Family & Relationships - 5 February 2007

My boyfriend wants to move to another city next year, he asked me to go with and I decided that I would if we get engaged. I have a good job and my own career path and don't want to just pick up and leave without proper commitment. He said that he is not ready to take this step, for various reasons being:
He wants to be settled first; He does not get along with my family; and He does have money but not to spend on an engagement ring.

He says that we are going to be married someday, and wants me to move with him anyway. I feel that if he wants to spend the rest of his life with me, then he will do whatever needs to be done. I feel torn..we have discussed this, it just goes round in circles..either we get engaged (he is still struggling with the idea and how to make it happened) OR its over. Long distance is not even an option, we both know it won't work? I want him to ask me to be his wife because he loves me (which he does), out of his own free will; I don't want to lose him.

2007-02-05 21:03:19 · 23 answers · asked by sexybabe 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-05 21:03:15 · 16 answers · asked by Basket-santa 6 in Singles & Dating

I meet a western guy a month ago. Well i guess i like him! Actually im an Asian girl. Weve been doing doing sex 2 times. I dont know.....and i dont understand, what happen to me! This is not me...he is not my bf nor his not courting me. We both know that we are just freinds. I just wonder why He is calling me on my mobile, asking me that he wants to meet me. What is his purpose? Am i a sex object? Absolutely he only wants sex! Right? But what will i do. MY mind tells me not to see him but my heart tells me, Common .come and enjoy.!How to let go with this feeling? Actually he is poisoning my mind. His always telling me to enjoy life. But i cant, i raise up wit my parents in an very asian way of discipline. Im ust wondering why..... Can you imagine were spending christmas together on the bed.... Do u think he likes me or should i be martyr enough to wait until he will asked me to be his gf or just let things happen until he will wake up one day realizing that he likes me. Please help.

2007-02-05 21:03:04 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i have a piczo site and there is this annonymous boy that keeps on being rude to me and he fancies my mate i think, he said my mate is the one for me, and he says he knows me well and he said that i speak to him everytime he comes on but he doesnt like it, and i asked him who he is he said just tell your mate that i think shes hot and that i speak to her on msn and webcam, then i started insulting him and he said stop talking to me i rather speak to your mate than you, then i told my mate and she said shes not interested in him but he keeps on saying oh shes the one for me and being horrible me, i think i know who it is because it sounds obvious and i dont get it, because he said he doesnt like talking to me on msn but he speaking to me on my site and he wont tell me his name, i think it is the boy i fancy thats trying to do this and its upseting me and before the boy thought me and my mate are now hes saying he loves my mate do u think he fancies me or my mate or waht should i do?

2007-02-05 21:01:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-02-05 21:01:09 · 10 answers · asked by questioner 1 in Friends

2007-02-05 20:59:35 · 7 answers · asked by questioner 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

From banging the crap out of my leg on the coffee table reaching for the remote to change the channel!

2007-02-05 20:57:38 · 14 answers · asked by moltisanti 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 20:57:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend & I met in 2000 a wk after starting uni, were together til Dec 05 when he dumped me, we were having problems but I didnt realise they were that bad.We got back 2gthr end Feb 06. We sorted our problems, re-built our relationship, moved in 2gthr & are v happy together. I think overall the break made our relationship stronger.

But it hurt me so much as I never stopped loving him & it was me that pushed to get back together, not him asking for me back.

He told me that while we were apart he had a relationship with a girl he met before we broke up. Only 3wks after they got together he slept with her, they did it about 10times over a 1-1.5 months relationship before he ended it.

I only slept with him after 1.5 yrs & considered waiting for marriage. I'm not really religious but it really meant a lot 2 me that we'd only slept with each other. Now that's gone & I dont know how to deal with it. It doesnt feel the same and I keep thinking about him with her. What can I do?

2007-02-05 20:57:00 · 25 answers · asked by Kat W 2 in Singles & Dating

His family is very close to my husband and I - his uncle was the best man at our wedding, and his step-father was the minister. He joined the Army and graduated from basic training last August, and now is gone. I know that the, "I'm sorry for your loss," and, "He's in a better place," crap doesn't matter - it makes no difference, I speak from the experience of losing both of my parents, one in the last year. What do I say or do for them to make any difference, even just a small one? He meant so much to so many people, and has a twin sister and three younger sisters.... I'm just at a loss.

2007-02-05 20:56:47 · 9 answers · asked by jhostman 3 in Friends

I can't find them and my hands are sooooooooo cold!!!

2007-02-05 20:55:40 · 15 answers · asked by Basket-santa 6 in Singles & Dating

single guy from near Belfast !!!! 38yrs old

2007-02-05 20:55:03 · 10 answers · asked by Irish Jonnie x 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 20:54:35 · 10 answers · asked by kayze1958 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 20:54:17 · 9 answers · asked by jashim_hmm07 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 20:52:23 · 9 answers · asked by questioner 1 in Singles & Dating

Well so My friend Is like years younger then me , 12 turning 13 , and she asked me for advice.
I don't know how to reply , so please help me out with this question? so she has a crush on a guy!but she pretends she dosnt like him ,but she said she wants to be his friend now , and she dosnt know how to make friends with him!keep in mind there 12-13 guys!

2007-02-05 20:49:42 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If your parents let you get a marriage in vegas when you were 16 by signing you over, and then you get older and change, and want to leave.... should you be responsible for the marriage or your parents. sorry to sound so confusing.

2007-02-05 20:49:21 · 12 answers · asked by siayae 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-02-05 20:48:31 · 5 answers · asked by silent killer 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend and I have been dating for over 2 years. She is 19 and I am 22 though we are young we have talked about marriage and I really love her. Now she and I go to school on diffrent sides of the country. It is her 7th week in school and she has been dating a guy out there she has even kissed him a couple times. I told her to date while she was out there but im still having a hard time with this. I go out and see her in 10 days after i leave she will only have like 4 more weeks of school left. Im trying to be ok with her seeing this other guy I know she and I are young. So pretty much If I make a big deal we will break up and she will date away. But I love her and im trying to let her date and find her self. Is what I am doing a Bad idea? She still talks to me every night and say she loves me and I am the one she wants to be with but she feels like she need space and wants to date. I love her so im gonna just wait it out I guess, Is this normal am I doing right.

2007-02-05 20:47:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

to send greetings for marriage/ anniversary/ congratulatory message

2007-02-05 20:45:42 · 8 answers · asked by suha 1 in Weddings

guys i have a huge crush on my friend and i told him but it was after he started going out with someone else so we decided to just be friends but then he comes around my place to chill and we sometimes go out for lunch I would really like to tell him how i feel especially since the girl he is dating seems like she's not that much into the relationship.....but then he is so hung up on her so recently i decided to stop hanging with him and move on..... was that a right decision though?

2007-02-05 20:45:35 · 3 answers · asked by Nokuthula 2 in Singles & Dating

You know what I mean--the T-Mobile commercial, where you have 5 favorite numbers.....do you put your friend's girlfriend in your fav. 5? Or is that just a bit questionable?

2007-02-05 20:43:48 · 5 answers · asked by specialone18 5 in Friends

I am Asian, so my culture may be a lot different but I would like to know the opinion of ppls from multi culture.

2007-02-05 20:42:57 · 7 answers · asked by markk2u 1 in Family

2007-02-05 20:41:10 · 7 answers · asked by jashim_hmm07 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-02-05 20:40:36 · 11 answers · asked by skant42 2 in Singles & Dating

experience please.
he's my 1st bf, we've been going out for a year and he's transfering to a far away school.
help.

2007-02-05 20:40:36 · 15 answers · asked by nepenthe 1 in Singles & Dating

I make her happy everytime she's sad & I give everything she wants. But how can I tell her that I love & care for her so much?

2007-02-05 20:40:30 · 15 answers · asked by HADEZ 1 in Singles & Dating

Non Jews keep out!

2007-02-05 20:39:56 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 20:39:11 · 24 answers · asked by x_RiNkU_x 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-02-05 20:37:33 · 8 answers · asked by vaithi d 1 in Singles & Dating