Family & Relationships - 6 February 2007

I am not sure why and have tried to analyze myself a lot, but I do seem to attract men who I think are single but are in fact married or gay!. I go for men from 35 to 45 but who are well-built and/or tall because height/build matters to me.

I am 33 and very attractive and young looking even for my age but have done so much for my age and am a sincere, polite and very shy sort of person. I really am worried about getting older and never having a man in my life and have been single for two years now.I want genuine love and romance but just can't seem to have it because I am a recluse and too mature for clubbing.

I have no friends I can hang around with and am completely on my own and am trying to get a job after my last one ending at xmas. So my situation isn't great but that is also because I feel very down for being on my own and being surrounded by loved-up couples where I live in a shared house. I am trying to change my life but doing that on your own is so hard.

2007-02-06 14:16:44 · 11 answers · asked by Shikira-trudi 3 in Singles & Dating

and we're only 15. well he's 16, but yeah...isn't that too early to be thinking about who you will marry?
I know he loves me, but is that what every guy does??

2007-02-06 14:15:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, there is is this guy i really like, we have known each other for over a year now. from the day we met, we have got on heaps well. he flirted with me and everything, bought me drinks, kissed my hand, gav me his number etc anyways, about two months ago, my friend found out from him that he just really likes me as a friend and nothing more, and when my friend asked him why, he didnt say any reason. so ok, i, atm trying to move on and stuff, but he still flirts with me. wen i have had other guys u know look at me and stuff, he has said to me, "na, they are not good enough for u", so im confused. does he like me or not?

2007-02-06 14:14:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

WHAT KIND OF ADVICE WOULD SOMEONE GIVE TO A FRIEND WHO HAS A BOYFRIEND AND HER BOYFRIEND WAS VERY FRIENDLY AND COOL BEFORE THEY GOT TOGETHER AS BOYFRIEND AND GIRLFRIEND BUT NOW HE IS JUST ANNOYING AND TALKS BAD ABOUT HER AND IS VERY JEALOUS... HOW CAN I TELL HER WITHOUT HURTING HER FEELING??

2007-02-06 14:14:40 · 8 answers · asked by boo 1 in Friends

this friday is the first mardi gras parade. and my boyfriend is coming over and were going to the parade. It ends late and he cant drive past 11 bc of the driving curfew for 16 year olds. His mom said he could probly spend the night at my house friday night. shes gunna call my mom and dad thursday. Do you think theres a possiblity for him to spend the night? [sleeping on the couch downstairs]

2007-02-06 14:14:30 · 12 answers · asked by yahhahaha 1 in Family

when they do have a good guy right in their face, and he/they treats them right and does anything he can and what he knows to do for them/her and she treats him like dirt or the very same way she complains guys treat her? Not all girls are the same just like not all guys are the same, but why don't they just give the nice guy a chance for once? What are your thoughts on this?

2007-02-06 14:14:17 · 16 answers · asked by Icebox -0: Never Again 5 in Singles & Dating

Theres a girl that works on the same floor as me but on the other side of the room. weve told eachother hi once or twice but no serious conversation. for valentines day i wanted to leave a single rose and maybe some chocolates on her desk, and she probably wont know its from me. if something was to ever become of us of course i would tell her then. i dont really want her to know right now cause it might be awkward. i just want to give it to her because shes such a beautiful girl and im sure it will make her feel good. is this a dumb idea or should i go through with it.

2007-02-06 14:13:58 · 8 answers · asked by tecumshea200 2 in Singles & Dating

I keep on reading and hearing that. What does it mean? And why is the phrase like that? Is it slang?

2007-02-06 14:13:10 · 11 answers · asked by loveithateit 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

why do friends have to b sooo retarted!?!?
they wana fight over the stupidist stuff and it makes me mad!!!
lol girls just start too much drama!!! why?!?!?

2007-02-06 14:12:52 · 5 answers · asked by sara 2 in Friends

i met 2 guys who are pretty cool, and i got serious with one of them, we started dating a month ago and the second guy we became friends, we talk about everything including sex, but my problem started 5 days ago when my bf told me the guy i have been talking to was his friend and i had no idea they had been talking about me, well my bf never told his friend that he was with me, but he keeps accusing me of dating his friend, i tried explaining to him that i never knew they were friends and i was only friends with the other guy but he doesn't believe me, ok i decided to stop talking to the other guy, i haven't spoken to him in like 5 days bcoz i want to work things out with my bf, but now he won't speak to me, i called, emailed, texted but he is not answering, i don't know what to do, its like he is never gonna trust me and i am trying hard to make things work. should i just move on cuz i hate him not trusting me, im not cheating on him but he doesn't trust me.

2007-02-06 14:12:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-06 14:11:51 · 25 answers · asked by Yeah it's me................ 2 in Singles & Dating

He just asked me out five days ago... we really like each other... and we have been friends for over a year now. I have no idea what to get him! We are both newish with the dating scene. (We are 16 years old)

2007-02-06 14:11:03 · 11 answers · asked by rockisdead123 2 in Singles & Dating

i like this guy a lot but im not forsure if he likes me...wut are signs of if he does? will he be sweet , flirty, wut please tell me thanks!!

2007-02-06 14:10:13 · 13 answers · asked by neverletgo105 1 in Singles & Dating

i was talk'n to a friend at work about this beautiful girl i like and i guess he knew her. He offered her number and all of her other information but i refused, wanting to get it myself. I heard today at work from a close friend that the other kid told this girl some stuff at a party about me saying that im in love with her and stuff. My friend told me that when he told her this she seemed sorta wierded out and said "we can be friends..." I wasnt heading for a straight forward relationship with her but would have loved the chance to have one and i sorta feel that this kid messed it up for me by telling her that. My question is, if wanted to, do you think he would have really messed it up for me if i tried or, should i just settle for just friends?

2007-02-06 14:10:08 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a messanger account but I can't get my friends to message me!! A few of them have 'em, but they NEVER chat. Should I just keep myself open and hope, or confront them directly? We had it for a few days but they got busy and forgot. Any suggestions on how to get them on messanger and STAY on messanger?

2007-02-06 14:09:53 · 2 answers · asked by plopple 2 in Friends

I am doing a sociological research for my class. It has to do with kids - I have none so I was wondering if you parents out their would be able to help me.

The number of couples not having children is slowly rising. As a parent, what do you think of couples who decide not to have any kids?

2007-02-06 14:09:41 · 9 answers · asked by Namaste 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

I had just gone through a very bad broke-up with a guy I was seeing for 3years. 8 months after that my friend who I had gone to university with 5 years ago suddenly asked me out. He had always liked me, and asked me out several times in the past, so this time I decided to give love a chance but recently I think he has started taking me for granted, we don’t talk about deep things like we used, he kept talking about his ex-girl friend, which I told him I didn’t particularly appreciate, he sometimes makes sarcastic comments about me. One minute he can be the sweet kind considerate guy who used to care so much about my feelings, and the next minute he leaves me wondering who he is. We have been going out for 3 months, I feel like cutting my loses and leaving now, I’m really not about to go through another 3 years of the horrible traumatic nightmare I’ve just only recently come out from, I couldn’t bear THAT again. Should I end it now and try going back to being friends?

2007-02-06 14:08:53 · 6 answers · asked by Lina 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-06 14:08:51 · 14 answers · asked by Nick C 1 in Singles & Dating

I like a guy named Taylor and he is going out with my friend Lauren. I think he's nice sweet and sexy!

2007-02-06 14:08:40 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

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2007-02-06 14:08:35 · 13 answers · asked by daniel s 1 in Family

ok well im going out with my ex's best friend which im thinkin of breaking off for various reasons.....neways my best friend told me dat she likes my ex but i still like him too(one of the reasons i might break up with my boyfriend) and i want her to be happy but i know if i do ill get hurt in the makeing well i dont want to talk to my best friend about it because she hooked me up with my current boyfriend and she wants to see it work out i just dont what to do,,,,

2007-02-06 14:08:05 · 4 answers · asked by *meggie* 2 in Singles & Dating

First off, i just found out that i am pregnant, i am about 5 weeks now. to make a long story short my husband is in the military and about to deploy in march. Now saturday, he just up andleft, we weren't even fighting. so i drove 2 hrs and got ahotel and the closet airport. and an hour before my flight he called begging me not to leave so i didn't. I gave him a drug test and he showed positive for extasty...and weed..and he was so apologetic and i forgave him. Now it is only tuesday and he is treating me like crap, he calls me retarded stupid and shut the f**k up! also he got into trouble a while ago and got a field grade article 15 so he had 42 days of extra duty and he is about half way threw now, but he wasn't approved for leave and he wants to go awall and if he does they will put him in the barracks...please someone give me advice on what i should do...i am so scared about having a child with him like this...thanks

2007-02-06 14:07:57 · 23 answers · asked by alexandra82387 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Especially after sex? When I am at my bf's, he puts a towel underneath but a few times we leaked and he would change the sheets. I am lazier though and don't want to change the sheets unless necessary. Do I change them after each time we have sex?

2007-02-06 14:07:42 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

This would be our first Valentines Day together. Thanks!

2007-02-06 14:07:26 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm thinking of not going to senior prom because i don't like the loud music and the dancing. Should i still go even if i don't want to do either?

2007-02-06 14:07:18 · 10 answers · asked by Claire 1 in Friends

I am in a bad marriage. We are on the verdge of divorce. Just can't make it official. There is this guy at work who is so sweet to me, always complimenting. Knows my situation. HOT!!!! He always asks me to go out for a drink, or dinner, and I always come up with an excuse. I have avoided all male attention for so long because of my jealous husband, that I do not know how to handle this. Im so flattered but I feel like a 15 year old. So scared of not being with my husband because i am in my comfort zone. Am I just craving this person from work because I am so starved at home, or could this be the real deal?

2007-02-06 14:07:11 · 18 answers · asked by Candie 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Ive liked him for awhile. and im about 80% sure he likes me back. but he is quite shy so i dont think hes ready for any kinda "askin me out" stuff cuz he thinks that i dont like him. What should I do to get his attention so he will realize that I DO like him. I don’t want to do anything irrational like ask him out or kiss him...or something but I do want something. Any help?

2007-02-06 14:06:39 · 14 answers · asked by englefontingle 2 in Singles & Dating

How can i tell if he is seriously liking me , give me signs . Thank you

2007-02-06 14:06:18 · 6 answers · asked by Heaven <3 1 in Singles & Dating

So I've been dating this guy for almost three years now. We care very much for each other but I know he's not the one for me. He's 12 years older than me and he already has kids that he does not live with. I recently found out that I'm pregnant with his kid and I don't know what to do for a few reasons.

He's moving to AZ and has asked me to go with him but I don't want to. I have a good job here, not to mention this is the second time I've faced this. Against my better judgment I decided not to carry the child because he didn't think it was a good time and wanted to wait. I regretted this decision because II know I could have made it work by myself. I vowed I would go it alone next time if I had to.

The other thing is that there is someone else that I've loved for years and I do think he's the one. I was hoping to rekindle a relationship with him. I know that this other guy loves me but I'm worried that he won't want me if I have another man's child.

What should I do?

2007-02-06 14:05:53 · 18 answers · asked by Ms. CityKitty 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been going out for a week now and his parents are going out of town from tomorrow until Saturday. We're both pretty sexual people except we wanted to wait for a little while before going beyond kissing. Unfortunately, I got my period on Monday so I really can't do anything as much as I want to. I really wanna like sit in his lap and be physical, but I just feel weird because of my stupid period. How do I even bring up the fact that I'm on my period so I can't really do anything more than just kissing, and how do I not feel bad about that?

2007-02-06 14:05:41 · 10 answers · asked by gobi_manchurian_07 2 in Singles & Dating