This girl has(or had) a thing for me. I blew her off because I don't think that I am a good enough guy for her. ( I stoped going to school I smoke and drink ect.. ) Now I cant stop thinking about her. Did I make the right choice of staying out of her life?
2007-02-09 21:29:16 · 10 answers · asked by idl_2k3 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she liked you it really wasn't for you to decide you weren't good enough for her. I suspect you realise you are doing things that aren't good for you and as a result your self-esteem is suffering. You may have missed an opportunity to go out with someone amazing. Is there any way to tell her you regret not having asked her out sooner?
2007-02-09 21:34:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. you are a good man. smoking, drinking, etc.? so what! does it stop you from working, being a good member of society? if it interferes with life then, knock it off. SCHOOL its never too late to finish. its much harder. now you have to work and your tired but there are classes to attend and homework to do. this is called life. you have a choice. apply yourself for a few years and be the best man you can or settle for where you are and how you feel about yourself. WELCOME to ADULTHOOD. if you don't think your a good enough person now and cant commit to improving yourself, please wear a condom. because you definitely will not be able to handle working two or three jobs to raise a family or pay for 18 years child support..
2007-02-10 05:50:46 · answer #2 · answered by Kim C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing. Now do something else that's right. Get back in school, stop smoking and drinking, and be all you can be in life. You are headed in the wrong direction right now so do what i suggest. You'll thank me for this encouragement if you do it now.
2007-02-10 05:36:41 · answer #3 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn yourself around and try to get back with her. I was with a guy that was a complete bum. He smoke, drank, never finished high school...needless to say, I dumped him and now I am married to an incredible man. No woman wants to be with a man who has no drive in life and who won't be able to provide for her.
2007-02-10 05:40:26 · answer #4 · answered by His Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you stop drinking and smoking... then it will be right thing.
Go school and study well... get settled in your life.
2007-02-10 05:39:39 · answer #5 · answered by Nenet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
+work on your self esteem, and if you really think she is the one, try to modify some of your habits. if she is interested she will over look some things, others she will not. go for it
2007-02-10 05:36:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why disappointments for both of you. If it is true thing between both of you, why not fostering it to be stronger .... no need to escape .. face it all.
2007-02-10 05:46:22 · answer #7 · answered by Sara007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you dont plan on doing anything with your life then yes.
if you like her enough then change.
2007-02-10 05:32:40 · answer #8 · answered by clockwork 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess you'll never know,will you?
2007-02-10 05:33:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No
2007-02-10 05:33:38 · answer #10 · answered by Sagar Shah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋