I had just gone through a very bad broke-up with a guy I was seeing for 3years. 8 months after that my friend who I had gone to university with 5 years ago suddenly asked me out. He had always liked me, and asked me out several times in the past, so this time I decided to give love a chance but recently I think he has started taking me for granted, we don’t talk about deep things like we used, he kept talking about his ex-girl friend, which I told him I didn’t particularly appreciate, he sometimes makes sarcastic comments about me. One minute he can be the sweet kind considerate guy who used to care so much about my feelings, and the next minute he leaves me wondering who he is. We have been going out for 3 months, I feel like cutting my loses and leaving now, I’m really not about to go through another 3 years of the horrible traumatic nightmare I’ve just only recently come out from, I couldn’t bear THAT again. Should I end it now and try going back to being friends?
2007-02-06 14:08:53 · 6 answers · asked by Lina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Talk to him and tell him how you feel
2007-02-06 14:11:34 · answer #1 · answered by zen522 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear stranger (ambeeryi)
I feel your pain and i know how it can be! sometimes you decide to give up on love totally but then when you see other people happily in love, you wonder whether there is something wrong with you and decide to give it another try but it sadly turns out as the sam eold thing. At first, they are the sweetest things ever but after a few months or weeks as the case may be, they start acting like idiots! What can one do in this life than keep looking up to God, the author and finisher of our faith...is real wa oh!!!
2007-02-06 14:59:01 · answer #2 · answered by bima67 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been in many relationships like that before. The guys are sooo sweet in the begininng and then their true self comes out after a couple months. I would recomend breaking up with him, and dont even bother being frinds with him. If he does not respect you, and takes you for granted and talks about his ex when you are dating...sorry but that doesnt seem like someone i would want to be frineds with.
When you are friends with someone, and then date them, you can never go back to the way things used to be. Its just diffrent, they are diffrent. You get to see them for who they really are. Just break up with him, its only been 3 months so do it now before it gets more serious. Dont be friends with him, but dont be enimies. Just be civil, but you should break up with him because it will probably just get worse.
2007-02-06 14:19:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him why he is acting like that. probably in some way, you are maybe taking him for granted too. ask first. its better you know the reason first before you decide to leave him. you might regret it in the end. ask yourself how much can you take... good luck
2007-02-06 14:13:02 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how you fell and if it's a friendship he wants from you you'll know for sure, and if not cut your lose you'll be better off...
2007-02-06 14:16:25 · answer #5 · answered by Ray C. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him to shut up and tell him to listen to your problems
2007-02-06 14:14:48 · answer #6 · answered by Orange? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋