Family & Relationships - 6 February 2007

im pregnant and my boyfriend hits me i love him with all my heart but he has split personalitys and doesnt know what he is doing. it was happening a lot then it stopped but now it is coming back and i fear for my babys life but i love my boyfriend to death and he refuses to take medication for his problem. i want to leave him cause it is unfair that i have to go through this but i want to stick by him. what should i do?

2007-02-06 06:09:27 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we are going to walt disney world & they are. we wanted to take another family but this family really wants us to, she apologizd 4 inviting her family, i said not to be feel bad it would be fun but hub& i need to talk about it, now she talks like i said yes and ready to go. our trip would be terrible as for many reasons, my kids cried at the thought, my hus couldn't handle it, the 1 kid has massive fits ever 2 sec , lots of reasons, i don't know how to tell her we'd like to another family, she is like a little kid so excited right now, i see her everyday and she says she can't wait!!! uhg, my family's night mare, she knows it's my husbands dream to take the kids there and her dream to take hers. how neat to do togther, NOT!!!

2007-02-06 06:08:47 · 7 answers · asked by fearnuthin 1 in Friends

i know that i want to marry him but he does not want to marry to soon should i wait or give him an ultimatum.

2007-02-06 06:08:19 · 15 answers · asked by Rosie D 1 in Singles & Dating

he is over 18 and im not i met him through my older sister and we hit it off pretty good he knows my age his family knows too and my family knows his age they just want us to be happy and when were together things are great !!!!we constently go out with my sister and her boyfriend which is his best friend and i love that he gets along with my family so well and as i do i ... im graduating in march and starting collage in the summer but im now 18 yet and hes over 18 we know that its not legal but in our eyes it is but we do tend to lie when some1 ask how old is your chick just to protect him and im ok with that

2007-02-06 06:08:15 · 6 answers · asked by mandyr0307 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been with mike my boyfriend for five years now... we have two wonderful girls together... i have a promise ring on my finger...but lately ive been wondering is this just a promise not to marry me... is there something wrong with me? we have a wonderful relationship... almost perfect just a few financial problems here and there... other than that we are a perfect little family... but why hasnt he popped the question yet?? any advice as to how i go about bringing it up?? or if i should just let it go and see if it happens on its own?

2007-02-06 06:08:04 · 5 answers · asked by Zoe W 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why after 15 years divorced my EX will not talk or look at me .We were married for 25 years and both have remarried,My grown children will not invite both of us at the same time at xamas or birthday,he tld the children if I am there he wont be.His wife is very vendtive and wants him to only be with her children and refuses to have anthing with his,and this is rhe kicker he is retired now and 2 years ago our son-in law became a quadrapaligic and he will not help his daughter or grand children out our daughter was only 32 when this happen.

2007-02-06 06:07:38 · 7 answers · asked by Kathy C 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so this girl is my valentine,and i like her alot!! when i asked her and she said yes,i was shocked.so were gunna go hang out on next wed valentines day and exchange gifts,so i wuz thinking should i ask her to be my gf??? kuz if she said yes to be my valentine maybe shell go out with me.i really need help i donno waht to do!! guys help me!! should i ask her,and what do u think shell say???

2007-02-06 06:07:26 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do you leave go of a man who is no good for you emotionally....who broke up with you 4 months ago got engaged over xmas and now tells you that they want you back...even though you were with them off and on for almost 10 years and he never once talked of marriage oh and we have a child together.....that when we are apart he pays no attention to......

2007-02-06 06:06:40 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a female in my late 20s about to sign a lease and live alone for the first time. I love the apartment, and it is surrounded by lots of people and activity. I do have a boyfriend who lives nearby as well. However, the building does not allow pets so when I am in my apartment, I will be there alone. Anyone out there who lives alone -- do you enjoy it? Any advice for making it work? Is it a bad idea to sign up for a building that won't allow pets?

2007-02-06 06:06:16 · 17 answers · asked by Cathy 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

What would you do with your power?
(this is purely hypothetical) FUN!!! No silly comments about Monarchs not having power please.....

2007-02-06 06:06:12 · 17 answers · asked by Basket-santa 6 in Singles & Dating

I need tons of examples on how to show him I am comitted to him. Help!!! Give me any example or anything!!!

2007-02-06 06:05:59 · 25 answers · asked by Nicole 1 in Singles & Dating

i know he calls the female and the male lines. what do they talk about?

2007-02-06 06:05:45 · 13 answers · asked by want2no 2 in Singles & Dating

His name is Alex L. He is everything to me but how do i tell him without things getting akward

2007-02-06 06:05:43 · 9 answers · asked by Stevie H 1 in Friends

I am a single Mum of 3 who suffered my ex having done terrible things to me and our children. I have survived and my kids are doing great. I have worked hard to provide for them and it has paid off. Time has come for me to have a relationship & he is a wonderful man who loves me and my children - there is true trust and respect here. I am being told that I am wrong for putting this man on the same level as myself and putting our relationship equal to my children. What kind of example am I setting for my children if I always put them above everything - why is it wrong to put them equal to the man I love and who loves me. Friends and outside family are always telling me I must continue to put the kids above everything - even myself - but if my children are stable, doing well and on their way to becoming productive members of society and this new man is supportive of that - why does everyone tell me I am wrong?

2007-02-06 06:05:27 · 9 answers · asked by martiek7 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My gf beats me up and forces me to sniff her bare feet everyday when she gets home from work or working out. She is a martial artist and I don't believe in hitting women so it's hard to escape from her moves without hurting her. She likes to put me in a submission move and place her foot or feet under my nose forcing me to sniff her sweaty feet. I try to keep her away but she is so good at submission holds. I don't think I could hurt her even if i tried.

What can I do, I love her very much?

She told me if I tried to leave her she would always hunt me down and find me.

2007-02-06 06:04:10 · 30 answers · asked by Submit to her Feet 2 in Singles & Dating

Im not worried about the pollution it causes because I will be dead before pollution affects the earth. Also Im not worried about the gas it wastes because we have enough gas to last for many many years to come.

2007-02-06 06:03:01 · 29 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Last saturday night I went on a date, I called and asked her if she wanted to do something on friday, she answered and said call me back when your done. I called her back, left a voice mail, got no answer.

I called her the next day (saturday) left a message. A few hours later she returns my call and says we can meet up at a bar. I go there we meet up she brings her usual guy friend who is her ride. So anyway I find out she doesnt want a relationship with me later on in the night on this "date" we were on through my friend because apparently I was attracted to her friend first and not her first.

So anyway I kissed a girl I had a fling with at the end of the night, she got really pissed and thats the story.

Was I right or wrong to do this?

2007-02-06 06:03:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Not all black guy's are sexually active I guess that's what their afraid of

2007-02-06 06:02:17 · 7 answers · asked by E-unit 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-06 06:01:58 · 45 answers · asked by justicebybra 1 in Marriage & Divorce

"Chivalry is largely dead, and feminism is the murderer." - Dr. Larua Schlessinger

2007-02-06 06:01:50 · 26 answers · asked by ♥Humble Proclaimer♥ 4 in Marriage & Divorce

to sleep, while everyone eles who has someone will be MAKING LOVE. (Sucks to be you guys, sorry maybe next year)

2007-02-06 06:01:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my parents say i cant date until im 16 and i really like this guy that im dating and my parents dont know. should i tell my parents and keep the guy or dump the guy and never tell my parents or wat

2007-02-06 06:01:03 · 26 answers · asked by isabella devon 1 in Singles & Dating

My mom is not good with money. I have helped her in the past but she continues to have financial problems. She is raising my neice because my sister left with her boyfriend and is a drug addict so I feel like I should help my mom since she is raising my neice. I am recently married to a wealthy man, I am in graduate school and have no children or money of my own. I have high credit card limits with no credit card balances...should I go into debt to help my mom?

2007-02-06 06:00:58 · 32 answers · asked by transpersonalpsychologist 1 in Family

Okay, the boy I like is very shy and I know he likes me cause you can tell by the way he acts in front of me. Anyway, like I said he is extremly shy and I want him 2 open up 2 me, but I don't want 2 rush him, because I want him 2 take his time. Maybe time will help him get closer 2 me. I'm his friend right now and I hug him and kiss him on the cheek. I believe that by doing that I feel like I'm rushing him,I just know that when I do that he blushes a lot. I was wondering and so I'm asking for your advice Is it okay 2 hug and kiss(on the cheek) someone you don't want 2 rush into a relationship cause he is very shy, but you do know he likes you back???

2007-02-06 05:59:30 · 15 answers · asked by Ash C 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-06 05:58:49 · 9 answers · asked by Zero Amber 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I have been living together for 2 years. So needless to say, we have everything we need around the house. How can we let our guests know (in the shower invitations, etc. where you'd normally put where the couple is registered) that we'd prefer gift cards or cash? I can't think of a way that doesn't sound tacky.

2007-02-06 05:58:23 · 14 answers · asked by chzcakebaby 2 in Weddings

2007-02-06 05:58:10 · 22 answers · asked by babygirl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my wife had a physical affair 6yrs ago but just told me about it 4 months ago. she has also been hiding an emotion affair(so she says) from me for about a year. she said she ended it when i found out about the "friendship" by finding her cell phone records.

2007-02-06 05:57:58 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My bf and I live together. He gets in from work at 12am I'm already in bed sleep. The other morning he came in our bedroom and started clean of his nightstand and making all kinds of noise it was 4:30am I have to get up at 6am was I wrong for being mad at him. I said he did not mean to wake me up, but he knows how hard it is for me to go back to sleep.

2007-02-06 05:57:56 · 20 answers · asked by tae 1974 1 in Singles & Dating

this girl is 18 and is visiting here from england i live in america she is leaving in less than 2 weeks i really like her and i dont want her to leave and never talk to her again we have been together 4 times since she has been here and we talk alot and she is always smiling and laughing when we talk i like everything about her she has asked me to go to the movies with her and has also talked about more than once how we will see eacother in the summer again she also mentioned her exboyfriend once i think maybe it was to let me know that she doesnt have one we have had fun every time we are together and i would like to keep talking with her after she leaves i dont want her to leave and then i just never see her again because i really like her alot and i cant stop thinking about her maybe i can bring up when we are talking how i will not get to talk her for a really long time and then maybe she will say something about getting each others email address or something i am not sure on what

2007-02-06 05:56:20 · 5 answers · asked by DJIAE 1 in Singles & Dating