Ok, so me and this girl were seeing each other for a bit, when out of nowhere she told me she just wanted to be friends. It went a little sour, and we stopped talking, but over the next 2 months we began talking more and more. She has now started texting me again, all the time (15+ per day), and the other day was trying to get me to meet up with her (indirectly of course).
Is this the friend-ship or should i try again?? If so, how should i ask her out without leaving myself too open?
2007-02-06 05:27:04 · 9 answers · asked by jon t 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Casually ask her via text if she ever has any regrets about you too 'cooling ' it off... If she thinks you're asking as her friend she'll be honest with you, just mention that you wonder what would may have been...
You should be able to tell from her response whether she is after more than friendship...
Good Luck xx
2007-02-06 05:45:55 · answer #1 · answered by lou lou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like she wants more than friends. She sounds clingy. Tell her that you want to be friends, but you can't answer 15 texts a day. That's overkill.
Chances are after things turned sour she played the field for a while, and when she didn't find anything good enough she came back. Kinda sketchy if you ask me.
2007-02-06 13:30:31 · answer #2 · answered by GLSigma3 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Meet up with her and see how she acts. If she is full on flirting with you then try again. Do you know if she is normally a flirty person or not. If she is then she might just want to be mates. Hope it all works out for you. Lv ya x x x
2007-02-06 13:31:50 · answer #3 · answered by owenmad 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't ask her out. She has had 2 months to think about it and realised she couldn't get anybody else. If she met someone in those two months do you think she would be texting you now ?
Look for someone else. Her loss
2007-02-06 13:41:29 · answer #4 · answered by Flying Scotsman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out, you have nothing to lose and everything to gain.
You'll be so glad if she says yes, and if she says no ? Well you'll be down for a while but you'll get over it and eventually find the right one for you.
2007-02-06 13:37:31 · answer #5 · answered by Doodle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her...... the worst she can say is she wants to be friends.....
2007-02-06 13:34:15 · answer #6 · answered by Somanyquestions,solittletime 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont do anything...stay like this..make her want you more.
and than she'll be wanting you NOW!..lol
2007-02-06 13:31:27 · answer #7 · answered by Gõlden angel 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just be friends and if she wants anything more she will tell you..... (or give you hints)
2007-02-06 13:30:28 · answer #8 · answered by calisrfgrl1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just get her drunk then make your move
2007-02-06 13:30:11 · answer #9 · answered by wilster 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋