Family & Relationships - 6 February 2007

is there any websites for paternity tests and how much do they cost someone was telling me i can prolly get one for cheap or go thro the court how do i go about doing this because my boyfriend wants a paternity test to make sure hes the father of his exwifes child

2007-02-06 05:29:52 · 8 answers · asked by Jennifer 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i was on his myspace and i looked at his friends . and their was a half naked grl. i tolled him about it . then he blocked it so i wouldnt see his comments. but every grl on there knows he a grlfriend but they flirit with him anywayz

2007-02-06 05:29:50 · 7 answers · asked by nemesis c 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been going out with my boyfriend for 1 week and when he is with me he acts the way I like him. Normal. But when he is with his mates he acts as if he only wants me for sex. We haven't had sex and I'm not ready to yet. Which is his true personality? What should I do?

2007-02-06 05:28:57 · 22 answers · asked by owenmad 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-06 05:28:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i hang around with this boy and she says "is that your boyfriend" and i hang around with this girl and she says "is that your girlfriend" it is really upsetting me, any advice? it is really cheesing me off!!

2007-02-06 05:28:27 · 16 answers · asked by treacle1 2 in Singles & Dating

if you have a problem with what im going to say
DONT ANSWER THE QUESTION. OKAY
cause im bi
and im a girl
and my gf lives in a diff state as me...
we talk on the phone alot and all
but i wanna just do something really cute for her
something i can do not in person considering we live in totally diff states
any ideasss
im almost 16
shes almost 15

2007-02-06 05:28:16 · 5 answers · asked by samantha 2 in Singles & Dating

Who got themselves in a marriage, set children into the world and made everything solid calculateing all this for a certain reason (besides love) For example not haveing to work, "chaining" the partner to yourself, makeing somebody else jealous, planning to rip the other off .... and so on. I mean all the true reasons behind cheating yourself with this "But I DO love him/ her!"-crap.

2007-02-06 05:28:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what is up wit people asking one questoin then when u click on it they ask something totally diffren?. they tryin to trick us into clicking on thier dumb question. when that hpapens to me i defntly dont answer. that drives me nuts. anyone else noticin this?

2007-02-06 05:27:13 · 14 answers · asked by lady26 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok, so me and this girl were seeing each other for a bit, when out of nowhere she told me she just wanted to be friends. It went a little sour, and we stopped talking, but over the next 2 months we began talking more and more. She has now started texting me again, all the time (15+ per day), and the other day was trying to get me to meet up with her (indirectly of course).
Is this the friend-ship or should i try again?? If so, how should i ask her out without leaving myself too open?

2007-02-06 05:27:04 · 9 answers · asked by jon t 1 in Singles & Dating

Assume you left your marriage for this person? Would you ever resent them? Why/why not??

2007-02-06 05:27:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm only 17 and don't really know...but my best friend is having a really hard time at home and her father threatens to beat her with a belt to get her to listen ='(. She is absolutely terrified. She starts to cry and shakes when he says things to her and tried to run away once when he did it...but he said "Who are you gonna tell? Nobody can do anything about it...it's my form of punishment. And, i can run a whole heck of a lot faster than you"......All she did was use the telephone when she wasn't supposed to. It has been ongoing. I need help =( Is it abuse?

2007-02-06 05:27:01 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Another example of a cheating selfish woman ruining all the lives around her. Pathetic. She doesn't deserve to be married or have her kids.

2007-02-06 05:26:56 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my friend is not honest to me. so i leave her friendship. her lover had sex with her. but now he is telling me that he did not love her and he likes to marry me and he is willinging to do anything for me. but till date i am calling him as my brother. he is crying. to accept him. please give me suggestion what can i do. I like him. but i cant accept him as my husband.

2007-02-06 05:26:54 · 20 answers · asked by xax x 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-06 05:26:05 · 7 answers · asked by MSNEWBOOTY 1 in Singles & Dating

i hang around with this boy and she says "is that your bf" and i hang around with this girl and she says "is that your gf" it is really upsetting me, any advice?

2007-02-06 05:26:03 · 4 answers · asked by treacle1 2 in Friends

MY HUSBAND AND I RAN A PROGRAM FOR MANY YEARS HELPING aUTISTIC CHILDREN. WHEN WE HAD TO LEAVE WE THOUGHT WE HAD ENOUGH RESERVES TO CARRY US FOR SEVERAL MONTHS WHILE MY HUSBAND GOT REESTABLISHED AND I CARED FOR OUR NEW BORN AND TWIN THREE YEAR OLDS.
HE WAS ABLE TO FIND WORK BECAIUSE OF HIS OUT GOING NATURE, BUT HAD A TOUGH TIME MEETING EXPECTAIONS OF HIM (HAVING BEEN OUT OF THE INDUSTRY FOR MANY YEARS). SKIP TO A YEAR LATER AND WE'RE IN FORECLOSURE. GIVEN TIME WE COULD GET BACK ON OUR FEET, BUT MORTGAGE COMPANY CARES ABOUT NOW.
IF YOU CAN HELP RESPOND IF NOT JUST PRAY FOR US OR JUST DROP A NOTE IF YOU WOULD LIKE

2007-02-06 05:25:40 · 9 answers · asked by KJ IN NEED 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-06 05:25:24 · 9 answers · asked by ravi 2 in Singles & Dating

Would you rather go shopping at your favorite mall or spend the afternoon in bed with your significant other?

2007-02-06 05:24:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-06 05:24:27 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

As hard as it was, I finally let go of my ex. She's moved on with someone else. Problem is, she knows EXACTLY how much I care and love her and even though she's told me before that we're done completely, it's become so routine to where she comes back later with, "I miss you, love you, etc"...this time she told me she's trying to have a more faithful relationship with her new gf. So she told me we can be strictly friends or nothing. I told her nothing cuz I knew how I felt and a friendship wouldn't work. But yesterday, like a dummy, I text her asking her for forgiveness and taking up her offer on a friendship. She was hesitant, but then agreed. We don't really talk, and even though I had that hope of us gettin' back together, I'm tired. I'm strong enough to walk away, but not as strong when my phone rings and it's her. I haven't called her at all, and I won't...but my ques is, do ex's usually come back after awhile??? Why DO THEY come back??? Games? boredom with their recent love?

2007-02-06 05:24:23 · 5 answers · asked by Brekn'dwn 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My daughters father and I were never married. I did however recently marry my wonderful husband who is also a fantastic father to my daughter seeing as how her real one isn't around but one hour once a month. Everything with her father is really hairy and messy. I haven't been with him for a year and a half because he was violent towards me and when I went to leave one day with my daughter he got angry and went to hit me but missed and hit my daughter. This is something I will never forgive him for and because of his actions, the court has ordered him to complete tasks not only to prove it is safe for our daughter to be around him but also to prove he can take care of a child. Until he completes his tasks, he can only see Aliyah 1 hour once a month. I hate that he is my daughters father, I can't stand him. He calls to speak to her at his convenience and throws daggers at me every time..meaning he is always trying to start something with me by putting me down and blaming me. (continued)

2007-02-06 05:23:44 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been with my boyfriend for a year and four months. We knew each other before that as he was my manager, but that business has since closed down and we no longer work together. We are both 22 (23 in April/May). This is his first relationship and my past relationships have ended after only two months each (except one, I tried to break it off after two months and he cried). We both feel we are in this for the long haul. Overall, I love him and do not question in my heart he feels the same way. In March we want to move into an apartment together with a 13 month lease. We both are going to put our names on the lease so only one person isn't held responsible in case we do break up. I had no hesitations about this until a guy at work said it was a horrible idea and how he has never known a couple to last when they rent an apartment. He says it will only end badly. Is he just a negative jerk or are we being naive and jumping into this too quickly?

2007-02-06 05:22:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anon 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 18 yrs old (female) and have decided to join the Marine Corps. I am the oldest of 3 kids, my mother is a single parent who is currently not had a job after being layed off 7 yrs ago from a job she had for 18 yrs. My father is not actively involved in my life, he has been a custodian for Colombia University the past 17 years. I want better for myself, so i have chose the military as a stepping stone to shape a career. I figure its better to do it this way than have to work and go to college, in which i will be working to pay off college. I feel like i am in a predicament but i am sure this is something i would love to do. I understand the circumstances and the risk which i am willing to take. I just wonder am i being selfish to my mother and siblings at home? Is this the right way to set an example for those i have looking up to me?

2007-02-06 05:22:04 · 4 answers · asked by Secretlyfe 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

is it wrong to have an emotional connection with someone who is married?

2007-02-06 05:21:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

me and my husband have a 1 yr old baby now and our financial status is not really good.my husband was very supportive financially for 18 yrs with his ex wife and daughter.his ex wife is forcing my husband to give money with them although we explained everything about our financial problems.what shall we do?

2007-02-06 05:21:34 · 9 answers · asked by regnier 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have evidence that my spouse is planning I have the evidence. How should I confront my spouse before he commits the act.

2007-02-06 05:20:20 · 43 answers · asked by x x 1 in Marriage & Divorce

As a recently sepereated 24 year old mother of 3 small children, the thought of dating scares the crap out of me. I'm very intimidated to tell men that i have 3 kids.. since i am so young, they NEVER expect it, and its usually a deal breaker.

2007-02-06 05:19:30 · 17 answers · asked by Samantha D 1 in Singles & Dating

How would you react?

2007-02-06 05:19:26 · 8 answers · asked by timmy h 2 in Singles & Dating

how do i tell her how i feel without compromising my individuality

2007-02-06 05:19:08 · 7 answers · asked by Scream Your Secrets 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend lets call her 'x' who i have been close to for a little less than a year, but we really hit it off. We had the same sense of humor, musc taste, and we were always having a good time. Then another girl came, 'y'. I was friends with her, and she is really nice, but lately, I've felt like they are pushing me out. They leave lunch early without me, I have to start convo's on MSN (a very moden friendship problem!) I have lots of other friends, but 'x' was my closest. And I don't know how to tell her because she's one of those people who hates fights and always thinks I'm starting them, but i dont want to fight! I just want us to be like we used to! How can I get included agian?

2007-02-06 05:18:59 · 11 answers · asked by tialaingo 3 in Friends