Okay, the boy I like is very shy and I know he likes me cause you can tell by the way he acts in front of me. Anyway, like I said he is extremly shy and I want him 2 open up 2 me, but I don't want 2 rush him, because I want him 2 take his time. Maybe time will help him get closer 2 me. I'm his friend right now and I hug him and kiss him on the cheek. I believe that by doing that I feel like I'm rushing him,I just know that when I do that he blushes a lot. I was wondering and so I'm asking for your advice Is it okay 2 hug and kiss(on the cheek) someone you don't want 2 rush into a relationship cause he is very shy, but you do know he likes you back???
2007-02-06 05:59:30 · 15 answers · asked by Ash C 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its ok if you hug him and kiss him on the cheek because thats how some people greet eachother. but i dont think that you are putting any preassure on him he just needs tiem to actully open up to you, he eventually will. good luck!
2007-02-06 06:17:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No its OK maybe the kiss on the cheek is too much just give him a hug and talk to him
2007-02-06 14:03:00 · answer #2 · answered by Hummm... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me if he likes you the way you do a kiss on the neck will settle every thing no matter how much the guy blushes. i think if you care for his friendship stop the kisses and stick to the hugs because(been there, done that)
2007-02-06 14:10:43 · answer #3 · answered by graceyfares 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to address the issue with him ask him how he feels about you hugging and kissing him if he is comfortable or if he feels like your rushing him only he will be able to tell you
2007-02-06 14:04:06 · answer #4 · answered by smiley girl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse he likes you, he got blushed and loves to smell your fart. It is not rushing for a girl to hug and kiss. But if you try have sex, he can get addicted. try fart near people and don't be ashamed because living of all sort fart and shite together. It is fun to fart right?
2007-02-06 14:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by tammuzjune 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
itwas very okay. i was in your same situation with a boy just like that. And we like each other alot. he is my brothers best friend though..so that is bad. but me and him are real close together and we talk about eev4erything. i do the same thing to him as u do to him.
it is not rudhing him at all!! he was a virgin when we liked each other and stuff..and guess what...i let him lose him virginty with me you know?!
its not eushing him or anything. blieveme
2007-02-06 14:05:26 · answer #6 · answered by alwaysandforeverhot16 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think thats a good idea, you could try to talk to him more and get him to overcome his shyness. hugs and kisses are ok just not too much until your a official couple, otherwise he might feel smoothered.
2007-02-06 14:07:22 · answer #7 · answered by Terry 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him know how you feel about him and if there is something between you guys take it slow and dont rush the relationship
2007-02-06 14:03:04 · answer #8 · answered by kauaichic420 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I suppose if you like things to go slower than laws through Congress than yes, go ahead and do that but if you want something to happen you have to do something more than that!
2007-02-06 14:03:07 · answer #9 · answered by PJ T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I think it is; providing you are not leading him on in anyway and if he's shy...you will have to do the work...or ask him out. (EX-SHY GUY SPEAKING HERE). Good Luck.
2007-02-06 14:03:45 · answer #10 · answered by E 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋