I have been going out with my boyfriend for 1 week and when he is with me he acts the way I like him. Normal. But when he is with his mates he acts as if he only wants me for sex. We haven't had sex and I'm not ready to yet. Which is his true personality? What should I do?
2007-02-06 05:28:57 · 22 answers · asked by owenmad 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Run I recommend he is not the one for you and nobody us...He is not good for you unless you like to be played by a fool...
2007-02-06 05:33:02 · answer #1 · answered by nena_en_austin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him that you don't like the way he treats you and you'll get your answer. If he asks like one personality more than the other then that is his true personality. Just set him down while yall are together and talk to him and just tell him how you feel and what his doing to you. Maybe he will change and be the Normal guy you want him to be. Some guys just think they have to be the MAN and act like there with you for sex and all that. Cause there not a MAN if there not getting any by what their friends say. So, his Normal personality is probably his orginal personality just around his friends he has to look good and be a MAN!
2007-02-06 13:34:58 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_girl_snglnlokn2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men always have something to prove, especially, when they're around other men or peers. I find his behaviour towards you disrespectful and insensitive. You're not his trophy! You're a woman who deserves his respect, that will cherish you, regardless, of whose company he's in. Respectfully, I'd confront him and discuss your thoughts, fears and/or questions. If you're not getting answers that will guarantee/offer you & the relationship the stability it deserves: respect, security, and happiness, then move on, before you get in too deep, emotionally.
Be Selective, because You Deserve it !!
Much Happiness 2 You!
2007-02-06 13:43:27 · answer #3 · answered by Cara 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his true personality is when he is with you. considering all guys want sex, he is just trying to look good and big in front of his friends. i would talk to him and tell him how you feel about the way he acts when he is around his friends. good luck!!
2007-02-06 13:32:38 · answer #4 · answered by sasha_miller_2008 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gather your both quite young, so i expect it is his way of looking good in front of his friends. Have a word with him and tell him how it makes you feel. If he still acts that way then i would say that no he isn't the one for you.
2007-02-06 13:36:03 · answer #5 · answered by Jazzybee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way in Hades is he the guy for you. One week and he wants sex--as soon as you give it, he'll drop you. I say dump him, because he's being two-faced, and if he was that into you for you, he'd respect you enough to be consistent in his treatment of you, no matter who's around.
2007-02-06 13:34:20 · answer #6 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you shoud put a couple things in perspective because of the fact he acts totally different in front of his friends and from my experience the way he acts in front of his friends is how he truly acts because if really cares about you he would act the same in front of his friends and also when he is alone with you
2007-02-06 13:35:45 · answer #7 · answered by tomi c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think both are the real him. I think when he is around his friends, he does'nt want to look like a nerd. I also feel, you'll know if it's real love. You will feel it in your heart, and know it in your head. Take care, and enjoy the romance. P.S. If what he says around his friends embrasses you, he needs to be told. If he quits talking like that, he really does care.
2007-02-06 13:37:02 · answer #8 · answered by gemandsue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask this question again when you've been going out for 1 year. If you sleep with someone after being with them for 7 days, you might be considered a ho-bag.
2007-02-06 13:32:23 · answer #9 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he can't be honest about his feelings in front of his friends then he can't be honest at all. Boys like this are a waste of time. He really isn't mature enough to be in a relationship and he certainly doesn't deserve you... xx
2007-02-06 13:39:39 · answer #10 · answered by lou lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men always show off infront of each other, its just a guy thing dont take it personal as long as his good to you thats the main thing.
2007-02-06 13:34:15 · answer #11 · answered by shayla x x 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋