My bf and I live together. He gets in from work at 12am I'm already in bed sleep. The other morning he came in our bedroom and started clean of his nightstand and making all kinds of noise it was 4:30am I have to get up at 6am was I wrong for being mad at him. I said he did not mean to wake me up, but he knows how hard it is for me to go back to sleep.
2007-02-06 05:57:56 · 20 answers · asked by tae 1974 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Chances are he wanted some attention. Working different schedules is very hard on a relationship. There might be something bothering him and he wanted to get things off his chest. He knows your schedule. Talk to him with out focusing on how you were inconvenienced. Communicate or face the end of your relationship.
That or he wanted some quick nookie before going to bed.
2007-02-06 06:14:45 · answer #1 · answered by The Don 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Waking you up in the middle of the night is not something that would make anyone happy. I am sure you were upset and angry with him and that is ok. Of course it all depends on how you phrased the anger. He should have been much more considerate of the fact that you were asleep at the time and should have waited until you left for work. Maybe this is the way you should have handled it and I hope that by now you have adequately displayed your displeasure at the situation and told him not to do that again while you were asleep. One thing to keep in mind is always to remember you can turn the situation around and reverse roles and see how he would have liked you doing what he did if he had been asleep.
2007-02-06 06:03:51 · answer #2 · answered by Lewis P 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds immature. i do not understand the way someone so youthful may be so drained each and every of the time. he's unquestionably merely conserving that to you because i imagine he may be using you on your position right this moment for the reason that he won't be able to bypass living house. A trick I study (and that i have found works really nicely) is merely overlook about him. do not get all up in his business business enterprise, even even with the actuality that you actually favor to be with him and draw close out with him, act like you've different activities. merely bypass off and do your element, woman. bypass sit back consisting of your friends or do something that would not contain him. After awhile of you no longer being round, he will commence to ask your self the position you're and what you're as a lot as and then he should be the only asking you to loiter round.
2016-11-02 12:16:21 · answer #3 · answered by bason 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to be pissed off. But i can tell you this i dont know if its a guy thing but my bf also starts making noise really early when i have to get up and for some reason he cant understand that its hard for me to sleep with noise and once I'm awake its hard to go back to sleep it pisses me off. When he realized i meant business he stopped making so much noise and now he leaves quietly in the morning. We were arguing everyday over the same thing until he learned
2007-02-06 06:04:07 · answer #4 · answered by Lovely 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you kidding me? This is your idea of a serious argument? You need to let it go.
On the other hand, if this happens all the time, maybe there's an issue.
Being in a healthy relationship means that BOTH of you should be respectful of the other.
HE should try to be quiet getting into bed, but YOU should realize that if he inadvertently wakes you up, that's no reason to crap on his day.
2007-02-06 06:02:53 · answer #5 · answered by Joe Bostonian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be mad at first but if he honestly didn't mean to then you have no reason to be mad. I'm sure he didn't get up and say hmmm I think I'm going to wake her up today for the hell of it. It happens when you live with someone else sometimes.
2007-02-06 06:12:09 · answer #6 · answered by luvbugs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would have been mad. I hate when people wake me up because im a light sleeper. My bf used to wake up and 5am and i didn't have to get up until 7am. he used to piss me off. Just tell him that if he plans on doing something like cleaning do it in another room. He should understand.
2007-02-06 06:03:52 · answer #7 · answered by rain9439 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Have you spoken to him about it? If you have and he continues to either deliberately or carelessly wake you up....you have every right to be mad. He has to be considerate of your needs and feelings as well. Right now he just sounds selfish!
When he wakes you up, is it for a particular reason?
2007-02-06 06:05:22 · answer #8 · answered by Jay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes.If he knows you get up at 6 he should of waited.I don't think a night stand being cleaned is that urgent of an matter.If my girl did that I would get p!ssed
2007-02-06 06:05:09 · answer #9 · answered by Puddin 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you should be mad at him and he was just rude for waking you up. He knows what time you have to get up.
2007-02-06 06:01:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋