Family & Relationships - 9 February 2007

Im kinda in a place where I don't know which way to turn.Boyfriend (whos controling, & a *** hole)or ex ( understanding,& sweet) both have been inolved with for the past 7-9yrs off and on. living w/bf, ex says wantsto give another.what to do?

2007-02-09 21:14:14 · 3 answers · asked by D lux 2 in Singles & Dating

mine are-----

1) get out from under that fire
2) can u nip up the shop for me
3) go up and bring your washing down.

2007-02-09 21:10:22 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-09 21:10:14 · 12 answers · asked by raghubirsharan sraghu 1 in Singles & Dating

he is a innocent chap.he is a very nuce guy.he has no bad habits.i am his first crush.(tat is wat i came to know thru his friends)
he is a class topper., he has never talked to me.i have not met him personally...wat shud i do if he approches me!
shud i accept his proposal or not?

2007-02-09 21:10:14 · 18 answers · asked by sandy 1 in Singles & Dating

Is the intention for things to go further in a mans head when he flirts all of the time. would you even bother to flirt with someone you aren't attracted to all of the time.

2007-02-09 21:07:41 · 9 answers · asked by debra 2 in Singles & Dating

We live in a society where it's perfectly normal for people to cohabit after one night of sex as strangers or for someone to leave his or her spouse of many years just because he "wants some space" or found someone more attractive.

I have come to believe that a couple who lives together, sleeps together and shares what they have is married whether or not they have a piece of paper. I think that people who cohabit without a legal marriage because they think they can easily leave at any time are lying to themselves.

It is more than a tradition that the state and church give permission and blessings to our marriages. Under the concept of separation of church and state, the government has assumed that responsibility and is only guided by the cultural norms of the moment.

2007-02-09 21:06:52 · 12 answers · asked by maxnull 4 in Marriage & Divorce

She has a best friend, he went to work in another country and he keeps talking to here so often, now she is in a trouble, her ex is chasing her and her best friend offers to come to offer his help. She is confused sometimes he acts as a lover and other times as a friend. knowing that he is in a daily contact with her. Is her friend in love with her?!

2007-02-09 21:05:48 · 4 answers · asked by Sara007 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-09 21:04:49 · 2 answers · asked by slinny 1 in Friends

I think my girlfriend loves me beyond a shadow of a doubt. She tells me I need to be “possessive.” I am like what? She says that I am not jealous enough and that I need to be possessive. I am wondering if this is a red flag.

2007-02-09 21:03:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have been single for 7 months and so I have tried a few internet dating thingos. I have found that most are fronts for "Russian Bride" scams (they write for a while then ask for money to come and visit) or full of absolute nutters (not that I am saying that I am perfect). What are other peoples experiences?

PS. No I won't lend you $850 to help out with the airfare so that you can come and visit....

2007-02-09 21:00:30 · 11 answers · asked by roger a 3 in Singles & Dating

Do men find Natural Redheads sexy?? Or do most of them prefer blondes?? What is it about Redheads that turn men on / off anyway??

2007-02-09 21:00:20 · 38 answers · asked by sensual one 2 in Singles & Dating

A young lady had an eye on a guy from a different world who happens to work with her at the same place 2 years ago. The interest was mutual. He never realised she was trying to leave her phone number before he travelled away and left work. He found out that later, but never got her phone number. During his working time at that place, the guy was stressed out, he could not ask her out due to personal issues outside his control as he didnot want to bring his own baggages at the time, but she never knew the truth! Will she still be interested in meeting that guy again after more than 2 years or is it too late?

Romantic and realistic people are welcome to answer!

2007-02-09 20:59:56 · 4 answers · asked by Holmes 1 in Singles & Dating

I have three friends, two girls and one guy, that I love and trust more than any family member. Even though my mom and dad are really good parents and my little sis is very awsome besides lapsing into a princess attitude, I just feel like an outsider to the family. Where as this guy is like a very close brother to me, one girl I have a pure innocent love relationship with, where she does a good job dealing with me. Then the other girl I sorta have an unstable friendship love type deal.

My parents are both intelligent, and love me very much. Very open with me and willing to help me very much. Same with sis. But I still feel like I just like them because its an automatic thing that you have to love your family. I just love my friends more.

2007-02-09 20:59:54 · 7 answers · asked by rezruf 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

im a 18 year old female and today my bf coming over and well I'm wearing a denim skirt its not short,it comes just above m knees also wearing a quarter length sleeve white low cut top but i pulled it up so it covers my boobs and a black cardigan.my mum having ago at me cause I'm wearing a skirt today,and all week iv been wearing jeans.i didn't feel like wearing jeans cause i worn them all week.how can i get her to let me dress how i like.

2007-02-09 20:57:27 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-02-09 20:56:29 · 10 answers · asked by jing v 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what are the common questions you see here in yahoo answers( family & relationships) again and again .

2007-02-09 20:56:23 · 8 answers · asked by gunchu 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-09 20:55:39 · 25 answers · asked by bec 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi everyone, I need a little advice. I made a resolution this year that I'm trying to fulfil. I am a 23 year old female who is a chat room junkie. My problem is not so much that I am addicted to the internet, but that the internet is pretty much my only link to the outside world, and without it I might go days or weeks without actually having a conversation with anyone. I am extreamly shy and have a real fear of rejection and find it dificult to trust others. I don't like, trying new things, being in unfamiliar areas, in public or crowded places and have never gone to a party, club, bar or even the movies in my life. Perhaps this could be the result of having been kept isolated from the world until I was about 16. (I never went to school, I was thought at home) I want this to be the year I have a "real" freind for the first time. Thank you for any advice you can give, I don't want to live like this forever.

2007-02-09 20:52:46 · 7 answers · asked by Sabrina 1 in Friends

we are 50, have no medical problems and both of us love sex.

what should we do?

2007-02-09 20:51:12 · 9 answers · asked by curlyloxx 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi Whenever i talk to a nice girl i seems to come out of that experience and really enjoy it... I know what kind of girl i want but i only see them rarely like people working in shops etc... "But where do i go to meet with these girls?

Lots of people say clubs.... But i don't like clubs and alot of girls who go clubbing are not my type... Where do i find them?

2007-02-09 20:50:31 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been together for 5 1/2 years. He is 23 and I'll be 23 this year. We both have great jobs, but still live at home to save money. I am anxious about a proposal because we've been together so long and I know that we're going to get married some day. Should I be so anxious?

2007-02-09 20:49:57 · 12 answers · asked by K 2 in Marriage & Divorce

This girl at work was trying to break up me and my wife, I was clearly not interested distpite telling her, so instead of going to my boss I fixed her up with my friend. I recently after 15 years stopped talking to him because his drug use got out of hand: he stole, he was irrational, and violent to me. I don't know if he is clean or not, I no longer trust him, and I want to steer clear of her to keep my job and my personal life. They are acting like i'm the immature one dispite my rational explanation why I don't want to be friends. am I being stubborn and unforgiving?

2007-02-09 20:49:29 · 4 answers · asked by allanackerman07 1 in Friends

I guarantee he's not sleepy!

2007-02-09 20:48:47 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a guy who is 15 years old than me. He was so sweeet,however, I have found that he has had many relationship with lots of women in the past. He told me that he has never loved anyone but me. I never able to get hold of him unless he contact me. He always says sorry as he was busy with his job. i can't see this is the health relationship. He keep saying I am his whloe world each time I try to stop. Please help me

2007-02-09 20:47:28 · 17 answers · asked by summer123 1 in Singles & Dating

I know a woman who is very independent and very strong- yet she laments that her boyfriend has not yet proposed marriage. I asked her why she doesn't propose to him- but she told me 'it doesnt work that way. Why not? Shouldn't a woman be able to be the one to propose marriage?

2007-02-09 20:46:46 · 4 answers · asked by OctopusGuy 1 in Singles & Dating

Is this wrong????i dont know what to do???
Is this wrong????
would it be wrong of me to send my ex an email an tell him how i feel to see if there is any chnce for us before i move on??
i still love him
we have been apart for nearly a year. is it too late???
and should i tell him all my feelings or just come out and ask simply if hed give us another chance???
we have had contact over the year and he has been driving past my house but he said it was coz he was worried bout me....
we were together for 4.5 years he is 30 qand i am 23.

2007-02-09 20:42:56 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-09 20:41:45 · 17 answers · asked by boo 1 in Singles & Dating

I really do not understand my chemics, but I know if the guy in front of me is not bluntly pretty and sexy. I feel not only turned off, more I feel repulsed by any physical thought of him, despite he would be completely ok for other girls. Well I have to mention that I am an adult that has never been in a complete physical relation, if that would be of any importance for you to figure out my situation.

2007-02-09 20:40:14 · 9 answers · asked by Chichou 4 in Singles & Dating

My sister is getting married this Spring in an outdoor, garden wedding. Being a very traditional family, we wanted the guests to throw rice as the newly wedded couple exit the garden. We were told that we could not throw rice but had to use rose petals or bird seed.

What in the world is wrong with throwing rice? It has been done for hundreds of years.

2007-02-09 20:39:31 · 18 answers · asked by bartmcqueary 3 in Weddings

I'm talking like really old, like 60+ and I was just wondering if they really do have sex, or if they just like don't? I searched for this answer but couldn't find it.

2007-02-09 20:39:31 · 12 answers · asked by holliexoxo88 2 in Singles & Dating