5yrs now and last year i bought a house the house is in my name as is the mortgage but the electricity bill is in her name we've been living with each other now for 15 months but looks like we’ll split up very soon, legally will she get part of the house even know im paying for it?

2007-02-09 21:26:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

like in piano i started learning this song coptine d'une autre ete , and then today she decides she wants to learn it to , and she quit piano years ago , and i kept going and for once i was the one who played piano and now she even wants to have the same teacher , which now makes my lesson 3o mins long instead of an hour , and it feels like shes only doing it to make me mad , and when ever i draw anyting she has to draw sumthing better , and it feels like anything special about me , becomes special about her too !! , an shes always taking me clothes , and she even want to get her haircut like me !!! i kno that its being selfish to keep things to myself , but i want to be special in my own way !! pleez help

2007-02-09 21:26:55 · 7 answers · asked by paperbag<3princess 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have 15 yrs and i met a girl,on messeger and we talked alot on the phone and on the messseger ,anyway i realy wanted to meet her but she never has the time to do so ,and i'm wondering does it worth to wait for her (she likes me to ,at least she says so)or search for an other ?i'm beggining to wonder if this will ever happen...
thanks

2007-02-09 21:22:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I admit, I am not perfect and I know it takes 2 people to make a relationship work. I was with a guy for 3 years that mooched off me, racked up my credit cards and stole my savings. We were verbally, emotional and borderline physicaly abusive with each other. I swore I'd never be with a guy like that again.

I met my last boyfriend 3 years ago shortly after I left my ex and it ended in Dec but we've been sleeping with eachother since. Stupid naive me, I thought if we stayed close we'd get back together. But it was just sex to him. We were also verbally and emotionaly abusive to eachother. He has a sick sense of humor that often hurt my feelings and didn't seem to care when I wanted to talk about it or talk about anything for that matter.

I just want this whole cycle to end. I'm so worn out and sad thinking about this last relationship that didn't work out. I'm only 23 and I don't want to keep living like this.

2007-02-09 21:21:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

See, i liked this guy before. i told him that i liked him and he said that he liked me too. he was more than my friend but not a boyfriend. then after a 2 or 3 months, his friend told me that he didnt like me at all. his friend said that he only told me that becuase he didn't want to hurt my feelings. i confronted him and he told me the truth. the truth was, it wasn't true. i was mad at him for a month, but i forgave him and we became friends. the problem is that about 3 weeks ago, a close friend of mine told me that he said he has feelings for me. i didnt want to believe it but i asked all of his friends and said that this time, he had real feelings for me. again, i confronted him and asked him if it was true, and he said it was. after that i started liking him again. and then yesterday, i wa sin the mall, when i looked to my right, i saw him smiling at this girl he was with. i've never seen him smiled like that before. it was definitely not his sister. so is his feelings for me true?

2007-02-09 21:21:14 · 5 answers · asked by Kristine 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

i have a huge problem, i can't expres myself face to face to my friends or my gf. i can only be me in the sms's i send or e-mails . what can i do to overcome this problem?

2007-02-09 21:19:52 · 4 answers · asked by jey es 1 in Friends

well, i've liked this same guy for 4 1/2 years now, and he has never liked me back. Should i chase after him? i can't give up on him; he's my whole world. I'm just so confused....

2007-02-09 21:19:13 · 8 answers · asked by bananas 2 in Singles & Dating

ashleyashley@her-chat.com

the poor girl probably doesn't know hes married with 2 kids.
i'm not angry with her in the slightest just want her help to catch him out red handed

2007-02-09 21:18:37 · 8 answers · asked by omissy2005 3 in Singles & Dating

what should I do? give in or simple refuse?

2007-02-09 21:18:18 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Gurl A = smart, cute, bubbly, in a different university degree than i am, dont see her often, different religion than i am, cares for me but think i am weird, a lil bit too classy for me....

Gurl B = pretty, not-so-smart, has bad family problems, quite aggressive, rejected me when i said i liked her but now she wants me, study in a different university than me, now she's like mad of me coz i went out with her best fren ...should i chase her or just let her go?

2007-02-09 21:16:41 · 6 answers · asked by ramzi 2 in Singles & Dating