I met a guy who is 15 years old than me. He was so sweeet,however, I have found that he has had many relationship with lots of women in the past. He told me that he has never loved anyone but me. I never able to get hold of him unless he contact me. He always says sorry as he was busy with his job. i can't see this is the health relationship. He keep saying I am his whloe world each time I try to stop. Please help me
2007-02-09 20:47:28 · 17 answers · asked by summer123 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go by your instinct, which is obviously yelling at you to "get out!"
2007-02-09 20:50:02 · answer #1 · answered by Barbara H 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to say hunnie but I think he's playing you. If you can only ever get in contact with him when he contacts you, then I'd say it's cos he's juggling a whole lot of other women as well - he probably says the same things to them too. Just remember, actions speak louder than words - he can say he loves you and that you're his world all he wants, but if he doesn't show you that you're the most important thing to him, it's probably because you're not :(
Good luck.
2007-02-09 21:01:01 · answer #2 · answered by Nat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear... you seem so young and you must be a teenager.
I agree .... love doesnt see age gaps...etc.
But... living with a guy who is 15 years older than you...seems little bit difficult.
You already know that he had relationships with so many women in the past. How can you believe him now even after knowing this?
If you really need a guy.... and if you try for it...cant you find any other guy who suits for you? If you really try .... cant you find a guy who is in your age group? Think once... Is he necessary for you?
My suggestion is.... you just cut him and go look for a nice,honest guy.
2007-02-09 20:59:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, lines like " I have never loved anyone but YOU " and " You're my whole world baby " is just crap we say... there is no actual truth behind them and he has said it to every other girl he has met, I am sure of it. Guys who use those type of lines don't just say them to one chick.
Now... he could be busy with his job all the time or he could really be in another relationship and you are just his side action... Who knows.
2007-02-09 20:53:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, if you have to ask this question, then you know you can't trust this man. Secondly, he is to busy to pick up the phone for the girl that is his whole world? That says alot right there! Leave him alone and find somebody who's not into playing games.
2007-02-09 20:59:10 · answer #5 · answered by HOOD RAT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So, based on how you type, you're in a relationship with a 22 year old guy. I would put it on hold until you were at least 13 and more mentally able to make tough decisions. Good luck.
2007-02-09 20:51:21 · answer #6 · answered by Faint 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
the past is the past we cant hold that against anyone or we wouldnt move forward in the world but the contact part is a bit dodgy fair enough if just now n then but all the time ? u should ask if his married or already datin
2007-02-09 20:50:53 · answer #7 · answered by Paul&Sara 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u dont get him until he calls you my dear is a married man dont blow it u dont know where he stays or what u dont know anything about him is a married man or may be his hiding somethings that will disturb the relationship but am so sure he can be a married man do your investigation real well and good before u believe him telling you he loves you so much or may be he as something he wants to collect from you think.
2007-02-09 21:01:11 · answer #8 · answered by ganny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you should not trust him honey you can"t trust a guy who is 15 years old than you no Manda how sweet he is and as for as never loved no-one but you that is a lie OK
2007-02-09 20:57:04 · answer #9 · answered by EVA J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don`t trust this villain. He want you to feel sorry for him. Dump him as soon as possible. There is thousands of men your own age with whom you can have a healthy relationship.
2007-02-09 20:51:43 · answer #10 · answered by spatz 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're wonder if you should trust him than you obviously don't trust him. Trust is black and white....no room for grey areas.
If you don't trust him that it's impossible to have a successful relationship with him.
2007-02-09 20:52:33 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋